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LordDominik -> Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 3:19:08 AM)
*I was curious as to how many of you, Dom or sub, male or female, have listed in your profile that you are Straight, but are actually bi-curious, or bi-sexual under very limited circumstances?* *~ LD*

Brosco -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 3:23:30 AM)
<--- lists nothing in my profile because I aint looking. Male.. hetro.. if it matters to anyone towards assessing my opinions expressed. Brosco

LeatherBentOne -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 4:01:39 AM)
May I ask your intent in posing this question? LeatherBentOne

LaMalinche -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 4:57:41 AM)
What? Once again the Switches get left out? I have it in my profile. . . But, that said, a reason not for listing it in a profile is to prevent every whanker that has ever dreamed of having a three-some with two females from emailing you. Or if you meet them in meatlife, from asking you to do it. Note to whankers. . . Three-somes, much like communism, look really good on paper, but rarely work out. And just because I am a bi-sexual switch does not mean that I am pathalogically incapable of making up my mind!

sabswife -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 6:34:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaMalinche What? Once again the Switches get left out? I have it in my profile. . . But, that said, a reason not for listing it in a profile is to prevent every whanker that has ever dreamed of having a three-some with two females from emailing you. Or if you meet them in meatlife, from asking you to do it. Note to whankers. . . Three-somes, much like communism, look really good on paper, but rarely work out. And just because I am a bi-sexual switch does not mean that I am pathalogically incapable of making up my mind! Why be so defensive, if you are comfortable with your choices there is no need to defend them. As for the OP, i am listed as bi in my profile-- although i have considered changing it to straight as i have no interest in anyone other than my Dom.

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 6:39:44 AM)
I am listed as straight in my profile, and I state in my profile that I am not bi....

Sab -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 6:43:29 AM)
I have a profile, and am certainly not looking - and striaght.

gooddogbenji -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 6:51:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordDominik *I was curious as to how many of you, Dom or sub, male or female, have listed in your profile that you are Straight, but are actually bi-curious, or bi-sexual under very limited circumstances?* *~ LD* Very limited circumstances - a guy puts a gun to my head - suddenly I'm very bisexual, as is almost everyone else on here. And why is Straight capitalized, and the rest not? And why the hell do you care? Sorry, I just don't do well with stupid questions. Yours, benji

Bearlee -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:22:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sab I have a profile, and am certainly not looking - and striaght. ...poke... You're not straight? grinz...not that it matters one hoot! ...just that I have brothers and like to tease. beverly

Sab -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:30:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee quote: ORIGINAL: Sab I have a profile, and am certainly not looking - and striaght. ...poke... You're not straight? grinz...not that it matters one hoot! ...just that I have brothers and like to tease. beverly [:'(]

gooddogbenji -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:31:43 AM)
Hey Sab, I just heard you're not straight... I know a perfectly good sub for Sab.... He's 6'4", 270# of muscle, and just HOT! You'd love him! Yours, benji

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:36:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji quote: ORIGINAL: LordDominik *I was curious as to how many of you, Dom or sub, male or female, have listed in your profile that you are Straight, but are actually bi-curious, or bi-sexual under very limited circumstances?* *~ LD* Very limited circumstances - a guy puts a gun to my head - suddenly I'm very bisexual, as is almost everyone else on here. And why is Straight capitalized, and the rest not? And why the hell do you care? Sorry, I just don't do well with stupid questions. Yours, benji Hey Benji, If a guy puts a gun to my head, does that make me bisexual?

spankmepink11 -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:37:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordDominik *I was curious as to how many of you, Dom or sub, male or female, have listed in your profile that you are Straight, but are actually bi-curious, or bi-sexual under very limited circumstances?* *~ LD* The opposite is true in my case.. I selected the "Bi" option because while i don't usually seek to be intimate with a lone female(although there have been times) I can't say that i am completely hetero. I certainly can and do find females to be sensual and erotic. I generally prefer a Male presence when with a female, but there was not a "situationally Bi" option.

Bearlee -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:37:38 AM)
LOL

IronBear -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:38:00 AM)
I list myself as bisexual but in reality it is a very limited bisexuality... < "Listen you arsewipe, keep your cock out of my mouth and arse or I will fead it with your balls to you for breakfast if you have recovered from the amputation and the boiling tar being used to stop the bleading! Got it?" > Mostly it means with me that i have no problems handling a male slave sexually and non sexually.

Sab -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:40:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji Hey Sab, I just heard you're not straight... I know a perfectly good sub for Sab.... He's 6'4", 270# of muscle, and just HOT! You'd love him! Yours, benji Is this where I say kneel!? But - even if they did, at 6'4" they would come up to my shoulders! LOL

Bearlee -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:42:30 AM)
Yeah... there's not even a bi-curious! <smiles> While I've never had a 'girlfriend'...I've been with a few women (and long before my interest in bdsm, oddly) and lusted after a few more. I'm primarily hetro...couldn't partner up with a woman...(dang, do you KNOW how 'political' that is?), but I try to be as honest in my profile as I can. Mine states I'm 'bi', too. Course...there IS always the 'woo-hoo' factor when a Dom reads that little piece of information... heh heh heh beverly

MdmSarah -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 7:51:06 AM)
Kinsey looks at sexual orientation as a continuum, and I think that's very appropriate. There's homosexual at one end, heterosexual at the other - and a lot of space in between. Just as one doesn't necessarily fall into "dominant", "submissive" or "switch", one doesn't necessarily fit "straight", "bisexual" or "gay". Declaring oneself "bisexual" online for women is an open invitation for boys trolling for threesomes with another women (but rarely an offer for a threesome with 2 men which might actually be interesting). Such approaches are usually crude and work on the assumption that bisexual = willing to do anyone anytime.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 8:34:06 AM)
I'm curious to know the reasoning behind the question as well. I state I am bisexual, because I consider myself bisexual. (or pansexual or omnisexual, take whatever label of choice for "is open to relationships with all sexual orientations")

LaMalinche -> RE: Sexual Orientation (6/18/2006 8:59:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sabswife quote: ORIGINAL: LaMalinche And just because I am a bi-sexual switch does not mean that I am pathalogically incapable of making up my mind! Why be so defensive, if you are comfortable with your choices there is no need to defend them. Umm. . . that was for humor value. I have stated on the switch board several times that we (Switches) are not pathalogically incapable of making up our minds. Add to that the fact that I am bi-sexual. . . well you can see where the confusion lies. I am not really defensive. . . I was chuckling to myself when I wrote it because I think it sounds funny. As my profile states. . . I have something that I use as a sense of humor. I do not claim that it is one. I hope that you and Sab have a great day. goes off muttering. . . misread again. . . the horror. . . the shame. . . the ignomy. . Story of my life I think that I may need to take humor 101, only they do not offer it here.

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