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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 10:06:23 PM   
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Oh, and the "men are defective women" quote you can attribute to me. What I mean by that is that we are measured by female standards. And when we predictably fail to measure up to those standards then we are "base", "slovenly", "incompetent", "child-like", "can't clean a house", "can't cook a meal", etc.


Yeah, I know I'll get torn to pieces on this but I put fault on the dissolving family where many men are not part of the family anymore. Men are leaving their chidren behind, leaving many women single to raise those children alone, thus there are no father figures around, no one to teach these boys how to be men, how to treat human beings in the way they should be treated...not just women...but all humans.

So therefore, we're left with women who are raising these boys and I'm sorry, a boy needs a father in his life or at least a male father type role model to teach him many things. Yes, at least he has one parent and his mom is around to be there for him but unfortunately many of these boys stay as boys. I'm not saying ALL, I'm saying many.

We need in tact families again with both a mother and a father if we ever want to see any of this to change imo.



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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 10:38:57 PM   
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Oh, and the "men are defective women" quote you can attribute to me. What I mean by that is that we are measured by female standards. And when we predictably fail to measure up to those standards then we are "base", "slovenly", "incompetent", "child-like", "can't clean a house", "can't cook a meal", etc.


Yeah, I know I'll get torn to pieces on this but I put fault on the dissolving family where many men are not part of the family anymore. Men are leaving their chidren behind, leaving many women single to raise those children alone, thus there are no father figures around, no one to teach these boys how to be men, how to treat human beings in the way they should be treated...not just women...but all humans.

So therefore, we're left with women who are raising these boys and I'm sorry, a boy needs a father in his life or at least a male father type role model to teach him many things. Yes, at least he has one parent and his mom is around to be there for him but unfortunately many of these boys stay as boys. I'm not saying ALL, I'm saying many.

We need in tact families again with both a mother and a father if we ever want to see any of this to change imo.

One of the few times I watched Oprah, it was about how men get treated by many of their wives once the kids come along.. They showed one clip of the hubby and his wife barely noticed he came home, he looked like he was lost, confused, he felt like he was just in the way.. Once his sperm donor duty was over, he seemed to be little more than a paycheck... In those types of relationships no wonder the men leave.. The main relationship between the husband and wife seemingly disappears.. It's all about the kids.. Then 10 or 20 years later they don't even know each other.. What's left when the kids don't need mommy and daddy? Frequently its divorce, if it doesn't happen much sooner..

Just sayin

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 11:15:01 PM   
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and many times the wives ignore the husband is because she's still busy running after the children, making dinner, keeping the kids from killing each other or the dog, making sure homework is done, kids are cleaned up and ready for dinner, getting their stuff ready for school the next day, making sure all lunches are packed, even his. She's exhausted. The last thing she wants to do is have to talk to him and ask him what his day was like.

I know when my daughter was little and my husband was still alive, he would come home from work and I would beg and plead him to take her for just an hour to allow me to sleep or at least just rest. I really didn't care what his day was like but I also knew that if he would just give me an hour's peace, I would then be able to regain a little energy to ask him how his day went, give him a kiss and a hug before getting dinner ready, washing his uniforms, ironing them, sewing on patches that needed to be sewn on, etc....

Unfortunately a lot of men get married and just assume that his wife is going to be the same woman he married after the children are born. They expect her to have time for him still even after being home all day with the kids. Then add into it if mom also works and then has to come home and do all the chores still.

This is why when married men tell me about their marriages and how bad it is, I ask them when was the last time he did something for her, asked her if she needed some time alone, etc....amazingly this almost always ends up being the problem....at least 75% of the time. I tell him to make playdates for them....even if it means getting a hotel for a coupe of hours a week or a babysitter, etc....remind each other why you love the other, what attracted you to each other in the first place.

People get married and they expect the fairytale...even men. It doesn't work that way.


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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 11:21:22 PM   
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Calling men Dogs is an insult to dogs.
Dogs are adorable,cuddly, loving, caring, protective and loyal...I've yet to meet a man who has those qualities

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 11:25:09 PM   
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Calling men Dogs is an insult to dogs.
Dogs are adorable,cuddly, loving, caring, protective and loyal...I've yet to meet a man who has those qualities


That's sad.

I can say every single one of those things of Master thankfully.

I hope you find one someday also.


