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Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 11:50:31 AM   
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I don't care if people do but why? First, we know what you've got in a general way of speaking. Also, many women in their profiles may say something like : "I don't need cock shots in your e mail to me." or some such verbage.

As for me, I don't need to click on a persons profile and all I see is some woman's tittie or pussy. I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later. This is just a thought.

I think of it like this. WHen one goes to a picnic, what is really fun is smelling the food before the covers are taken off. THe visual
delight then comes later. Show who you are, show the aroma of your essensce without unveiling your body. Just a thought.
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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 11:55:22 AM   
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See here is the thing.
You may not want to see nude photos of people.
But some people do enjoy them.

As long as they are not the primary photo they are not against the rules of this site.

So you don't get to dictate to every other user what they can and cannot have in their profile photos or otherwise. Only the Mods and owner get to do that.

Now you can choose to hide them if they have nudes and you don't want to look.

I mean what if I said, damn you know what I am just turned off by men with facial hair so no men are allowed to post photos of themselves unless they are clean shaven.

Btw.. I have walked around nude at picnics and parties before. :)

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 11:55:49 AM   
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I have a firm belief that people post pictures of what they think is important. So, they think their pussy, dick, car, motorcycle, toys or photos of the ex to prove that they've touched a real live woman are the most important thing. Which pretty much means that I wasn't interested in them.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 11:58:03 AM   
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They're looking for quick "love" and attention and probably works for them.
Similar attention, I'm assuming, if a woman wore a crotch-length skirt and low cut top, just a small breeze away from exposing herself.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 11:58:42 AM   
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I have a firm belief that people post pictures of what they think is important. So, they think their pussy, dick, car, motorcycle, toys or photos of the ex to prove that they've touched a real live woman are the most important thing. Which pretty much means that I wasn't interested in them.


This. Also, I don't like cock shots, tit shots, vag shots or ass shots unless they're tasteful and artsy.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:00:53 PM   
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This. Also, I don't like cock shots, tit shots, vag shots or ass shots unless they're tasteful and artsy.



But um your photo is of you doing a hand bra? Lol
Some wouldn't call that tasteful or artsy, granted I'm not complaining I think your breasts are yummy.

However, who defines what is tasteful or artsy?




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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:02:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat


This. Also, I don't like cock shots, tit shots, vag shots or ass shots unless they're tasteful and artsy.



But um your photo is of you doing a hand bra? Lol
Some wouldn't call that tasteful or artsy, granted I'm not complaining I think your breasts are yummy.

However, who defines what is tasteful or artsy?




Hahaha, never said mine were!

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:06:14 PM   
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I like your pic. Still leaves things to the imagination.
A nude pic can be properly done, but so rarely is (that I've seen) here.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:07:20 PM   
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OP, some people like myself enjoy nude pictures, hell I even enjoy cock shots as long as they aren't emailed to me randomly. Lol


Also, I don't even think of the people who post them as looking for " quick " love or attention. I think, damn they are obviously comfortable in their own skin and with their body. I find that impressive and refreshing.

Now if someone is mailing out unsolicited nude pics or cock shots well that is something entirely different.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:44:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

I don't care if people do but why? First, we know what you've got in a general way of speaking. Also, many women in their profiles may say something like : "I don't need cock shots in your e mail to me." or some such verbage.

As for me, I don't need to click on a persons profile and all I see is some woman's tittie or pussy. I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later. This is just a thought.

I think of it like this. WHen one goes to a picnic, what is really fun is smelling the food before the covers are taken off. THe visual
delight then comes later. Show who you are, show the aroma of your essensce without unveiling your body. Just a thought.
CT
Cheers


Probably the women do it to save time; within the first letter or two most guys are asking for nakkie pix. Either that or they are exhibitionists or the pix aren't really of them.

My own preference...I like some mystery. (A present unwrapped at my leisure.)

