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seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/18/2013 8:06:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady I may occasionally reach out to someone because I read a comment of there's... or something in their profile struck me as interesting. It in NO WAY is an indication that I am hard up for messages, or that I am a fake, or a scammer. I haven't had a difficult time approaching someone I thought was interesting (even offline) for years now. The more freaked out and quick to put labels on women who do, the quicker you'll be letting a nice, compatible person slip through your fingers. quote: ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo From time to time ... a Real Domme ... will reach out to you. Could be something written in your profile ... or if you use them, the message boards. Ms E ... no one who pays attention ... would ever say You are: hard up for messages, a scammer or a fake! [:)] You certainly are: highly intelligent, quick witted and very charming. [:)] From Your response, i see You as a clear example of my earlier comment ... men need to learn to distinguish between the real and the fake Dommes. Honestly, it doesn't take long to realize ... You are VERY Real! [:)]

MissKyexxx -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/18/2013 8:31:42 PM)
Oh, also, did you know that subs are lazy? See my previous reply for explanation. Tsk Tsk.

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/18/2013 9:13:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Extravagasm quote: seekingOwnertoo: my advice is, when any REAL Woman .. Domme or vanilla ... reaches out to you, pay a LOT of attention. Women choose men ... even if Doms don't believe it! LOL Women choosing men does seem wired in our species. Though it needs a lot of qualification: 1. Same sex partners require creative translation, of course. 2. It's not about whether Doms believe or not. Its whether Doms should fall prey to it. Here's the fairytale thought experiment. An unknown Dom hears music and enters an unfamiliar ballroom of dancing women, who vastly outnumber men. He can surge to the center, where the flambouyant may vie for him. He can sit near the dancefloor, awaiting whoever will lead him in. Or he can roam further out, where the less aggressive predominate. Each group contains beguiling partners. But which offers greatest choice for his ultimate submissive match(s)? Sadly I spent too damn, dumb much of my Dom life, selecting among women who'd already "chosen me". Seemed good to have the dedication factor already there. But this unwittingly excluded most of the submissive population. Included taking an organic dominant woman as my sub, in which she was complicit by "choosing". 3. Accepting the type women who selects you, can also be hazardous in the vanilla world too. Risk takers seek out enablers. Verbally aggressive women seek passive aggressive men, who spend lives resenting it. Virginia Wolf anyone? Clearly seekingownertoo didn't suggest accepting, but merely paying a lot of attention. That's why I'm agreeing, but with much warning. He spoke of Doms and vanillas, but his advice was aimed at subs. Yes, you are correct .. specifically, the advice is aimed at sub-males, such as the OP. And yes, I did say "pay a lot of attention" ... NOT immediately fawning ... LOL My point is .. for sub-males ... it can be a successful way of attracting interest; and GET contacted. There are other ways too. Yet this one works for me ... so i haven't needed to try a lot of others! [:D]

PrincessDonna11 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/18/2013 9:42:10 PM)
If your profile has spmething that my be of an advantage to her I could see it..I havent read yours I usually only respond to those that have viewed my profile...

EsotericLady -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 7:46:08 AM)
It's just AWFUL having one foot in the grave, isn't it? LMAO (By the way, Lovvvvvvve the use of the mummy pic in your profile! Very creative!) Be well, fellow ancient one! (winks) quote: ORIGINAL: WomanlyWiles I guess I'm one of those old hags on the lookout for a younger man that i have no hope of attracting otherwise. That's me told.

