RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job?

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3] 4 5 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 12:44:44 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: looking4asiansub
Most of female dominants are in it for the money, or alternatively just some older (or very unattractive women) in hope to get younger/much better looking guys (which without it being female dominant they never would, quite a smart strategy). I'm not saying all of them are like this. But you have more chance to get struck by a lightning, than to get contacted by a genuine dom that doesn't fall into the above categories.

Says you who doesn't have a picture on your profile at all. How many Dommes do you even know in real life? I know just looking at this thread so far there are three submissive guys that I've either written to and/or given their profiles more than a second look. And they did write back to me. And I'm not "in it for the money." As for looks, I prefer personality over good looks, but you must be shallow.....and maybe even ugly but afraid to show it, since you have no picture at all on your own profile.

NBMG

< Message edited by NiceButMeanGirl -- 1/17/2013 12:46:38 PM >

_____________________________

I'm now SweetlySadistic1 on CollarSpace. NBMG is an old profile, please see my new one.

(in reply to looking4asiansub)

Post #: 41

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 12:59:11 PM

TheLilSquaw

Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

actually he is right.. if you search female dominants in michigan all you will see is a bunch of 18-26 year old girls seeking online only financial domination and/or the professional domme... it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see these younger girls have found a way to not at all be a kinkster and still manipulate idiot kinksters into giving them money.. honestly i cant blame them because id probably do the same if i were them and i think they are pretty smart for figuring this out lol.. but it does seriously kill this site when every profile in your state is a young findom.. to top that off findoms being here business oriented constantly sign in and out putting there profile at the top.. this gets really annoying.. to somone like me who is here to find a ltr with somone of like mind its a huge turn off to this site seeing only woman that want sugar daddies and no real commitment..

i would like to add if youre a professional domme you are technicly plugging your business with your profile and should have to pay the site advertising fees as any other business..

Wowsers.
Your posts are hard to read. So please bare with my response.

If you find a findomme, pro or anyone for that matter that YOU do not want to see when you log in or look through profiles I would strongly suggest that you click the HIDE button.

If you don't want the 18-26 yr olds to show up adjust your search feature.

Not everyone is here (CM) for a hook up, to meet their one, or even meet anyone for that matter. However, they do have as much right as you to be here. Again if you don't want to see those profiles I would suggest using the HIDE button.

You say that pros and findommes should pay to have a profile on CollarMe.
In away I do pay.
For me to put up ads on the professional forum, I have to link CollarMe to my site.

My profile isn't any more of an ad than yours is for you.

You state that pros and findommes should pay to be on CollarMe.
I am a lifestyle and pro switch that practices financial domination among things.
So how would that work for me?
Most of the pros and findommes that I know are both lifestyle and pro.

I see men, like yourself advertising MORE than I do on this site. Lol
Seriously.

Far more none pros spam the boards with their ads of I am looking for x, y, z than findommes and pros do.

< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 1/17/2013 1:22:13 PM >

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 42

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 4:00:18 PM

Ronnie1986

Posts: 102
Joined: 1/15/2013
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

actually he is right.. if you search female dominants in michigan all you will see is a bunch of 18-26 year old girls seeking online only financial domination and/or the professional domme... it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see these younger girls have found a way to not at all be a kinkster and still manipulate idiot kinksters into giving them money.. honestly i cant blame them because id probably do the same if i were them and i think they are pretty smart for figuring this out lol.. but it does seriously kill this site when every profile in your state is a young findom.. to top that off findoms being here business oriented constantly sign in and out putting there profile at the top.. this gets really annoying.. to somone like me who is here to find a ltr with somone of like mind its a huge turn off to this site seeing only woman that want sugar daddies and no real commitment..

i would like to add if youre a professional domme you are technicly plugging your business with your profile and should have to pay the site advertising fees as any other business..

Wowsers.
Your posts are hard to read. So please bare with my response.

If you find a findomme, pro or anyone for that matter that YOU do not want to see when you log in or look through profiles I would strongly suggest that you click the HIDE button.