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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 11:29:03 PM   
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But, really, I haven't a frigging clue how females see me, or see men in general.


I find men in general to be more honest and easygoing than women. Women are more complex, but also more high maintenance.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/30/2012 11:53:06 PM   
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Men are just people. My mind doesn't take it any further than that, really. Any more specific of an impression of a man comes from the individual. And I will say I see some men as more "man" than others, but... I don't have some simple stereotype in my head that I think applies to everybody, gender-related or not.

I can say that I do often find myself comparing myself to a dog, in respect to my feelings towards/interactions with my Master.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 5:05:44 AM   
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Ah. Right.

I was *entirely* unaware that calling a man a 'dog' in the USA or Australia had such nasty connotations. It doesn't, here in England - or at least not in my experience. (It might do in other parts of England, come to think of it.) All I meant to convey by 'dog' was 'big, rough, loud' etc, etc - though also 'loyal, friendly, straightforward' - all the likeable things about dogs, as well, that is.


Nope. "Men are dogs" is pejorative here. The only time I hear women say it is when they get dumped by one.


Yes, here a woman might say "Men are dogs" if he's been fucking (or chasing after) someone he shouldn't have.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 5:25:23 AM   
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I'm not trying to turn this into a personal referendum of anyone in particular Kali... But are you honestly saying you've never heard some woman say, "I swear to god he'd starve without me." or something like that?


Oh sure, and now that you've put it into my head I might say the bolded about T downstairs...but I'd be saying it with affection, and just referring to his lack of skill in that one area, and not making it a referendum on all men or to make a case that women are superior.

The concept of "Men are defective women" feels misandrous, just as "women are defective men" as put forth by Aristotle feels misogynist.

http://www.womenpriests.org/traditio/infe_gre.asp

Aristotle's main thrust was to explain the nature of things from what they are seen to be. From the subject and low status of women he deduced their inferiority by nature.

The reason for women's inferiority lies in a defect. “Women are defective by nature” because they cannot reproduce semen which contains a full human being. When a man and a woman have intercourse, the man supplies the substance of a human being (the soul, i.e. the form), the woman only the nourishment (the matter).

Since it was a fundamental principle for him that, of the two factors or components in every being, ‘form’ is superior to ‘matter’, sexual reproduction was considered beneficial, because it demanded that the one who gives the ‘form’ (the male) be separate from the one who supplies the ‘matter’ (the female). Thus the ‘lower’ is not mingled with the ‘higher’ in the same individual. Aristotle subscribed to what Caroline Whitbeck has called the ‘flower pot theory’ of human generation. The female, since she is deficient in natural heat, is unable to ‘cook’ her menstrual fluid to the point of refinement, at which it would become semen (i.e. ‘seed’). Therefore her only contribution to the embryo is its matter, and a ‘field’ in which it can grow. Her inability to produce semen is her deficiency: ‘a woman,’ Aristotle concludes, ‘is as it were an infertile male’ (Generation of Animals, I, 728a).‘A male is male in virtue of a particular ability, and a female in virtue of a particular inability’ (Generation of Animals, I, 82f).

Caroline Whitbeck, ‘Theories of Sex Difference’, in Gould and Wartofsky (eds.), Women and Philosophy , New York 1976, pp. 54-80; M.Maloney, ‘The Arguments for Women's Difference in Classical Philosophy and Early Christianity’, pp. 41-49.

According to Aristotle, man rightly takes charge over woman, because he commands superior intelligence. This will also profit the women who depend on him. He compares this to the relationship between human beings and tame animals.

‘It is the best for all tame animals to be ruled by human beings. For this is how they are kept alive. In the same way, the relationship between the male and the female is by nature such that the male is higher, the female lower, that the male rules and the female is ruled.’ Aristotle, Politica, ed. Loeb Classical Library, 1254 b 10-14.

What we should notice in Aristotle’s text is the phrase: by nature. Subordination is right because it corresponds to the way things have been made. Aristotle also reckons that slavery is natural because some people are by nature destined to be slaves.

‘That person is by nature a slave who can belong to another person and who only takes part in thinking by recognising it, but not by possessing it. Other living beings (animals) cannot recognise thinking; they just obey feelings. However, there is little difference between using slaves and using tame animals: both provide bodily help to do necessary things.’

