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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 12:44:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: looking4asiansub Most of female dominants are in it for the money, or alternatively just some older (or very unattractive women) in hope to get younger/much better looking guys (which without it being female dominant they never would, quite a smart strategy). I'm not saying all of them are like this. But you have more chance to get struck by a lightning, than to get contacted by a genuine dom that doesn't fall into the above categories. Says you who doesn't have a picture on your profile at all. How many Dommes do you even know in real life? I know just looking at this thread so far there are three submissive guys that I've either written to and/or given their profiles more than a second look. And they did write back to me. And I'm not "in it for the money." As for looks, I prefer personality over good looks, but you must be shallow.....and maybe even ugly but afraid to show it, since you have no picture at all on your own profile. NBMG

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 12:59:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 actually he is right.. if you search female dominants in michigan all you will see is a bunch of 18-26 year old girls seeking online only financial domination and/or the professional domme... it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see these younger girls have found a way to not at all be a kinkster and still manipulate idiot kinksters into giving them money.. honestly i cant blame them because id probably do the same if i were them and i think they are pretty smart for figuring this out lol.. but it does seriously kill this site when every profile in your state is a young findom.. to top that off findoms being here business oriented constantly sign in and out putting there profile at the top.. this gets really annoying.. to somone like me who is here to find a ltr with somone of like mind its a huge turn off to this site seeing only woman that want sugar daddies and no real commitment.. i would like to add if youre a professional domme you are technicly plugging your business with your profile and should have to pay the site advertising fees as any other business.. Wowsers. Your posts are hard to read. So please bare with my response. If you find a findomme, pro or anyone for that matter that YOU do not want to see when you log in or look through profiles I would strongly suggest that you click the HIDE button. If you don't want the 18-26 yr olds to show up adjust your search feature. Not everyone is here (CM) for a hook up, to meet their one, or even meet anyone for that matter. However, they do have as much right as you to be here. Again if you don't want to see those profiles I would suggest using the HIDE button. You say that pros and findommes should pay to have a profile on CollarMe. In away I do pay. For me to put up ads on the professional forum, I have to link CollarMe to my site. My profile isn't any more of an ad than yours is for you. You state that pros and findommes should pay to be on CollarMe. I am a lifestyle and pro switch that practices financial domination among things. So how would that work for me? Most of the pros and findommes that I know are both lifestyle and pro. I see men, like yourself advertising MORE than I do on this site. Lol Seriously. Far more none pros spam the boards with their ads of I am looking for x, y, z than findommes and pros do.

Ronnie1986 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 4:00:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 actually he is right.. if you search female dominants in michigan all you will see is a bunch of 18-26 year old girls seeking online only financial domination and/or the professional domme... it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see these younger girls have found a way to not at all be a kinkster and still manipulate idiot kinksters into giving them money.. honestly i cant blame them because id probably do the same if i were them and i think they are pretty smart for figuring this out lol.. but it does seriously kill this site when every profile in your state is a young findom.. to top that off findoms being here business oriented constantly sign in and out putting there profile at the top.. this gets really annoying.. to somone like me who is here to find a ltr with somone of like mind its a huge turn off to this site seeing only woman that want sugar daddies and no real commitment.. i would like to add if youre a professional domme you are technicly plugging your business with your profile and should have to pay the site advertising fees as any other business.. Wowsers. Your posts are hard to read. So please bare with my response. If you find a findomme, pro or anyone for that matter that YOU do not want to see when you log in or look through profiles I would strongly suggest that you click the HIDE button. If you don't want the 18-26 yr olds to show up adjust your search feature. Not everyone is here (CM) for a hook up, to meet their one, or even meet anyone for that matter. However, they do have as much right as you to be here. Again if you don't want to see those profiles I would suggest using the HIDE button. You say that pros and findommes should pay to have a profile on CollarMe. In away I do pay. For me to put up ads on the professional forum, I have to link CollarMe to my site. My profile isn't any more of an ad than yours is for you. You state that pros and findommes should pay to be on CollarMe. I am a lifestyle and pro switch that practices financial domination among things. So how would that work for me? Most of the pros and findommes that I know are both lifestyle and pro. I see men, like yourself advertising MORE than I do on this site. Lol Seriously. Far more none pros spam the boards with their ads of I am looking for x, y, z than findommes and pros do. my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy

TNDommeK -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 4:01:51 PM)
Then why are you here? Bc there are people who wouldn't agree with our "cheesy" line. Is your kink ok and others aren't?