If you don't want the 18-26 yr olds to show up adjust your search feature.

Not everyone is here (CM) for a hook up, to meet their one, or even meet anyone for that matter. However, they do have as much right as you to be here. Again if you don't want to see those profiles I would suggest using the HIDE button.

You say that pros and findommes should pay to have a profile on CollarMe.
In away I do pay.
For me to put up ads on the professional forum, I have to link CollarMe to my site.

My profile isn't any more of an ad than yours is for you.

You state that pros and findommes should pay to be on CollarMe.
I am a lifestyle and pro switch that practices financial domination among things.
So how would that work for me?
Most of the pros and findommes that I know are both lifestyle and pro.

I see men, like yourself advertising MORE than I do on this site. Lol
Seriously.

Far more none pros spam the boards with their ads of I am looking for x, y, z than findommes and pros do.

my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy

(in reply to TheLilSquaw)

Post #: 43

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 4:01:51 PM

TNDommeK

Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline

Then why are you here? Bc there are people who wouldn't agree with our "cheesy" line.
Is your kink ok and others aren't?

_____________________________

Goddess of Duck Lips and Luxurious Hair
The working Fin Domme
Professional con artist, swindler, trixster, extortionist

Our snark-nado needs more cowbell

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 44

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 4:47:18 PM

RumpusParable

Posts: 1923
Joined: 7/7/2005
From: NYC now!
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Then why are you here? Bc there are people who wouldn't agree with our "cheesy" line.
Is your kink ok and others aren't?

LOL, do you really need to ask? ;)

_____________________________

Relationships come and go, but plastination is forever.

I generally use fast-reply. If directing my post at someone specific I will indicate so.

Minimal summary: Artist, Disabled Veteran, Vegan, Pornographer, and Agender dominant female.

(in reply to TNDommeK)

Post #: 45

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 4:48:33 PM

TNDommeK

Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline

This is true, I retract my question.

_____________________________

Goddess of Duck Lips and Luxurious Hair
The working Fin Domme
Professional con artist, swindler, trixster, extortionist

Our snark-nado needs more cowbell

(in reply to RumpusParable)

Post #: 46

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 4:50:36 PM

TheLilSquaw

Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy

Your profile may not be looking for paying clients.
However, it is still and ad.
For YOU.

My profile isn't just looking for paying clients.

My profile also makes it very clear that I am a lifestyle and proswitch and goes into detail what I am looking for.
So it is designated.
By ME.
That is called ME taking personal responsibility.
EVERY professional dom/me that I know on CollarMe makes it very clear in their profiles that they are professionals.
If YOU or other's can't bother to read profiles.
Eh.. that is on you.

YOU may not think that financial domination is a legitimate kink and that's ok.
However, YOU do not get to choose for everyone else what is a legitimate kink for them.
There are many who are into financial domination.
There was actually a wonderful thread on it on the general board recently.

I also believe that prodoms, prodomees, prosubs, and proswitches play a role within the BDSM community.
We give many people who would not for various reasons have the opportunity to participate in various fetish activities.
So I / we do have a right to be on a BDSM website.

ETA: Anyone who describes someone else's slavery within a M/s relationship as bullshit is cheesy IMO and well should be banned because they cant be a twue and weel submissive.

< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 1/17/2013 4:52:57 PM >

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 47

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 5:18:38 PM

PeonForHer

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

So have several of the other Dommes in this thread. They all know that if they write to me, I'm going to respond, and vice versa. Moreover, there are many Dommes on this board who I would gladly invite to dinner if they happened to be visiting my town. And I've actually met a few under just those circumstances.