This might seem harsh, but of the men who approached me...ones who had posted nakkie pix were often looking just for sex or some wank fodder. Guys who had modest pix were treating me, in letters and in person, like they were looking for a long term relationship that included love.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 12:51:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia




Probably the women do it to save time; within the first letter or two most guys are asking for nakkie pix. Either that or they are exhibitionists or the pix aren't really of them.

My own preference...I like some mystery. (A present unwrapped at my leisure.)

This might seem harsh, but of the men who approached me...ones who had posted nakkie pix were often looking just for sex or some wank fodder. Guys who had modest pix were treating me, in letters and in person, like they were looking for a long term relationship that included love.


True. I as well enjoy some mystery. The chase/hunt is a huge part of the fun. Naked pics aren't hunting, they're caged game. BTW I love your Pokemon avatar!

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 1:25:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

I don't care if people do but why?
Show who you are, show the aroma of your essensce without unveiling your body. Just a thought.



Some people are exhibitionists. Some people consider themselves nothing more than a object. Some people consider themselves meat. Some people have nothing more to offer. Some people enjoy the attention. Some people just want to see if you can get past the body to find out who they are. The biggest factor, I would guess, is that sex sells. It always has and always will.

If you meet someone in person the first thing you notice is the way they look. Unless you are interested in that, who the person is or the essence of them is irrelevant.

Likewise, if you meet half of these people in a public or private kink venue - odds are they are going to be some fashion of nude.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 1:32:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I have a firm belief that people post pictures of what they think is important. So, they think their pussy, dick, car, motorcycle, toys or photos of the ex to prove that they've touched a real live woman are the most important thing. Which pretty much means that I wasn't interested in them.


I have to agree with an added chuckle.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 1:36:02 PM   
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There's a huge tactical problem with the firm belief that a person posts what they think is strategically important.

There are many reason why some of us can't post pictures of what we feel is important, only three of which I'll give an example of below, to show the point:

PRIVACY EXAMPLE:
What if, for example, I think a picture of my gorgeous face is important ... yet ... I can't post that for professional and privacy reasons?

CULTURE EXAMPLE:
Or, what if I think it's important to show a picture of me shirtless next to my one-of-a-kind lunar rocketship - but those man-with-toy pictures are considered gauche - so I bow to culture and don't post what I think is important.

PROFESSIONALISM EXAMPLE:
What if I think the fact I run a multi-million dollar company is important - but it would be unprofessional to post a picture of me on the stage preaching to my minions.

The point is that some of us (especially the ones with more to lose than others) are actually extremely limited in what profile pictures we can pose, for a huge variety of family, work, and social reasons (not just privacy, culture, and professionalism).

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:04:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: xLaChienne

Likewise, if you meet half of these people in a public or private kink venue - odds are they are going to be some fashion of nude.



If not nude, then dressed in red or black. ;)

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:07:33 PM   
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If not nude, then dressed in red or black. ;)



Obviously those are the only acceptable colors. Every once in awhile you might see a dark purple or dark blue.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:20:20 PM   
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Why?

Along with the other answers given, you might consider that websites like CM are the only venue some people get for "putting it all out there" .



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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:29:59 PM   
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The pictures people post of themselves are picture they themselves like. They either convey a message or they are erotic to the poster and hope they are erotic to the viewer. Right or wrong never enters into their decision to post them.

If they inspire someone to contact them then they have served their purpose...and if they inspire someone not to contact them they have still served their purpose.

I would not want someone contacting me that was turned off by my profile pictures. I don't hold it against them if they don't it is just we would not have the same interests at heart and should not have a relationship.

So like they say " A picture is worth a thousand words "

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:34:16 PM   
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I did it because I was forced to. Otherwise, I would wear a one piece snowsuit.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 2:34:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kdsub

The pictures people post of themselves are picture they themselves like. They either convey a message or they are erotic to the poster and hope they are erotic to the viewer. Right or wrong never enters into their decision to post them.




THIS.



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