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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:33:12 AM

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Clearly the pictures I have seen of you, you have a rack, but all those rack ssc sack fack lack cakk acronyms are a distinction without a difference to me.

Dont shove ice cubes up peoples asses, don't poke a quart of vodka up a slaves ass in an enema..........and if you don't know what you are doing, go real slow.....

And only engage in futile wanking discussions if you really don't give a glimmer of a fuck.....

Lol @ my rack

So um.. since when is ice up the ass or cunt bad?
My favorite dildo to use on myself or others happens to be home made ice dildos.

Wouldn't giving alcohol enemas get the person drunk without getting alcohol in their system?
I heard it some where, not sure where or if it's true. Lol

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:34:18 AM

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And another fine RACKee.

Hell yeah she has a absolutely yummy rack!

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:35:16 AM

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I can tell you that most people over the age of 35 have a high enough cholesterol count you dont want to poke ice cubes up their ass because the lard flaking off their veins will stop their heart (and has happened to those of tender years as well).

I never got that one anyway. That much alcohol up your ass will kill ya.

Its all funny until someone pokes an ice cube up your ass.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:35:39 AM

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I don't come to make up stuff and lie, why would I, if You haven't answered me then you havnt, whether you believe you have or not, and making other stuff up and taking things out of context is no help to me, i came to get an idea on people views and have questions I have answered, which no one has done. It seems that people don't want to communicate they just want to push their view on you without challenge. Anyway this wasn't a complete failure, I have learnt its hard to get a straight answer and people become defensive in an online forum when people feel your threatening their beliefs or knocking their lifestyle, even if all your doing is looking for answers. The OP was my opinion as I saw it then, Although I may still find something's weird or extreme, its not my business what people get upto, and their not bothered what I think anyway. Some of you have given me some food for thought and others not. My intension was to provoke thought in myself but ended up just provoking others. I go in peace....

You have to understand why people are getting defensive. You made generalizations, whether intended or not, regarding the BDSM community. That will happen no matter what group you approach. You can't take one, or even a few, examples and hold it as a standard.

There are extremes in everything. There are abusers everywhere. There is weirdness all around. Not just in BDSM.

The people here are much more relaxed and welcoming than the vanilla world. If two consenting adults are into something that you're not, you don't need to understand it or approve it. To each their own.

If you're talking about illegal or unsafe activity, no one here (that I have ever seen) approves of it.
In regards to the sub that puts herself in harms way, she could very well be pulling your chain. If she's not, then she may very well have issues. But that's not BDSM and just because she associates herself with it should, in no way, be taken as the norm.

I myself enjoy pain and unless you do as well, will probably never understand it. It is very therapeutic, taking you away from stresses temporarily, and giving the rush without the worry of a parachute not opening.

I do hope you take the advice of others and learn more.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:41:05 AM

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I can tell you that most people over the age of 35 have a high enough cholesterol count you dont want to poke ice cubes up their ass because the lard flaking off their veins will stop their heart (and has happened to those of tender years as well).

I never got that one anyway. That much alcohol up your ass will kill ya.

Its all funny until someone pokes an ice cube up your ass.

Well see I learned something!
Like I said I only heard the alcohol enema thing some where never did it.
Granted enemas aren't my thing anyways.
But to much alcohol period can kill ya so why would up the ass be any different. ?

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:47:49 AM

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*blushes*

One day, I'll show nipple. I promise.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:48:11 AM

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more immediate and efficient transmission thru the gut to the bloodstream.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:49:23 AM

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more immediate and efficient transmission thru the gut to the bloodstream.

That makes sense.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 11:53:45 AM

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and alcohol is a drier, and hard on your intestine, a cup of wine is getting close as a first and wait a long time shot.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 12:09:49 PM

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YO--IMPORTANT! Alcohol in the ass IS getting into your system. So no, NONONONO, if the person you are with takes alcohol in the mouth, in the vagina (to a lesser extent) or up the ass, it's still alcohol and THEY WILL become intoxicated. Period.
And if that person is allergic, or on Antabuse, or is an alcoholic, you're gonna be in some big, big fat trouble.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 2:30:21 PM

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OP, once you elaborated on what the sub actually said about her fantasy, I understood why you were so concerned. I know that would NOT be something I would want, and I have to wonder if she would truly enjoy it the way she thinks she would (having been through it myself).

I don't really think her story was the sticking point for most people. I have to admit, the original post made such a big deal out of how mentally unstable and not of sound mind blah blah people who like this stuff must be.....it was pretty hard NOT to be offended. It's basic communication 101 that if you want honest and non-defensive thoughts from people, insulting them right off the bat is probably not very effective.-

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 2:55:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Clearly the pictures I have seen of you, you have a rack, but all those rack ssc sack fack lack cakk acronyms are a distinction without a difference to me.

