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DarkSteven -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 4:18:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.


Sorry to be this blunt, but I read your profile, and i basically said, "I will have sex with anybody in any combination or role." It's no wonder you're having bad luck.




littlewonder -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:15:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.


Wow...I guess this born and bred gal must have been at all the wrong bdsm stuff and apparently CM was just a joke since I met Master here almost 10 years ago. And all those munches and play parties that I created and ran in PA....yeah, they were just all females wanting money from men...righto then! [8|]




littlewonder -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:19:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.




Dude, you haven't been here long at all. There are people who have been here for YEARS and are still looking. Hell, I was single on here and other bdsm sites for 8 years before I met Master here on CM.

Ya know, finding a gal here isn't any different than finding a gal anywhere else. When you go out in the real world do you say "oh, I've been sitting here waiting for a girl for a week and still no one has shown up at my door. It sure is difficult." Or....do you just go on with your life, put yourself out there, and hope that one day you meet the right gal....bdsm isn't any different.

Please people....stop. Bdsm isn't going to make your search somehow magically any easier or better or special.




xssve -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:41:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I don't think cm people are any more or less picky than any other people. We're all people the same as anyone else looking for whatever it is they are looking for. Personally, when I was on POF, match.com, americansingles.com and many others, my profile was exactly the same as my one on here and funny enough, I found the same men hanging out there as on here and bondage.com lol. They were still the same person on both sites.

People are people no matter what it is they are seeking. Everyone in the end is seeking the same things.


Well you tend to find what you're looking for don't you?

I can usually read between the lines in PoF or any of the other sites, but it's overall a more eclectic crowd - I mean it isn't necessarily a quality of the site, it's more the sort of people that frequent the site - and sorry, kinky people tend to date other kinky people pretty exclusively, and that's selective, i.e., if you're looking for a vanilla hookup, anybody with a pulse will do - read the sub profiles in here they all want somebody experienced who can play them like a fine violin, casual players and hook up artists need not apply - again, that's picky by comparison - don't tell me you're going to date Joe Vanilla if he happens to wander in here, most of the subs in here will call him an HNG and rip him a new asshole.

But that said, I met my babygirl on PoF, talking about something completely different, lol.





ccc3333 -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:41:21 PM)

Whats your problem...?

It can take 1 hour or 1 lifetime... to find that 1.... just because it took you 8 years doesn't mean it'll take anyone that long, nor will i be happy if it takes that long... (jinxing myself). Been here 1 month very involved... this isn't the only site i look on either ... i finally am having one date... so i'm happy about that... keeping an open mind.

For me YEARS is too long, my search is very intense.
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.




Dude, you haven't been here long at all. There are people who have been here for YEARS and are still looking. Hell, I was single on here and other bdsm sites for 8 years before I met Master here on CM.

Ya know, finding a gal here isn't any different than finding a gal anywhere else. When you go out in the real world do you say "oh, I've been sitting here waiting for a girl for a week and still no one has shown up at my door. It sure is difficult." Or....do you just go on with your life, put yourself out there, and hope that one day you meet the right gal....bdsm isn't any different.

Please people....stop. Bdsm isn't going to make your search somehow magically any easier or better or special.






EsotericLady -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:45:18 PM)

Actually, I thought the same thing that DarkSteven said when I read the profile.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.


Sorry to be this blunt, but I read your profile, and i basically said, "I will have sex with anybody in any combination or role." It's no wonder you're having bad luck.





littlewonder -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:54:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: xssve


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I don't think cm people are any more or less picky than any other people. We're all people the same as anyone else looking for whatever it is they are looking for. Personally, when I was on POF, match.com, americansingles.com and many others, my profile was exactly the same as my one on here and funny enough, I found the same men hanging out there as on here and bondage.com lol. They were still the same person on both sites.

People are people no matter what it is they are seeking. Everyone in the end is seeking the same things.


Well you tend to find what you're looking for don't you?

I can usually read between the lines in PoF or any of the other sites, but it's overall a more eclectic crowd - I mean it isn't necessarily a quality of the site, it's more the sort of people that frequent the site - and sorry, kinky people tend to date other kinky people pretty exclusively, and that's selective, i.e., if you're looking for a vanilla hookup, anybody with a pulse will do - read the sub profiles in here they all want somebody experienced who can play them like a fine violin, casual players and hook up artists need not apply - again, that's picky by comparison - don't tell me you're going to date Joe Vanilla if he happens to wander in here, most of the subs in here will call him an HNG and rip him a new asshole.