EsotericLady -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 7:49:38 AM)
Well thank you, seeking! That's very nice to "hear." : ) quote: ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady I may occasionally reach out to someone because I read a comment of there's... or something in their profile struck me as interesting. It in NO WAY is an indication that I am hard up for messages, or that I am a fake, or a scammer. I haven't had a difficult time approaching someone I thought was interesting (even offline) for years now. The more freaked out and quick to put labels on women who do, the quicker you'll be letting a nice, compatible person slip through your fingers. quote: ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo From time to time ... a Real Domme ... will reach out to you. Could be something written in your profile ... or if you use them, the message boards. Ms E ... no one who pays attention ... would ever say You are: hard up for messages, a scammer or a fake! [:)] You certainly are: highly intelligent, quick witted and very charming. [:)] From Your response, i see You as a clear example of my earlier comment ... men need to learn to distinguish between the real and the fake Dommes. Honestly, it doesn't take long to realize ... You are VERY Real! [:)]

LadyPact -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 1:44:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo Indeed i do ... [:)] ... and for You ... only the VERY BEST! [:)] my treat .. of course! You've absolutely got a date. You'll have to promise Me that I get the opportunity to drag you along for some form of entertainment should I get to visit and that one is on Me.

Politesub53 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 4:07:39 PM)
This thread has me thinking..... Does a real Mistress ever give BJ`s. [8D]

Baroana -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 4:10:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 This thread has me thinking..... Does a real Mistress ever give BJ`s. [8D] Of course not. Everyone knows that if you give oral sex, you're a slave, and if you're a slave, you give oral sex.

LadyPact -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 4:11:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 This thread has me thinking..... Does a real Mistress ever give BJ`s. [8D] Why do you think they love Me so much? [8D]

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/19/2013 8:47:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 This thread has me thinking..... Does a real Mistress ever give BJ`s. [8D] Yes. Sometimes. [:D] NBMG

wannapleez -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (1/21/2013 7:39:20 PM)
Q: Does a real Mistress ..... ? Put anything you want where those dots are; the answer's always the same. A: A real Mistress does whatever the fuck she wants.

MistressLilaZhan -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/1/2013 5:14:11 AM)
Mostly I do not contact slaves, even after we know each other, most of time I am invisible. I think if slaves want me enough they will contact me.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/1/2013 3:44:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spideycool69 I've been contacted by Mistresses on some occassions and I started to ask myself that do Mistresses really do that? Or that task is just reserved for slaves? I mean I've always pictured Them attracting slaves not contacting them. That is actually a question millions of male subs globally....ask. (Daily). Most Mistress connections to sub males go through me (not all, I need to be forthcoming...I do have competitors). I have an international Domme tracking device and for $37.75 per month I can tell you where they are (they pay $17.95 a month, largely because they have titties, and frankly....you don't)...it's a decent gig, but my database is more than substantial. You may wonder...."how does JJ keep track of 'dem bitches?" That is a more than fair question. Unfortunately I can't tell you...it's proprietary and an algorithm that is only known to the higher ups in my firm....suffice it to say, I do not require 'dem bitches to wear any kind of device but....your fees pay for all kinds of surveillance, which only my firm knows how to do. If you want to quit fucking around and simply...."Get Yo'se'f a Domme" (our current international slogan)...pay up, get in the groove and don't go down low....trust me....it's a never ending vortex. I'm here to help.

Politesub53 -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/1/2013 4:02:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissKyexxx Oh, also, did you know that subs are lazy? See my previous reply for explanation. Tsk Tsk. I was going to answer this but can`t be arsed......... [8D]

VerySincere -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/2/2013 3:35:16 PM)
okay. i guess some guys do ....

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/2/2013 3:37:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact You've absolutely got a date. You'll have to promise Me that I get the opportunity to drag you along for some form of entertainment should I get to visit and that one is on Me. Some form of entertainment? [:)] But of course, i promise! [;)] BTW, congratulations on Your new dungeon .. lovely to hear You are enjoying the great frozen north! [:)]

Peescojizz -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/13/2013 6:48:34 AM)
I will not contact subs or slaves, but occasionally add them to my friend circle

Barbaramente -> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job? (2/13/2013 10:00:20 AM)
Why not ? Few mounths ago, i was planning an holiday in Malta. I ask to my some friends of mine if they could introduce me to somebody trustable but answer was "unlucky not" So, i did a reserch throught collarme and i get n touch with some sub male. Why don t play bdsm when you are n holiday ?

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