You see, I told you it'd all start happening for you if you shaved off your moustache, Roch. It makes no sense, but women always think that blokes with moustaches have bad breath.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to Rochsub2009)

Post #: 48

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 5:46:38 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986
my profile in no way is to attract a paying clientele.. if you are using your profile to attract paying clientele for what you call a professional position that you hold then that is a business.. and your profile should actually be a special non normal profile that has a maybe special mark showing that you are a paying professional and not some random who thinks they have a good idea.. normal profiles advertising as prodoms should in that scenario also be banned.. like on another website i use and like more because its more active findoms shouldnt even be allowed.. that shits just cheesy

Would you also ban professionals from lifestyle events, even though when they attend, they are supporting the community? Would you cancel all educational classes because they are given by someone who has done pro sessions? Would you slap a scarlet letter on people who have control of finances that would be a special mark when seen at the local munch?

I would appreciate the information on what other site that you use that fin isn't allowed. Please enlighten Me.

< Message edited by LadyPact -- 1/17/2013 5:48:43 PM >

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 49

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:13:22 PM

Ronnie1986

Posts: 102
Joined: 1/15/2013
Status: offline

you arnt at all the kind of woman i am trying to attract which is why i have not viewed your profile.. and to be quite honest i havent read in full any of your posts.. you just dont seem intelligent enough to grasp hat i am saying

also my source for that review was

Lifestyle Blog Reviews
Reviewing the best, worst, pathetic, and down right hysterical lifestyle blogs and websites the internet has to offer.

< Message edited by Ronnie1986 -- 1/17/2013 6:16:09 PM >

(in reply to TheLilSquaw)

Post #: 50

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:26:53 PM

naughtynick81

Posts: 890
Joined: 3/23/2007
Status: offline

Ronnie, I don't think you'll get a fair discussion out of this lot in the ask a mistress forum.

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 51

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:28:29 PM

Ronnie1986

Posts: 102
Joined: 1/15/2013
Status: offline

well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed

im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

< Message edited by Ronnie1986 -- 1/17/2013 6:30:07 PM >

(in reply to naughtynick81)

Post #: 52

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:31:33 PM

PeonForHer

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

Nick, have you got a moustache? If so, I'd remove it.

I hope that helps.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to naughtynick81)

Post #: 53

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:32:49 PM

TheLilSquaw

Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed

im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 54

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:38:15 PM

Lynnxz

Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

Lifestyle Blog Reviews
Reviewing the best, worst, pathetic, and down right hysterical lifestyle blogs and websites the internet has to offer.

This from the dude whose profile background is so dark, you cannot make out the text.

:3

Glass houses, and stuff, ya know.

_____________________________

HBIC

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 55

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:42:44 PM

RedMagic1

Posts: 6470
Joined: 5/10/2007
Status: offline

Not sure if trolling, or just... sapiosexual.

_____________________________

Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others.
- 15th century Aztec

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 56

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:43:03 PM

Ronnie1986

Posts: 102
Joined: 1/15/2013
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed

im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol

yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one..

(in reply to TheLilSquaw)

Post #: 57

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:45:01 PM

Hillwilliam

Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed

im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol

yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one..

Not just anyone. I, for one, piss way too many people off.

_____________________________

Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 58

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:47:15 PM

TheLilSquaw

Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ronnie1986

well not only that mine and your posts have been getting removed

im gonna bet a prodom or findom is a mod... what a shocker..

Yes, there is a huge conspiracy! Lol

yes smart gal that is what i was implying.. most mods here are volunteers and unpayed.. anyone can be one..

Holy Bat Shit!!
You mean none of the mods are paid?
Oh wait, I already knew that hun.
That said, they TRY really hard to be impartial and not to moderate threads they participate in.

Btw... not everyone can be a mod.

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to Ronnie1986)

Post #: 59

RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it ... - 1/17/2013 6:51:51 PM

Lynnxz

Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Not sure if trolling, or just... sapiosexual.

I have my $ on trolling.... SURELY a true sapiosexual would have a basic understanding of punctuation. (Or do opposites attract?)

_____________________________

HBIC

(in reply to RedMagic1)

Post #: 60

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3] 4 5 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Does a Real Mistress ever contact a slave or is it only a slave's job?

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3] 4 5 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.109