But that said, I met my babygirl on PoF, talking about something completely different, lol.




Honestly, the same men I talked to on POF, always found me over here as well because I always used the same photos. I would say at least half the men were the same people on both sites. They just made innuendos in their pof profile instead of just coming right out and saying what they were seeking. I've never felt a need to hide my desires so for me it was always quite obvious because my profiles were exactly the same.




littlewonder -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 5:56:59 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Whats your problem...?

It can take 1 hour or 1 lifetime... to find that 1.... just because it took you 8 years doesn't mean it'll take anyone that long, nor will i be happy if it takes that long... (jinxing myself). Been here 1 month very involved... this isn't the only site i look on either ... i finally am having one date... so i'm happy about that... keeping an open mind.

For me YEARS is too long, my search is very intense.
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.




Dude, you haven't been here long at all. There are people who have been here for YEARS and are still looking. Hell, I was single on here and other bdsm sites for 8 years before I met Master here on CM.

Ya know, finding a gal here isn't any different than finding a gal anywhere else. When you go out in the real world do you say "oh, I've been sitting here waiting for a girl for a week and still no one has shown up at my door. It sure is difficult." Or....do you just go on with your life, put yourself out there, and hope that one day you meet the right gal....bdsm isn't any different.

Please people....stop. Bdsm isn't going to make your search somehow magically any easier or better or special.






I think you just have this idea in your head that you're immediately going to find someone whereas most people in the world search half a lifetime or more to find that person they want to spend the rest of their life with.

It seems people come here expecting this to be an instamate place.




NuevaVida -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/11/2013 7:24:35 PM)

I've gone out with three men from this site. Two were for just 2-3 months (not at the same time), until we realized we weren't a match - no hard feelings, just time to move on. The third is the one I've been with for nearly 4 years now.

I'm personally not part of the BDSM scene in my area, although there are several clubs. Truth is, with all the bickering between groups that I've seen on Fet, my local scene just seems seriously fucked up to me. I went to a few MAsT meetings which were pretty cool, but never hung out long enough to establish friendships. I didn't see much outside of BDSM I could relate to with many of those folks.

I did meet a friend from CM, who is local to me, and the Mister & I have become very good friends with him and his slave; we're going to their wedding in March, in fact (and they met here, too).





philblack -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (11/27/2014 5:25:38 AM)

i find cm hard to find locals in my area




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (11/27/2014 5:40:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: philblack

i find cm hard to find locals in my area

And you dredged up a thread almost *2* years old to say this??? [8|]

Use the search feature.... it does work.




DarkSteven -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (11/27/2014 5:41:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: philblack

i find cm hard to find locals in my area


So your experience is that with an essentially blank profile and one bad pic, you haven't met anyone suitable in the nine days you've been here.




MzLovely -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 11:58:23 AM)

Hello I am new to this new site but I was on the old site. Can anyone tell Me where I might find the chat again.
Thanks,
MzLovely




SinFix -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:21:04 PM)

MzLovely, it appears they have done away with that feature




stef -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:28:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SinFix

MzLovely, it appears they have done away with that feature

Since when?

Click the black box that says "COLLARSPACE.COM" in the top left corner of this page then click on "Chatrooms" on the left side of the next page.




SinFix -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:29:22 PM)

I think she meant the actual chat feature that side used to have...not the chatrooms




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:29:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SinFix

MzLovely, it appears they have done away with that feature

I see it on my screens and am currently logged into the Lobby.

It's the same place as it's always been on the old CM site.




SinFix -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:31:17 PM)

It isn't on my screen anymore... not talking the chatrooms, that is still there but they had a "IM" feature you could use, that is no longer there




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:33:30 PM)

Ah!! Yes.
I think for most people, that feature didn't work very well if at all.
I haven't seen it for a while either.




SinFix -> RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slave in the US? Thoughs..? (1/5/2015 12:35:31 PM)

[;)]You're forgiven..
When she said chat and that it wasn't there, I took it to mean the "IM" feature and not the chatrooms, cause the chatroom button is still there..




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