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Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles & sent in CMail?


I am a GUY: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!
  37% (60)
I am a GUY: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.
  9% (15)
I am a GAL: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!
  9% (15)
I am a GAL: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.
  43% (68)


Total Votes : 158
(last vote on : 5/10/2013 4:29:27 PM)
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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:04:57 PM   
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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:05:08 PM   
coldslayer


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Status: offline 		i like semi nudes. keep your genitals to yourself

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:05:59 PM   
PeonForHer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

As a "gal" (I believe that is how you put it in your question), I know what both a male's genitalia and behind looks like. And to be honest, they are basically the same shape, color, etc.


I can't agree, EL. My genitalia may be humdrum and of workmanlike appearance, but my behind is of exquisite proportions and an aesthetic delight to behold.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:06:18 PM   
SpyUnderCover


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quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U
Important point- nude pictures DO NOT mean dangling dicks & dirty ass cracks!!


And a good point it is. I've seen some pictures here that were very tastefully done and, although nude, didn't reveal asses or genitals.

My mother always used to cluck at scantily clad people and say, "It leaves nothing to the imagination!" Now I get what she was talking about. Like some others have already said, I think there is greater appeal in not showing all. One of the things I like about CollarMe is that it doesn't allow genitalia shots as the primary profile picture.

And I especially do not want to see some larger than life cock shot or bare ass sent to me in my messages!

Spy

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:11:25 PM   
usemetopleaseyou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nelee
True. But after the first 100 penises, it tends to get really old, really fast...


If that were really true for the majority of males, then male oriented porn would have died out long ago.

I mean, look at the front page of each of these web sites below.
http://bondagepaper.com
http://onlyteenstgp.com
http://sexnemo.com
etc.

Don't you think, from your perspective (you who care less than others), that all these nude women are the same? (After the first thousand or ten thousand)?

The answer, from your perspective is obviously yes. These teats, after ten thousand pairs of them (should) get pretty old really fast, right?

But they don't. At least not to the those who watch this stuff (mostly people with large amounts of innate testosterone, by the way).

Nature built it that way.

Hence my point.

It's like that old joke about all black people looking alike.
They only look alike when you take no interest in them.

While it's no sin of yours to have little interest in cock, the point is that those with interest, see EVERY SINGLE ONE as uniquely and delectably different.

Even after ten thousand of them!

So it is with nude profile pictures.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:19:10 PM   
pompeii


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From: Silicon Valley, San Jose, California
Status: offline 		I gotta go with the "all Asians look alike to me" logic.

Cocks/Tits/Black Butt Cracks, whatever all only look alike to those who really have little interest in them.

I'd bet, to a herpetologist, all snakes are different - but to most women who have responded, all snakes are pretty much alike.

I mean they might be able to recognize a pit viper from a garter snake - but they wouldn't be able to tell a male snake from a female (not that I can either).

As for me, I'd LOVE to see naked pictures. The more skin shown the better.

Truth be leaked out, I have a gorgeously large and well hung and clean cut and evenly sized cock - but I don't have a picture of it on MY profile.

Why not?

Because I figure women don't really WANT to see that. Too bad. It's my best asset (other than my brain and overly developed hands and tongue).

Why not put a picture of MYSELF on my profile?

Answer: Because I can't. I just can't. Professional and all that.

You can't put the picture you want and you can't put the picture the women don't want.

It's just not as easy for some of us to pick a representative profile picture.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:21:47 PM   
Blankpain


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Status: offline 		I think overall women are more tasteful in their pictures than the men are.

It comes with the territory of women being more artistic and men being more brutally blunt.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:26:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think women are more artistic, but I agree with the blunt part.

Great pic, btw

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:26:39 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't. Nude photos automatically go into the garbage bin, message and profile, unread.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:33:59 PM   
Nelee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: usemetopleaseyou


quote:

ORIGINAL: Nelee
True. But after the first 100 penises, it tends to get really old, really fast...


If that were really true for the majority of males, then male oriented porn would have died out long ago.

I mean, look at the front page of each of these web sites below.
http://bondagepaper.com
http://onlyteenstgp.com
http://sexnemo.com
etc.

Don't you think, from your perspective (you who care less than others), that all these nude women are the same? (After the first thousand or ten thousand)?

The answer, from your perspective is obviously yes. These teats, after ten thousand pairs of them (should) get pretty old really fast, right?

But they don't. At least not to the those who watch this stuff (mostly people with large amounts of innate testosterone, by the way).

Nature built it that way.

Hence my point.

It's like that old joke about all black people looking alike.
They only look alike when you take no interest in them.

While it's no sin of yours to have little interest in cock, the point is that those with interest, see EVERY SINGLE ONE as uniquely and delectably different.

Even after ten thousand of them!

