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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 3:34:41 PM

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Modesty is also open to interpretation.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 3:41:09 PM

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It's entirely possible being comfortable in your own skin while reserving modesty. Sure, most of the people posting them are probably comfortable with their body, but I doubt that's the reason behind physically posting them for most.

Sex does sell. Quickly. People are marketing themselves and trying to use their best means of marketing. To work quickly. Is that not quick attention? For people only interested in a play partner, why wouldn't they want to market the necessary parts? Is that not quick love?

I believe you are somewhat wrong here...people are not selling themselves they are defining themselves. Through their pictures they are defining what they are and what they want.

Modesty may not be what they want...hell… sex as we think of it may not be what they want with explicit photos.

Otherwise it is each to their own... how they present themselves is up to them and meant to attract like minded people.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 3:42:19 PM

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Take the picture I deman... er, I mean request and post it there.

Coming soon.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 3:49:28 PM

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It's entirely possible being comfortable in your own skin while reserving modesty. Sure, most of the people posting them are probably comfortable with their body, but I doubt that's the reason behind physically posting them for most.

Sex does sell. Quickly. People are marketing themselves and trying to use their best means of marketing. To work quickly. Is that not quick attention? For people only interested in a play partner, why wouldn't they want to market the necessary parts? Is that not quick love?

What is modest to ME may not be what is modest to YOU.
That is one of those terms that is very personal and has a different meaning for everyone.

Who says, that everyone with a nude photo is looking for sex?
Who says only people who are nude are looking sex?
Or that only people who are nude are sexual or selling their sexuality?

I personally find Lady Pacts avatar extremely sexy and sexual even though she is fully clothed. (no I am not saying she is selling sex or looking for anything sexual)

I get more sexual comments with my foot pictures than I ever did with nude photos. Lol

And no I don't thinking looking for a play partner is looking for quick love.
I don't think LOVE has to have anything to with it.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 4:10:52 PM

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Boob Thread

Where's this thread at?

I don't know why people post nudes, don't really care. I like some of them, and ignore the rest.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 4:20:51 PM

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In a magical place.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 4:28:27 PM

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In a magical place.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3303640/mpage_1/tm.htm

I remember THAT thread!
I am actually in it under my old nick.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 4:28:44 PM

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I don't care if people do but why? First, we know what you've got in a general way of speaking. Also, many women in their profiles may say something like : "I don't need cock shots in your e mail to me." or some such verbage.

As for me, I don't need to click on a persons profile and all I see is some woman's tittie or pussy. I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later. This is just a thought.

I think of it like this. WHen one goes to a picnic, what is really fun is smelling the food before the covers are taken off. THe visual
delight then comes later. Show who you are, show the aroma of your essensce without unveiling your body. Just a thought.
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I do it to disturb people....take them away from the headlines...make them realize there are worse things than the world economy crashing before their eyes.

(But....I'm a known giver....it's just the way I am).

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 4:38:29 PM

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In a magical place.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3303640/mpage_1/tm.htm

Yay for magic!

I remember now... isn't this the thread that Jeff modeled Carol's underwear..

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 6:36:56 PM

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I apologize if any of my responses come off pissy, it's not my intention at all!

Let me rephrase this one based on your comment: It's entirely possible to be comfortable in your own skin while keeping clothes on.

You're right. Modesty can be subjective and carry different meanings to others. As can love. Some view it as an act, some affection, some as attachment...
I used the term, love, loosely.

I don't think I stated 'everyone' with a naked pic was looking for sex or that people without nude photos weren't looking for sex.
I did not state my explanation as the absolute, and I wouldn't even attempt to create a full listing of reasonings behind nude pics because 1) I don't know all the reasons and 2) the list would be picked apart anyway. My thought was merely just one possible explanation. Everyone is different, and each have their own reasonings.

Many (not most and not all, because I don't know the statistics) people on CM are looking for someone, no matter what the reason may be. When they're looking for a match, there is a level of selling there.
Their profile and pictures they choose are part of their advertisement.
Some choose to advertise wits, some with intelligence, others with looks, and some with a few of these. Some post what's important to them, where some may post what they believe to be important to others (including the fakes, if there really are such a thing. I think there still needs to be more posts about it to determine, for attention).

It's not a secret that some men, and yes women too, want to see the naked pics (otherwise nude magazines would have gone out of business a long time ago). I look at them. If they see a naked pic, they'll possibly want to click on that profile and see more of what the person has to offer.
Some use this to their benefit. The naked pic gives them some quick attention, IMO.

If I had two identical profiles, one with a nude pic and one without, I wouldn't be surprised if the nude would attract more traffic. More attention.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 6:39:30 PM

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Oh yeah? Well some people go to picnics to enjoy shirtless men,or girls in "daisy dukes". Anyway, my point is that everyone's profile is not going to cater to your interests, meet your standards, or in some cases be unoffensive to you......and they shouldn't have to.

