JeffBC
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Joined: 2/12/2012 From: Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: xLaChienne Some people are exhibitionists. Some people consider themselves nothing more than a object. Some people consider themselves meat. Some people have nothing more to offer. Some people enjoy the attention. Some people just want to see if you can get past the body to find out who they are. The biggest factor, I would guess, is that sex sells. It always has and always will. This sounds about right to me. In other words, it's complicated but we are a sexual species (sex sells). I've posted no nude photos of either myself or Carol but I did send some of Carol privately. quote:
If you meet someone in person the first thing you notice is the way they look. Unless you are interested in that, who the person is or the essence of them is irrelevant. For me it tends to be the other way around. I don't really notice someone's exterior unless I have some specific reason to be interested in that. It's the inside that is blindingly obvious. I suspect that's why I'm more interested in the discussion boards than the profile section and I seldom, if ever, go looking at photos. At most, if a woman is "too pretty" I'll note her as "potentially dangerous/annoying". Other than that it's the personality I'm interacting with not the boobs.
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