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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

because i'm always wrong and am here to let others post what i am wrong about and why...LOL

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Dueling Doms, combative subs, tussling Dommes, flaming slaves, bashing switches and all the other argumentative folks here who come to spar by bandying words expressing your opinions and expounding your hypothesis I come to ask you why?

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Honestly now irregardless of the fact that we nitpick each other nigh to death, occasionally do our utmost to thwart our fellows whilst they attempt to foil us in return we return to the boards again and again; WHY?

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Are there particular individuals you like to argue with? Beloved dire enemies you would sorely miss if they were gone?

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Do you have dear friends, fellow posters you always look for? That you rush to defend?

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If in a relationship or looking for one I want to ask HOW? How and to what degree does that fact color your posts?

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Subs/slaves do your owners moderate your posts or not? Do you feel free to come here and state your thoughts freely as long as you bring no dishonor to your owners?

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Dueling Doms, combative subs, tussling Dommes, flaming slaves, bashing switches and all the other argumentative folks here who come to spar by bandying words expressing your opinions and expounding your hypothesis I come to ask you why?

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Honestly now irregardless of the fact that we nitpick each other nigh to death, occasionally do our utmost to thwart our fellows whilst they attempt to foil us in return we return to the boards again and again; WHY?

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Are there particular individuals you like to argue with? Beloved dire enemies you would sorely miss if they were gone?

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Do you have dear friends, fellow posters you always look for? That you rush to defend?

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If in a relationship or looking for one I want to ask HOW? How and to what degree does that fact color your posts?

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Subs/slaves do your owners moderate your posts or not? Do you feel free to come here and state your thoughts freely as long as you bring no dishonor to your owners?

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy
Honestly now irregardless of the fact that we nitpick each other nigh to death, occasionally do our utmost to thwart our fellows whilst they attempt to foil us in return we return to the boards again and again; WHY?

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Are there particular individuals you like to argue with? Beloved dire enemies you would sorely miss if they were gone?

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Do you have dear friends, fellow posters you always look for? That you rush to defend?

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If in a relationship or looking for one I want to ask HOW? How and to what degree does that fact color your posts?

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Masters and Mistresses, Doms and Dommes are you comfortable stating your credo here knowing it is being viewed by those you own or may potentially own, not to mention the reviews by your peers?  

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix


I don’t really see myself as a person who does a lot of flaming and bashing online. Although I’m sure I sometimes come across that way to others.

I’ll offer a viewpoint that I know the general public doesn’t agree with.
I’ll remove the veils and masks that people wrap up their questions in so I can get to the root of what they’re really asking.
I also don’t hesitate to step up to the plate to defend the underdog, and sometimes that means knocking the bully down a few notches.
And I often state the blatant truth without sugarcoating it.
But rarely do I just insult for the sake of bashing someone. If that was my goal, I have a few people in my life who crave humiliation.

In general, I am someone who really looks more at the post than the person posting. I might defend you vehemently in thread #5, but later on thread #17, you might be the one I see as the bully.

My posts are usually the honest truth that’s running through my head. I don’t make posts with an ulterior motive of pleasing certain people, or attracting certain people. I haven’t really made any friends here to speak of, so there’s no one in particular I feel compelled to defend based on our level of rapport. I can’t think of one single person on collarme whom I consistently trade emails with for more than about a week.

I don’t really give much of a flying shit if what I say is impressing a potential partner. I kind of feel like, if someone really is a potential partner, they will be interested in me for what I really am. That includes my no holds barred approach, my frank honesty, and my occasional cynicism and sarcastic streak.
For those who may be interested in me, I think it would be very beneficial for them to read my posts here. They would learn a lot about me by doing so.

If I have enemies here, they are so insignificant to me, that I don’t even realize they are my enemies. I really have not one ounce of a clue who might have me blocked, who hates me, or who skips my posts. Not only do I not know, but I frankly don’t care. I’m guessing any enemies I might have here (if I do indeed have any) think about me a hell of a lot more than I think about them.

Even the people here I dislike, really hold very little significance to me. If someone starts grating at my nerves, I block them. I usually clear my block list every week or two. I’ve noticed, that for the most part, people who landed on my block list, have altogether quit posting by the time I remove them.
As I’ve said before, the day I lose even one wink of sleep over something that happened online, is the day I spent way too much time on the computer.