LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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For the record, it isn't that I dislike dicks. I just don't care to have them in my face as an introduction. It also makes it very clear exactly where the guy's thoughts are; primarily sexual. That's fine for some, and I don't feel there is anything wrong with that. However, I want to find someone who is more than simply their genitalia. Thing is LL, I enjoy looking at them, BUT I would not be interested in a relationship with them. Looking and wanting to be with someone are different in my world. I don't want to see you naked IF I am interested, before I even get to know you as a person. But since I am not interested nor compatible with 80% on here, I can enjoy the cheap thrills! After being a member 8 years, I saw more naked pictures of men and women, PLEASE!! I am a big lookie loo. ***Proud I am the only female so far that feels this way!*** lol, they say I am different Well, that's pretty much the point, isn't it? It's like the guy who dates the amazonian bimbo, but sure as hell doesn't want to take her home to his family or marry her. I don't want someone to introduce themselves to me with a cock shot. I don't understand why they don't get how much it says about them, and no in a good way. I once had a man who had to be 400lbs. send me a picture of his ass in a pink thong. I swear that image is painfully burned into my brain for eternity. Since then, I have hidden profiles with primary cock shots or anything else I find offensive to have tossed in my face when I sign in on the other side. Primary cock shots also get reported. When they are secondary or more, I may look at them, but it is not offensive. I mean, it is a BDSM site, so a lot of people are going to toss their sexuality to the forefront. Sometimes, the photos are interesting for entertainment value (as in the d-type with the gherkin penis who talks about what he will do with his big cock, lol). I would never even think that the site should ban such photos, to each is own. I just don't want it thrown in my face, and I would much prefer the ones that have a little thought behind them. I can't find the name for the guy, I think he is posting on the other naked thread, but he is nude with a tool belt covering his genitals. Now that, I find enticing, well thought out and a little bit of a turn on (I admit, I have a thing for guys that can fix things).
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