Your pofile is nothing more than a way to express yourself. One might ask why you have a picuture that has nothing to do with "the lifestyle" as your profile picture? The answer is simple.....it is a representation of your self-expression through your sense of humor.....i think.

Also, having nude photos does not indicate that someone is looking for sex. I for one usually have one or two nude photos here and I am in a happy, monogamous relationship.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 6:44:23 PM

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weird. I was just checking one of my old hard drives to see if I could find that tight, extreme close-up of my clit just as it had one drop of cum crowning at the tip. It was very gorgeous, slick, pink, with shell tones and just a drop of white glistening at the opening. It looked like a flower. O'Keefe would have been proud.

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ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 6:48:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

weird. I was just checking one of my old hard drives to see if I could find that tight, extreme close-up of my clit just as it had one drop of cum crowning at the tip. It was very gorgeous, slick, pink, with shell tones and just a drop of white glistening at the opening. It looked like a flower. O'Keefe would have been proud.

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ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later.

You are now responsible for the gumming up of keyboards everywhere.

Nicely done.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 6:49:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

weird. I was just checking one of my old hard drives to see if I could find that tight, extreme close-up of my clit just as it had one drop of cum crowning at the tip. It was very gorgeous, slick, pink, with shell tones and just a drop of white glistening at the opening. It looked like a flower. O'Keefe would have been proud.

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ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

I'd rather see
a work of art if nothing else and leave what they have a mystery to that person or persons they will submit to
later.

Now THAT is worth a looksee...

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 7:15:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

weird. I was just checking one of my old hard drives to see if I could find that tight, extreme close-up of my clit just as it had one drop of cum crowning at the tip. It was very gorgeous, slick, pink, with shell tones and just a drop of white glistening at the opening. It looked like a flower. O'Keefe would have been proud.

OH!
I wanna see.
Pertty please!

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 7:52:22 PM

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This. That is why when people send cock photos I always say they are targeting themselves, not necessarily who they wish to target.

Depends on the cock. I've seen some that made Me reevaluate My interest.

Negative and positive.

Oh, I have seen some that made me go, Wow, nice!. However, since that was all they sent, and presumably sent to every other woman on the planet, it made me question the owner of the cock; if he cannot wait to attract someone through his mind or just a regular photo and he feels that is his best offer, it does not matter what it looks like.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 7:55:52 PM

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I've read most of the answers, but not all, so I'm not trying to repeat anyone here.

There are quite a few women with more "provocative" photos, like absolutchocolate (which is a nice picture) who is obviously comfortable with herself and what she is looking for. That's great.

However, I think many women post cleavage/tit shots as a primary because they figure it is what is expected of them. Those same women often come here wondering why they get the "on your knees, bitch," and "let's fuck" type messages. That's where I have the issues. If those types of messages are something you want to avoid, don't lead with your tits. Sorry, just the way it is.

ac may "lead" with her tits, but I've never seen her here complaining about the types of messages she gets.

As for the men, they post pics of their dicks, because it IS what they are leading with. Whether they are top or bottom, they are trying to impress us with their package, be it with their confidence of its beauty, or belief that it deserves ridicule. They want to show everyone what they have.

I've yet to see a guy with a dick pick who doesn't fit one of those two categories.

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 8:09:19 PM

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They post nude (frontal) photos because they think they are the only ones with JUNK to show off.

It's like driving through a neighborhood when everyone's having a lawnsale. Most of the stuff is the same you have in your own house, some of it's dingy and gross, sometimes you see something odd that makes you look twice....and perhaps to some, what they have is "treasure".

TASTEFUL nudes are ok...By tasteful I mean like "classical art" poses where the JUNK isn't right in your face...it's rare to see that though.

Personally, even if I were single and SEEKING, I'd still prefer the "vanilla" shots of people just doing what they like to do. Those are usually the ones I write to out of the blue, by the way. (hint hint)

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 8:31:53 PM

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They post nude (frontal) photos because they think they are the only ones with JUNK to show off.

I think we need to distinguish between headless nudes and full frontal (with face) nudes.

A headless nude is merely one way to post a kinky picture without being recognized while a full nude (with face) is only what fits into your discussion.

BTW, here's a story from today in the news which shows how a guy used a profile's nude pictures against people to blackmail them!
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/01/29/sextortion-arrest/1876189/

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RE: Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos? - 1/29/2013 8:34:42 PM

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I don't know how that guy got away with it. It was sorting of fighting fire with fire to get fire.

He apparently found nudes, to get nudes, and then blackmailed with more nudes.

Where do I find some of those gullible women?

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