Aristotle then proceeds to describe a slave’s position and it is truly terrifying. A slave is no more than ‘a tool of his master’. Together with the wife and the ox, a male or female slave is a householder’s indispensable beast of burden. He or she should be kept well — for simple economic reasons. But slaves have no right to leisure or free time. They own nothing and can take no decisions. They have no part in enjoyment and happiness, and are not members of the community.

For the same reason Aristotle also justifies wars to capture new slaves. For some people ‘are by nature destined to be ruled, even though they resist it’; like wild animals that need to be tamed. He even says that all foreigners to some extent belong to this category.

‘That is why the poets say: “It is correct that Greeks rule Barbarians”; for by nature what is barbarian and what is slave are the same.’ Aristotle, Physica, vol. 1; Loeb Classical Library, 1252 b 8. See A.TH. van Leeuwen, The Nacht van het Kapitaal, Nijmegen 1984, pp. 182 - 205.

The prevailing tradition among Hellenists saw society, therefore, as layered in higher and lower forms of human being.

- Women were inferior to men by nature.
- Barbarians were inferior to the civilised races by nature.
- Slaves were slaves because they were inferior by nature.

This, we can be sure, is how most people thought in the ancient Middle East. The same basic thought would dominate the Christian Middle Ages.

It is obvious that Christians who accepted the view that women are inferior by nature, could not envisage her in the leadership role demanded of bishops and priests.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 5:41:47 AM   
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The dog is a gentleman; I hope to go to his heaven, not man's. ~Mark Twain, letter to W.D. Howells, 2 April 1899

The greatest love is a mother's; then a dog's; then a sweetheart's. ~Polish Proverb

Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of their universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made. ~Roger Caras

The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue. ~Author Unknown

The average dog is a nicer person than the average person. ~Andy Rooney

There is no faith which has never yet been broken, except that of a truly faithful dog. ~Konrad Lorenz

A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than you love yourself. ~Josh Billings

The more I see of man, the more I like dogs. ~Mme. de Staël

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 5:53:19 AM   
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In my next life I will only raise dogs (and horses). No children. I love my kids. But there is never a day when I don't enjoy the company of my dogs. The same cannot be said for my kids.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 7:03:40 AM   
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People get married and they expect the fairytale...even men. It doesn't work that way.


of course, its a two way street but a couple needs to make time for each other or its not gonna last.. if they cant do that then the relationship is doomed.. Not all men expect the wife to take care of the kids, just cuz yours did that, doesnt mean all men are like that.. some men do want to do more with their kids but the wife pushes them aside.. but all that really should be discussed before they have kids.. but it rarely ever is, so then the wifes complain about the guy and the hubbys complain about the girl they married.. blaming each other still doesnt solve the problem..

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 7:45:35 AM   
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I'm not trying to turn this into a personal referendum of anyone in particular Kali... But are you honestly saying you've never heard some woman say, "I swear to god he'd starve without me." or something like that?


Oh sure, and now that you've put it into my head I might say the bolded about T downstairs...but I'd be saying it with affection, and just referring to his lack of skill in that one area, and not making it a referendum on all men or to make a case that women are superior.

The concept of "Men are defective women" feels misandrous, just as "women are defective men" as put forth by Aristotle feels misogynist.

http://www.womenpriests.org/traditio/infe_gre.asp

Aristotle's main thrust was to explain the nature of things from what they are seen to be. From the subject and low status of women he deduced their inferiority by nature.

The reason for women's inferiority lies in a defect. “Women are defective by nature” because they cannot reproduce semen which contains a full human being. When a man and a woman have intercourse, the man supplies the substance of a human being (the soul, i.e. the form), the woman only the nourishment (the matter).

Since it was a fundamental principle for him that, of the two factors or components in every being, ‘form’ is superior to ‘matter’, sexual reproduction was considered beneficial, because it demanded that the one who gives the ‘form’ (the male) be separate from the one who supplies the ‘matter’ (the female). Thus the ‘lower’ is not mingled with the ‘higher’ in the same individual. Aristotle subscribed to what Caroline Whitbeck has called the ‘flower pot theory’ of human generation. The female, since she is deficient in natural heat, is unable to ‘cook’ her menstrual fluid to the point of refinement, at which it would become semen (i.e. ‘seed’). Therefore her only contribution to the embryo is its matter, and a ‘field’ in which it can grow. Her inability to produce semen is her deficiency: ‘a woman,’ Aristotle concludes, ‘is as it were an infertile male’ (Generation of Animals, I, 728a).‘A male is male in virtue of a particular ability, and a female in virtue of a particular inability’ (Generation of Animals, I, 82f).

