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Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles & sent in CMail?

I am a GUY: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!

37% (60)

I am a GUY: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.

9% (15)

I am a GAL: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!

9% (15)

I am a GAL: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.

43% (68)

Total Votes : 158

(last vote on : 5/10/2013 4:29:27 PM)
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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 9:36:08 AM

orgasmdenial12

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Generally I hate nude shots, but cock pics are useful because I'm primarily attracted to uncut men, and a cock shot allows me to get that information without having to ask them point blank and then make them feel rejected if they are circumcised.

When I like the man it's attached to, I cannot get enough of the cock - for random strangers, I could happily never see another nude pic again, malr or female.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 9:37:20 AM

Pyramus

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[quote = needlesandpins]
in real life when looking for a relationship you don't expect a guy to walk around with his cock hanging out. however, if i'm looking on a sex site for sex then i expect to see cocks hanging out.
[/quote]

Actually, I'd change that slightly when you're talking about women in real life versus men in real life in that men do NOT, for example, go to dance clubs with their sexual organs hanging out - but clearly women do.

I mean, how many tens of thousands of times have we seen girls with their boobs hanging out of their dresses in real life, and their skirts so short their front and rear genitalia were "almost" visible - and often visible when sitting or bending over?

So, there seems to be a strange double standard here, where women show their genitalia (or, more cleverly, ALMOST show their genitalia), in real life - yet overwhelmingly, here, on CM anyway, they prefer not to see that of their male counterparts.

Not that men are devoid of double standards themselves ...

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 9:43:39 AM

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I mean, how many tens of thousands of times have we seen girls with their boobs hanging out of their dresses in real life, and their skirts so short their front and rear genitalia were "almost" visible - and often visible when sitting or bending over?

When I see women like this my first thought is tacky and cheap and a few other choice words but I'm trying not to be too rude. And yes, I used to be that way when I was young and drunk and a partier.I was cheap and tacky and slutty. But I also wasn't searching for a relationship. I was searching for a little late night booty only. You don't go to a bar for relationship type people. So the women I see on here like that, yeah, the first thought is they are not looking for a relationship. They're looking for easy, free sex.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 9:44:17 AM

Winterapple

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FR
I went to art school and have seen a lot of naked bodies.
All sorts of naked bodies and saw beauty in a variety of
body types. I can also because of all those life drawing
classes look at nudity in a very detached way.

I don't get to up in arms about nudity on profiles though
I find in your face gyno and procto shots as main pics
irritating and agree with the rule that they shouldn't be
allowed as a main profile pic. A cock is pretty much just
a cock unless it belongs to someone who has caught my
attention another way. If a man sends me a cock pic with
or as a message I block and delete him. There's no way I
could take a man seriously who would do that.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 10:02:28 AM

Longerthanyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins
as for this thing about all cocks being the same, well they are not. we are all different shapes and sizes, and what suits one person may well not suit another.....actually as demonstrated earlier with comments on 400lb women. there are some damn ugly cocks around, and some very good looking ones. DrG has a very good looking cock. it's a good length, excellent thickness to match length, of even thickness, has a well defined glans, and is smooth with good colour. if i had to choose then it's exactly the cock i would want if i were a guy.

That quote got me thinking so I opened a separate thread on what cock women would want men to have or what cock men would want to have over here:
What is it specifically that makes a cock good looking TO YOU anyway?

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 10:07:48 AM

Pyramus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder
I used to be that way when I was young and drunk and a partier.I was cheap and tacky and slutty. But I also wasn't searching for a relationship.

Women dress "sexy" all the time (as defined by tits hanging out and skirts far too short to keep their ass cheeks hidden), even when not looking for a relationship.

And certainly they dress in extremely tight clothing starting from about High School onward, even when they're shopping at the local 7Eleven, which shows their genitals off to what they consider their best advantage.

So I think it's interesting also that women show off their body to men yet in this poll they prefer not to see the same in men. Nothing bad about this mind you (I love it), but it just doesn't make any sense.

Not that women ever did...

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 10:16:56 AM

myotherself

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I have no problem seeing men in tight jeans and not wearing a shirt.

I DO have a problem with men lobbing their dick out here, there and everywhere.

I have no problem seeing women in short skirts and wearing teeny tops.

I DO have a problem with women flashing the gash here, there and everywhere.

Not a double standard, just a gender-neutral desire to keep the junk under wraps.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 10:24:26 AM

littlewonder

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder
I used to be that way when I was young and drunk and a partier.I was cheap and tacky and slutty. But I also wasn't searching for a relationship.

Women dress "sexy" all the time (as defined by tits hanging out and skirts far too short to keep their ass cheeks hidden), even when not looking for a relationship.

And certainly they dress in extremely tight clothing starting from about High School onward, even when they're shopping at the local 7Eleven, which shows their genitals off to what they consider their best advantage.

So I think it's interesting also that women show off their body to men yet in this poll they prefer not to see the same in men. Nothing bad about this mind you (I love it), but it just doesn't make any sense.

Not that women ever did...

Yes I like to DRESS sexy, not slutty as I said previously...I only did that when I was young and drunk and no I don't find the women who hang out at 7/11 to be sexy. Here in Baltimore they're called prostitutes.