RumpusParable -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 4:47:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Then why are you here? Bc there are people who wouldn't agree with our "cheesy" line. Is your kink ok and others aren't? LOL, do you really need to ask? ;)

TNDommeK -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 4:48:33 PM)
This is true, I retract my question.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 4:50:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy Your profile may not be looking for paying clients. However, it is still and ad. For YOU. My profile isn't just looking for paying clients. My profile also makes it very clear that I am a lifestyle and proswitch and goes into detail what I am looking for. So it is designated. By ME. That is called ME taking personal responsibility. EVERY professional dom/me that I know on CollarMe makes it very clear in their profiles that they are professionals. If YOU or other's can't bother to read profiles. Eh.. that is on you. YOU may not think that financial domination is a legitimate kink and that's ok. However, YOU do not get to choose for everyone else what is a legitimate kink for them. There are many who are into financial domination. There was actually a wonderful thread on it on the general board recently. I also believe that prodoms, prodomees, prosubs, and proswitches play a role within the BDSM community. We give many people who would not for various reasons have the opportunity to participate in various fetish activities. So I / we do have a right to be on a BDSM website. ETA: Anyone who describes someone else's slavery within a M/s relationship as bullshit is cheesy IMO and well should be banned because they cant be a twue and weel submissive.

PeonForHer -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 5:18:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 So have several of the other Dommes in this thread. They all know that if they write to me, I'm going to respond, and vice versa. Moreover, there are many Dommes on this board who I would gladly invite to dinner if they happened to be visiting my town. And I've actually met a few under just those circumstances. You see, I told you it'd all start happening for you if you shaved off your moustache, Roch. It makes no sense, but women always think that blokes with moustaches have bad breath.

LadyPact -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 5:46:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy Would you also ban professionals from lifestyle events, even though when they attend, they are supporting the community? Would you cancel all educational classes because they are given by someone who has done pro sessions? Would you slap a scarlet letter on people who have control of finances that would be a special mark when seen at the local munch? I would appreciate the information on what other site that you use that fin isn't allowed. Please enlighten Me.

Ronnie1986 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:13:22 PM)
you arnt at all the kind of woman i am trying to attract which is why i have not viewed your profile.. and to be quite honest i havent read in full any of your posts.. you just dont seem intelligent enough to grasp hat i am saying also my source for that review was Lifestyle Blog Reviews Reviewing the best, worst, pathetic, and down right hysterical lifestyle blogs and websites the internet has to offer.

naughtynick81 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:26:53 PM)
Ronnie, I don't think you'll get a fair discussion out of this lot in the ask a mistress forum.

Ronnie1986 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:28:29 PM)
well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

PeonForHer -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:31:33 PM)
Nick, have you got a moustache? If so, I'd remove it. I hope that helps.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:32:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker.. Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol

Lynnxz -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:38:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 Lifestyle Blog Reviews Reviewing the best, worst, pathetic, and down right hysterical lifestyle blogs and websites the internet has to offer. This from the dude whose profile background is so dark, you cannot make out the text. :3 Glass houses, and stuff, ya know.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:42:44 PM)
Not sure if trolling, or just... sapiosexual.

Ronnie1986 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:43:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker.. Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one..

Hillwilliam -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:45:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker.. Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one.. Not just anyone. I, for one, piss way too many people off.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:47:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw quote: ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986 well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker.. Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one.. Holy Bat Shit!! You mean none of the mods are paid? Oh wait, I already knew that hun. That said, they TRY really hard to be impartial and not to moderate threads they participate in. Btw... not everyone can be a mod.

Lynnxz -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/17/2013 6:51:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Not sure if trolling, or just... sapiosexual. I have my $ on trolling.... SURELY a true sapiosexual would have a basic understanding of punctuation. (Or do opposites attract?)

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