Caroline Whitbeck, ‘Theories of Sex Difference’, in Gould and Wartofsky (eds.), Women and Philosophy , New York 1976, pp. 54-80; M.Maloney, ‘The Arguments for Women's Difference in Classical Philosophy and Early Christianity’, pp. 41-49.

According to Aristotle, man rightly takes charge over woman, because he commands superior intelligence. This will also profit the women who depend on him. He compares this to the relationship between human beings and tame animals.

‘It is the best for all tame animals to be ruled by human beings. For this is how they are kept alive. In the same way, the relationship between the male and the female is by nature such that the male is higher, the female lower, that the male rules and the female is ruled.’ Aristotle, Politica, ed. Loeb Classical Library, 1254 b 10-14.

What we should notice in Aristotle’s text is the phrase: by nature. Subordination is right because it corresponds to the way things have been made. Aristotle also reckons that slavery is natural because some people are by nature destined to be slaves.

‘That person is by nature a slave who can belong to another person and who only takes part in thinking by recognising it, but not by possessing it. Other living beings (animals) cannot recognise thinking; they just obey feelings. However, there is little difference between using slaves and using tame animals: both provide bodily help to do necessary things.’

Aristotle then proceeds to describe a slave’s position and it is truly terrifying. A slave is no more than ‘a tool of his master’. Together with the wife and the ox, a male or female slave is a householder’s indispensable beast of burden. He or she should be kept well — for simple economic reasons. But slaves have no right to leisure or free time. They own nothing and can take no decisions. They have no part in enjoyment and happiness, and are not members of the community.

For the same reason Aristotle also justifies wars to capture new slaves. For some people ‘are by nature destined to be ruled, even though they resist it’; like wild animals that need to be tamed. He even says that all foreigners to some extent belong to this category.

‘That is why the poets say: “It is correct that Greeks rule Barbarians”; for by nature what is barbarian and what is slave are the same.’ Aristotle, Physica, vol. 1; Loeb Classical Library, 1252 b 8. See A.TH. van Leeuwen, The Nacht van het Kapitaal, Nijmegen 1984, pp. 182 - 205.

The prevailing tradition among Hellenists saw society, therefore, as layered in higher and lower forms of human being.

- Women were inferior to men by nature.
- Barbarians were inferior to the civilised races by nature.
- Slaves were slaves because they were inferior by nature.

This, we can be sure, is how most people thought in the ancient Middle East. The same basic thought would dominate the Christian Middle Ages.

It is obvious that Christians who accepted the view that women are inferior by nature, could not envisage her in the leadership role demanded of bishops and priests.



Great information. Too bad Aristotle never took a 20th Century Bio class. I guess we never quite know as much as we think we do about things.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 7:52:59 AM   
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PS, if I read to much into it I apologise, this thread
is pretty bad though... Should I make one titled,
"women are holes"?


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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 8:09:13 AM   
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The world would probably be a better place if everyone acted like a dog. Loyal to those who care for you, always by your side no matter what you look like or how bad you feel, happiest when you are nearby and not embarrassed to let you know it, get pleasure from the simplest things...walk outside, playing with a branch, running in circles...

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 8:17:13 AM   
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I try not to judge each sex as a whole. We are individual people with individual personalities. I certainly wouldn't compare my husband to my ex. They are absolutely nothing alike, except for the fact that they both happen to have a penis. I try to let each person's personality and actions speak for them before I even think about making a personal opinion. I certainly would hope that men don't view each woman as one and the same. That would be absolutely ridiculous. We aren't barbie you can't just swap our outfits and call it good. Just like men aren't ken dolls.

I think as a whole we do tend to follow trends (men and women), but even studying mathematical/scientific data there are outliers. I have a coworker she's emotional, she doesn't think before she speaks (which is dangerous in our profession), she makes snaps judgements, and she tends to gossip much more than she works. I would be highly upset if my male boss decided that because she did those things I do to (just because we were both women). Instead he allows my actions to speak for me, and hers to speak for her. Yes, some men are dogs, but at the same time some women are ruthless. It's called the variety of life. Wouldn't it be utterly boring if we all acted the same?