When I dress sexy it's a nice dress, maybe a couple inches shorter above the knee with a sleek line and classicly cut. I also have worn jeans and just a tshirt and have been called sexy. I don't mind that. There's a difference between sexy and slutty. What you described is imo, slutty.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 10:42:16 AM

EsotericLady

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Contrary to your generalizing (grrrr) not ALL women dress that provocatively!!

(If you'll notice, the majority of the women who are turned off by "in your face" penis and arse shots don't have provocative avatars or nude photos with their profiles.)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

Women dress "sexy" all the time (as defined by tits hanging out and skirts far too short to keep their ass cheeks hidden), even when not looking for a relationship.

And certainly they dress in extremely tight clothing starting from about High School onward, even when they're shopping at the local 7Eleven, which shows their genitals off to what they consider their best advantage.

So I think it's interesting also that women show off their body to men yet in this poll they prefer not to see the same in men. Nothing bad about this mind you (I love it), but it just doesn't make any sense.

Not that women ever did...

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 11:23:01 AM

xssve

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My genes are mostly Norwegian in this regard, so if everybody walked around naked all time it would not bother me in the slightest.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 12:18:22 PM

Spiritedsub2

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I like when men post pictures in their profiles of their cocks, or of themselves naked on all fours, etc. Those pictures save me from engaging with them; it's an efficient weeding tool. "Tool" being the operative word.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 4:55:41 PM

Cilicia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Contrary to your generalizing (grrrr) not ALL women dress that provocatively!!

quote:

Go to a mall or any nightclub.

It sure "seems" like all women dress with their body parts hanging out.

Maybe it's just me though. Or maybe just the women I notice.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 5:37:52 PM

LafayetteLady

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It's just you and the women you notice. Perhaps you are only looking at the teenagers and twenty somethings.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 5:40:30 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Agent99

There is a recent thread about WHY people post nude pictures.
Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos?

But I'm asking a different question.
1. If you're a guy, do you WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles?

Likewise.
2. If you're a woman, do you WANT to see the same?

The question is the same for whether the picture is in the profile or if its sent to you via the collarme mail.
Point is, do you want or not want to see naked pictures of the people you are interested in?

FUUUUUCK what the wimmens say....MORE NEKKID pics!!!!!

(Of wimmens).

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 7:49:11 PM

ServosCor

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If I get an email w/ a good lookin' male, tight jeans, open work shirt ..........nice chest and muscles............Heaven.

I prefer NOT to open my email and have a weiner staring at me. Definately a turn off. Those emails I dont bother to answer because they show me the poster can't follow siimple CM instructions. "nuff said.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 8:07:54 PM

Marini

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ORIGINAL: xssve

My genes are mostly Norwegian in this regard, so if everybody walked around naked all time it would not bother me in the slightest.

lol, I think I have some Swedish genes thrown in with my African genes.
So maybe the fact I enjoy viewing nekkie bodies is my Swedish heritage.
weeeeeeeeeeee

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 1/31/2013 8:09:59 PM

Marini

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

I like when men post pictures in their profiles of their cocks, or of themselves naked on all fours, etc. Those pictures save me from engaging with them; it's an efficient weeding tool. "Tool" being the operative word.

That's my mindset also!
I said the same exact thing, 3 pages ago, people almost always tell you "who" they are.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/1/2013 4:05:19 AM

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Indeed. ANY person that thinks I want to see what is between their legs before I get to know them on a very up close and personal level is not a person I want to spend time with at all.

I do find some of the foot stomping from some men, on this subject, amusing. THEY like to see naked bits. THEY assume that, because they like to see naked bits, women should also like to see their naked bits. They take boorish photos of their naked bits to display. Then, they stomp their feet and call hypocrisy when the women they are hoping to impress with their naked bits, tell them the naked bit photos are gross. Citing hypocrisy because women flash naked bits. Well guys, women know what you like, sooooooo they use it for bait. It attracts the male attention they are craving. Imagine that!

Overall, the reality is, men are far more visual creatures than women are. It would behoove men to understand that as well as women do.

Guys calling foul that your naked bits, nasty photos are being dissed....It only shows your intelligence, or lack thereof, if you do not think with the head on your shoulders to understand the correct bait for the women you are hoping to attract. Except for a few women, you are not using the correct bait. BUT, carry on with your bad selves. It is very apparent that the majority of women find your tasteless photos and your foot stomping to be excellent tools for removing you expediently from their list of possible partners. Given the fact that women vastly outnumber men in this little game, I am quite certain it is very useful........ for the women.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/1/2013 4:54:08 AM

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After seeing LaT's post, I had to go back and read the thread. Comparing a low cut evening gown to somebody's naked ass or a cock shot? Damn! That's just plain out funny.

I couldn't agree with LaT more. Gentlemen, doesn't it occur to you for one minute that your target audience, the women, are telling you what all of those studies have told you before? We're not stimulated visually to the degree that you are.

For all this talk about O-Chem and other pre-med courses, here's a tip from a country gal. If you want to catch fish, you've got to use the right bait.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/1/2013 6:51:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
We're not stimulated visually to the degree that you are.

Unless it's armpits. Remember that thread? *Chortle*.

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