So it is with nude profile pictures.


Are you comparing the entirety of the female body to a penis? I'm not sure if I can share your sentiments of diversity in that regard. Of course there is going to be delicious variation amongst women. There's delicious variation amongst men. But comparing a single body part in that way isn't a very good comparison, I think. Even comparing breasts to penises feel like a faulty comparison (but that could just be my bias showing). They aren't similar enough to put side-by-side like that. At least I think so.

I mean, even though I'm being picky about the comparison, I do see what you're saying. However, what would make sense in porn wouldn't make as much since on a social (BDSM) site. The intentions of someone who's looking up pictures for their porn collection and someone who's scrolling through the forums are a little bit different. And, honestly, I feel the same for women. I mean, vaginas are awesome. But if it was in my face constantly, I think I would just lose interest.

Sorry if this isn't very well typed. I'm mentally occupied atm and doing everyday things is proving to be more difficult.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:34:05 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Maybe the more "useful" poll would be something like:

What's your gender?
What's your goal on CM? (main choices: cyber, short-term hookup, long term relationship, professional clientele)
What kind of photos do you like to see on a profile?

It might be impossible to get accurate answers for those questions, but anyone writing a profile should understand: your goal isn't to "sell yourself," even though that's the Conventional Wisdom(tm). Rather, it's to build a tool that helps you sort: people you are interested in will be more likely to be interested in you, and people you're not interested in will be more likely to not write you. So what kind of person do you want to interest? And what kind of photos will that person most enjoy?

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 6:57:40 PM   
asiansubmissie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
It might be impossible to get accurate answers for those questions


Everyone is different in their own very special way & THAT is what makes their body parts so different, to me.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:11:50 PM   
Etruscano


Posts: 36
Joined: 1/19/2013
Status: offline 		ooooh! Looks pretty even to me ... which way should I go? (anyone wanna sway me with a naked picture of your lovely bosum?)

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:14:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not a surprising gender gap in the voting.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:29:57 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Could you hide your knees, please, Blankpain? I find them disturbing and worrying.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:31:37 PM   
DesFIP


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From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		All genitalia look damn similar. A breast is a breast, a cock is a cock.

If you think the best way to represent yourself is through your little head, that says to me you don't have anything of value in the big head.

Remember folks, the biggest sexual organ is the human brain. If you can't arouse that part of me, you aren't going to have better luck further down.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:47:24 PM   
Pyramus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

All genitalia look damn similar. A breast is a breast, a cock is a cock.


I think they're all different. Very different. And certainly they all respond differently.

And, I like seeing them. Just as nobody ever spoiled a movie by telling me the ending, and nobody ever spoiled an exam by giving me the answers, nobody ever spoiled a profile by putting a naked picture in it.

But that's just me. You are clearly different, and that's OK.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:49:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		So if you were going to be treated by a doctor who would have failed med school had someone not given him the answers, that would be fine for you? You wouldn't feel safer with someone who understood the course instead?

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 7:55:00 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bayareacouple
We were born naked for a reason.


Yes, you were born naked because a uterus cannot weave fabric.


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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/30/2013 8:00:13 PM   
Pyramus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

So if you were going to be treated by a doctor who would have failed med school had someone not given him the answers, that would be fine for you?


Hmmm... how should I respond.
I went to college. Pre med. I know what it's like. The way to get INTO med school is to do ANYTHING it takes to get in, if you're a guy (in the years I took it, affirmative action was in full force).
Women could get in with a 3.7 or 3.8 average while men couldn't get close to an interview without a 4.0 average (at least for US med schools).
Bio 101, Calc 101, Physics 101, etc. are no big deal - but the big weeding out class is Organic Chemistry your sophomore year.
Trust me. Nobody on the planet understands organic chemistry. You either memorize a book of chemical equations that is, oh, about four inches thick (Morrison & Boyd), or you cheat.

The ones who memorize lose. The ones who cheat win. THOSE are your doctors today.

How do they cheat? Well, if they're in a frat, they have ALL the last 20 years' worth of exams. Many know enough to get the book answers so they can zip through their homework with 100% correct scores.
The guy who doesn't cheat doesn't get through organic chemistry.

But there's more. Then take Microbio class (Davis, Delbecco, Eisen, Ginsberg, & Wood). I'm sure I'm dating myself, but that book has to be six inches thick. It's all about bacteria.
Again, like Organic, nobody really understands this stuff (I only realized that many years later).

The guys (and gals) who are MD's today "may" be incredibly smart - but - more likely - they learned how to scam the system.

If you've been through these classes - feel free to explain how you may beg to differ - but if you haven't been through it yourself, you actually have absolutely no clue what I'm talking about (and, you won't even believe anything I say because it's hard for you to believe).

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