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 8:24:12 AM   
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The world would probably be a better place if everyone acted like a dog. Loyal to those who care for you, always by your side no matter what you look like or how bad you feel, happiest when you are nearby and not embarrassed to let you know it, get pleasure from the simplest things...walk outside, playing with a branch, running in circles...


I love my dogs and wouldn't give them up for anything or anyone.........but I expect a lot more from the people in my life than I do my dogs.


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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 11:31:59 AM   
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Yeah, I know I'll get torn to pieces on this but I put fault on the dissolving family where many men are not part of the family anymore. Men are leaving their chidren behind, leaving many women single to raise those children alone, thus there are no father figures around, no one to teach these boys how to be men, how to treat human beings in the way they should be treated...not just women...but all humans.

So therefore, we're left with women who are raising these boys and I'm sorry, a boy needs a father in his life or at least a male father type role model to teach him many things. Yes, at least he has one parent and his mom is around to be there for him but unfortunately many of these boys stay as boys. I'm not saying ALL, I'm saying many.

We need intact families again with both a mother and a father if we ever want to see any of this to change imo.


You'll receive no argument from me that having two involved parents is preferable to one and that people should be responsible for their actions. When I get a pet, I think of this as making a commitment for life. I am appalled by the amount of men willing to fuck women they barely know without a condom. These men often go on to bitch about paying child support. Poor kids.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 11:32:41 AM   
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Yeah, I know I'll get torn to pieces on this but I put fault on the dissolving family where many men are not part of the family anymore. Men are leaving their chidren behind, leaving many women single to raise those children alone, thus there are no father figures around, no one to teach these boys how to be men, how to treat human beings in the way they should be treated...not just women...but all humans.

So therefore, we're left with women who are raising these boys and I'm sorry, a boy needs a father in his life or at least a male father type role model to teach him many things. Yes, at least he has one parent and his mom is around to be there for him but unfortunately many of these boys stay as boys. I'm not saying ALL, I'm saying many.

We need intact families again with both a mother and a father if we ever want to see any of this to change imo.


You'll receive no argument from me that having two involved parents is preferable to one and that people should be responsible for their actions. When I get a pet, I think of this as making a commitment for life. I am appalled by the amount of men willing to fuck women they barely know without a condom. These men often go on to bitch about paying child support. Poor kids.



Yeah don't get me started on reckless reproduction.

As far as intact families again with both a mother and father, I am wondering where and when that ever existed in the first place, aside from old sitcoms. I think good parents of any sex are preferable to crappy ones.

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RE: Men are Dogs - 12/31/2012 2:30:01 PM   
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People get married and they expect the fairytale...even men. It doesn't work that way.


of course, its a two way street but a couple needs to make time for each other or its not gonna last.. if they cant do that then the relationship is doomed.. Not all men expect the wife to take care of the kids, just cuz yours did that, doesnt mean all men are like that.. some men do want to do more with their kids but the wife pushes them aside.. but all that really should be discussed before they have kids.. but it rarely ever is, so then the wives complain about the guy and the hubbys complain about the girl they married.. blaming each other still doesn't solve the problem..



That's not what i said. What i said is that many men come home from their jobs.They are just as tired as his wife so of course, he comes home and wants a little attention from his wife and just wants to sit down and rest for a bit. But a wife's job never stops. She wants to sit down and rest for a little while too but she's still busy preparing dinner and making sure the kids don't kill each other. It's neither one's faults. It's simply part of both being exhausted from a long day. It's not always easy to remember that both need to make time for each other. Life has a way of doing that. Life gets so busy you stop making time for each other, not because you don't want to but there's just too much to do. Who has the time? Sometimes though both parties just need to be reminded that they both need a break to be with each other.

I admit, Master and I are guilty of it as well. We both get caught up in everyday life until one of us realizes what is happening and we usually make a "playdate", meaning we'll plan an outing or something fun to do together. Sometimes it takes a friend to say "hey dude, when was the last time you asked her if you could do something for her or just took over the dinner and kids so she could sit down? Or even just brought her a daisy home you picked outside?" I have friends who complain about their husband or wife not doing things and this is usually when I hit them upside the head with this.



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