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theRose4U -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/2/2013 11:22:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AllisonWilder quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss Why get worked up about it? Yes, she could be Amish and not believe in photos, she could be so drop dead gorgeous that she has been used for her looks before, she could be a ghost...doesn't matter WHY she won't because, obviously, it is a personal limit for her and your choice is accept it & meet her or say sorry & move on. If she was Amish, would she be on the internet? Beachy amish, mennonites & hutterites are allowed internet for work...however most have "christian firewalls" installed to prevent the odd leap they would want a site like this.

theRose4U -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/2/2013 11:25:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: anaturalsubmiss quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 I could care less if we are compatible... You could care less or you couldn't care less? Which is it? I think freud can give the easy answer there [:D]

theRose4U -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/2/2013 11:48:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seekingreality quote: ORIGINAL: alildifferent . But what if this person has identifiable tatoos in multiple places or more than one birth mark that could give them away? (I'm a transexual for gosh sakes and I've been stalked!). 3) Amateur porn sites are popping up all over. Some of them using pics without permission. Good luck tracking down the original culprit who used your pic in their porn site then sent it on to hundreds of others. As far as amateur porn sites, that's only a concern if you are foolish enough to send a nude or provocative photo. My photo that ended up where it shouldn't on the net was a young stupid private thing between sex partners. I even limited it to polaroid & had a mask...the birthmark on the other hand was unquestionable. Ex partner somehow scanned & enhanced...a few things without removing the thing that got him caught. Karma being a bitch I ran into him not long after & gave him a birthmark across the face. Extra copies not taken down by the original site are the EXACT reason no pics ever again

domincalifornia -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 12:32:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xLaChienne quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 ... because what if... you get catfished? Put in 3 months of hard dialogue, you love the person, but then u have no physical attraction... some may be able to overcome it, others don't wish to deal with it... it's a long complex issue imo. I would suggest that you not invest that depth of feeling into someone on line. Reserve that for when you are face to face with someone. You can see a picture of someone, find them very physically attractive, meet in person, and have zero chemistry. I agree with you. Once you've been around the block a couple of times, you realize that no matter how well you get along chatting online, or messaging, or talking on the phone, the good feelings can evaporate as soon as you are face-to-face. So, yeah, you don't get emotionally invested based on online communication. And personally, it's hard for to imagine communicating extensively online for three months. For me, that would be way way past the point where I think you are just treading water until you meet, and if someone was so shy/nervous/cautious that it took them three months of extensive online communication before they were willing to meet, I probably wouldn't be interested in them.

domincalifornia -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 12:38:26 AM)
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RabbitsHeart -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 12:41:36 AM)
Dude, I wouldn't post or send a picture that someone could identify me from. Paranoid? Hardly. I am trying to avoid more than just embarrassment. As a man you are less likely to be the target of violence, stalking AND poor self-image so I am not surprised you don't understand her concerns- you haven't walked in her shoes. And then there is the other reason: She is a famous super model who likes her privacy (that's why I don't share).

domincalifornia -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 12:44:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw The reality is if you are going to send out pictures or go on webcam you might as well post a picture because just because YOU think its private doesn't mean it will stay private. Pictures that are emailed personally can and are posted and people do record webcams and post them. That's true. If you engage in webcam conversations, you should be aware that there is always a possibility that it could become public.

littlewonder -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 1:22:56 AM)
I have identifiable tattoos but I've been on sites like this for over 10 years now. If someone hasn't made a huge deal of me yet I'm not concerned if they do now lol. I don't really hide my life. If someone happened to approach me saying they saw a woman with the same tat as me in the same place, I would just say....yeah, your point is what? If they continue to make a deal about it, I'll tell them it's me. I'm 40 years old. I'm never gonna be some corporate glass ceiling official, I'm not ever going to be a model or make it as a celebrity or politician, I have no career to ruin, my family isn't something I really concern myself with and most are not surprised by anything I do since I've had wilder younger days and I don't have a young child and don't plan on having anymore. The only reason I don't show my face or anything much these days is because of Master and I'm much more conservative and reserved than when I was younger.

TNDommeK -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 9:50:05 AM)
Some will disagree with Me on this but I require cam verification. Nothing sexual just G rated waving or smiling for a few seconds. Of course I do the same. I have had people on the other side send pics to Me and they are fake as hell. I even use to do this "take the pic standing like this while wearing this certain color" bla bla bla....and I even had people find a pic similar to it and photoshop it. It gets so frustrating. Now that being said I would much rather meet up with someone were they close, but a potential slave being in California and Me being in Little Rock makes it a bit hard to meet up at Starbucks real quick. Just sayin.....I think that is the joy of today's modern technology. And hey, if they decline, no problem, I respect their wishes and move on. There are plenty subs who will do what I am asking.

Pyramus -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 11:55:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U My photo that ended up where it shouldn't on the net was a young stupid private thing between sex partners. With the excellent reverse image searches now freely available on the web, and even with the collarme duplicate site showing all the fake profiles, any 'real' picture of you is going to end up on the web, easily found by a 10 year old in seconds. In fact, I initially started to make use of this technology to identify fake profiles within 5 miles of me, but the sheer number of fakes that the reverse photo image searches found made the effort prohibitive (and that was only five miles!). In your case, if you then hand someone that picture (or even a similar one), they can easily upload the picture itself, for an analysis against all pictures on the web. Try it with some of the TGTBT (too good to be true) profile pics to see what I mean. (If you need a list of pics to try, send me a PM). Notice I've removed my pictures from my profile! Now you know why.

DarkSteven -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 9:14:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LizDeluxe quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven ccc3333, let me tell you my take. If you meet a woman with no pic, there's a fair chance it won't work. But I only get to the let's-meet stage one every month or so. The prospect of going a month with no prospects outweighs the possible time loss, for me. I don't mean to sound daft but I slept in and I'm only on my first cup of coffee. Could you elaborate on this post? Particularly the part I italicized. I didn't really understand what you were saying and I'd like to. Classic upside/downside argument. The downside to meeting w/o a pic is that I might waste a couple of hours. The upside is that I could meet someone compatible, and it would take a month or so to meet another suitable date. In other words. go ahead and meet.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 9:16:51 PM)
Pyramus, what is the collarme duplicate site?

Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 9:38:23 PM)
I do not post face pictures of myself, but then again I am not here for dating so why would anyone care what I look like. I do not care what my friends look like. If anyone did have a pic of themselves up here and it was put out they could easily argue it was stolen if it meant saving a job or family relations. I do have pictures on parenting sites and saved on photobucket. One day while randomly searching photobucket back when my space was big and photos could be posted I found in the public search pictures of my then 2 year old daughter and myself from her birthday party. So it would be easy for a picture to be copied and reused somewhere else.

EsotericLady -> RE: She says she will not under any circumstances show her picture... (1/3/2013 9:47:16 PM)
If you are interested in her, I wouldn't wait a week. In a week's time, she just may have replaced her interest in you with someone else. quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 In this particular case this was taken out of context, i wanted to know the "why". Meaning i wanted to know why she refused any picture despite sending messages indicating big interest. At this point in the thread i know why, she is a professional, or she is being cautious, and actually i changed my profile because of this thread. I'm glad i posted here, taught me some lessons, recieved some great criticism, enjoyed myself. At this point im now more curious than ever, but i don't want to flood her inbox lol... perhaps in a week i'll send her an apology and explanation. quote: ORIGINAL: anaturalsubmiss quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 I could care less if we are compatible... You could care less or you couldn't care less? Which is it?

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