Dont shove ice cubes up peoples asses, don't poke a quart of vodka up a slaves ass in an enema..........and if you don't know what you are doing, go real slow.....

And only engage in futile wanking discussions if you really don't give a glimmer of a fuck.....

Lol @ my rack

So um.. since when is ice up the ass or cunt bad?
My favorite dildo to use on myself or others happens to be home made ice dildos.

Wouldn't giving alcohol enemas get the person drunk without getting alcohol in their system?
I heard it some where, not sure where or if it's true. Lol

I have had ice used on me several times. brrrr. aside from being cold I was fine. As far as alcohol enemas they can be dangerous. It seems it is absorbed directly into the blood stream instead of going through the normal process which makes it much easier to get alcohol poisoning. My husband gave himself a good case of that as a teenager when his sister turned 21. He consumed the alcohol the normal way and he started to throw up when the alcohol got too high. If it is absorbed through the colon there is no way for the body to get rid of additional alcohol.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 3:03:38 PM

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I'm not ignoring any posts

Rarely are absolutes true. And this one is definitely no exception to the rule

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 3:06:11 PM

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I feel a flounce coming on. The "logic" in his OP didn't convince us, so now we're "misunderstanding" him or "misquoting" him. And so it begins...

If only I had a dollar for every time I seen a poster play this card!

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 3:12:27 PM

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I have had ice used on me several times. brrrr. aside from being cold I was fine...

Oh yeah, many folks get away with it, but it can lead to a precipitous drop in blood pressure for some.

Not worth the risk to me. And I can stick my dick in there, which is hot instead of cold.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 4:12:48 PM

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I have had ice used on me several times. brrrr. aside from being cold I was fine...

Oh yeah, many folks get away with it, but it can lead to a precipitous drop in blood pressure for some.

Not worth the risk to me. And I can stick my dick in there, which is hot instead of cold.

I have used my ice dildos many times.
Without issue.

I also enjoy ice / water torture on it's own.
Is there a risk?
Of course but I am aware of it is so is anyone I do it with.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 6:21:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: con8ken

I'm new to all this, and I find it strange what people are doing, I can understand wanting some rough sex or a some pain, or being tied up etc, but the extremes are crazy. just because someone likes or gives consent to be treated in a certain way, doesn't mean that you should treat them that way whether you want to or not.
IMHO if you where a rational person, thinking clearly, not delusional or have a mental problem, you would see that its not sane to want to treat or be treated, in a way that some people in the bdsm scene do. It's not of sound mind to participate in a lot of the acts that take place. There are a lot of people who are being brainwashed into believing there fantasy is reality, through pics/vids and talking with so called D's / M's on the Internet, who are nothing more than sadistic "Abusers" who use the fact that there are people with a warped sense of self and right and wrong, to vent their sick desires and lust for control. We all have desires but we curtail them out of respect and dignity, not only for ourselves but others. Saying they like it to happen an I like doing it, is not a reason to do something. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Freedom of choice? Hmm

I'm going round in circles now.
I welcome any questions or challenges to my opinion/views. All the reading I've done and I'm not able to understand, so I've put up some of my views to be questioned in order to force me to think, maybe see what I've been missing.

They're crazy to you.

I watched a young 34 year old woman in Vegas get the living SHIT caned out of her...I'd put on a party and must have been 25 or so AOL'ers joined us (back in "the day")...my first true experience in the Ds world, watched it with eyes wide open...chic was bleeding to beat all get out.

I never saw a more beautiful thing in my life and watching it, I bawled like a newborn baby....she was happy.

Ain't nothing more I can add to that.

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 6:39:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: con8ken
IMHO if you where a rational person, thinking clearly, not delusional or have a mental problem, you would see that its not sane to want to treat or be treated, in a way that some people in the bdsm scene do. It's not of sound mind to participate in a lot of the acts that take place.

Ummm, I haven't read the whole thread yet, but.....JUDGE MUCH????

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/23/2013 6:48:43 PM

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I have had ice used on me several times. brrrr. aside from being cold I was fine...

Oh yeah, many folks get away with it, but it can lead to a precipitous drop in blood pressure for some.

Not worth the risk to me. And I can stick my dick in there, which is hot instead of cold.

I did not know about the blood pressure issue. I do agree that warm things should go there, not frozen! My husband still laughs at the look I get on my face when he says he will grab the ice. * shivers*

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RE: New to bdsm and find a lot of it weird?? - 1/24/2013 3:13:52 AM

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I'm not ignoring any posts

You have yet to address my or LadyPact's point that the sub could just be looking for a White Knight. See http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4360933

When I've thought someone was a danger to herself, I called 911 or brought her to the hospital. I didn't fuck around with strangers on an online discussion board.

You also didn't answer the question of if you have ever meet her in real life. You might want to meet her before you go to the police with "someone on the internet has rape fantasies."

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