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Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles & sent in CMail?


I am a GUY: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!
  37% (60)
I am a GUY: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.
  9% (15)
I am a GAL: I WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles!
  9% (15)
I am a GAL: I do NOT want to see naked pictures in the profiles.
  43% (68)


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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/9/2013 10:12:36 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You know kids, I grew up on a nude, gay beach. I am very comfortable being nude. If it's beach weather. But having grown up in such a community where nobody ever bothered to look at me with salacious intent because I'm female, I'm not advertising anything even when undressed.

The fact that some guy walking by twists this into being all about him and the response I am willfully (in his mind) eliciting from him does not change the reality of the situation. In warm weather I wear damn little, in cold weather I bundle up. I don't even notice the guys looking at me unless they deliberately intrude into my private space.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/25/2013 8:01:18 AM   
Ptesticlees


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Status: offline 		I notice a naked person wherever they are!

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 2/25/2013 6:32:11 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Agent99

There is a recent thread about WHY people post nude pictures.
Why Do People Want To Post Nude Photos?

But I'm asking a different question.
1. If you're a guy, do you WANT to see naked pictures in the profiles?

Likewise.
2. If you're a woman, do you WANT to see the same?

The question is the same for whether the picture is in the profile or if its sent to you via the collarme mail.
Point is, do you want or not want to see naked pictures of the people you are interested in?


I'm always a fan.

More nekkid pics.

(So long as they don't include men).

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:17:39 PM   
pompeii


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From: Silicon Valley, San Jose, California
Status: offline 		In another thread, a poll was taken, and in the process, I learned something that others probably knew all along, but which came an a total shock to me.
D/s play is not all about sex to some people!
[Poll] How important is a submissive's orgasm in your D/s play?

To some of you, it's about something else (what, I can't even fathom or imagine, if it's not about sex, but, that's not up to me).

So, given that D/s play is, somehow, not about mutually orgasmic sex (in some way, shape or form) to some people, that might go a long way into explaining why people's naughty bits are of no interest to some people, when it comes to the profile pictures!

If it's about something else, other than sexual pleasure (which is inestimably difficult for me to fathom), then of course, naughty bits have no place in the profile.

Now it's all (beginning to) make sense!

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:27:07 PM   
Akrotiri


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Status: offline 		Huh?

It's not about sex?

If not, then what IS it about?

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:28:41 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		Is a vanilla relationship just about sex?

That poll had D/s "play" in the title, maybe that's skewing things a little bit.

< Message edited by Level -- 3/19/2013 8:30:26 PM >

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:30:16 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Level

Is a vanilla relationship just about sex?
Thank you for restoring My faith in mankind.



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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:32:20 PM   
Level


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Is a vanilla relationship just about sex?
Thank you for restoring My faith in mankind.




My pleasure, LP.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:33:44 PM   
arc2456


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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:41:47 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

> A&P is Anatomy & Physiology
Thanks for confirming. I see that you're talking nursing - and I was in normal college classes and not at a nursing school so I don't know what the curriculum is for nursing students.


George Mason University, where my niece is getting her BSN, is a "normal college" and she had to take A&P I & II to even get INTO the nursing program there. I give nurses more credit and hold them in higher esteem than most doctors.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 8:44:26 PM   
pompeii


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quote:

ORIGINAL: arc2456
Biggest sex organ is the human brain.


True, a vanilla relationship is not all about sex, and, the mind IS the sex organ of choice ... but, hell, it's just a FRIENDSHIP if it doesn't include sex, at least once a week (or whatever frequency floats your boat).

And, in my opinion, in any vanilla relationship I have had or will ever have, if both parties don't orgasm almost all the time - then something is being done terribly wrongly.

I see that I'm not the majority.

My amazement is merely that I had never even considered that, for some people, it's not about sex (not in the act, per se - but the whole point was orgasmic pleasure - or so I had thought).

If it's not about sex (the concept), then WHAT is it about? (I guess I should open a separate thread on that question).

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/19/2013 10:15:03 PM   
usemetopleaseyou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level
Is a vanilla relationship just about sex?


Duh? Uh, yeah. If it's not about sex, then it's either a job, or a hobby or a friendship or something but it's not about a relationship. Period.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/20/2013 4:36:10 AM   
Level


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Status: offline 		Bullshit. It's a pitiful relationship based soley on sex.

What if you get sick, and can't perform any more? Of course, penetration isn't the only way to have sex, but I hope you see my point.

< Message edited by Level -- 3/20/2013 4:40:41 AM >

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/20/2013 5:03:00 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		I normal just read and do not post....but this post hit close to home. I was with a Dom for 5 1/2 years { and still would be if he did not pass away last year}. In the beginning of those years he could have sex the last three he could not. The whole time it was both a vanilla and D/s relationship. Sex did not make it either......we did. Thanks for letting me add my two cents.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/20/2013 6:21:20 AM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: usemetopleaseyou


quote:

ORIGINAL: Level
Is a vanilla relationship just about sex?


Duh? Uh, yeah. If it's not about sex, then it's either a job, or a hobby or a friendship or something but it's not about a relationship. Period.



Friendships aren't relationships?

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/20/2013 6:32:14 AM   
slaveboihere


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Status: offline 		Regarding naked pics on profiles, or in mails - yes, fine. As long as they're tasteful. I don't want to see straight up your crevice, front or rear. As a guy, I don't really mind seeing other guys dicks on their pics; but I'm wanting to know a little bit more about them than just that before I play with them (Yes, I know; call me Mr. Picky.........!) And what guy ever complained about seeing a woman's bare bits? But again, it takes more than dicks and tits to build a relationship. Actually, I think in most cases you find that people with pics of their bare essentials on their profiles often don't write much about themselves; which is a pity. In that case I tend to think they either have a fairly limited opinion of their own value - limited to their bodies alone - or they are just after some quickie sex. Or, sometimes, cash....They are certainly likely going to attract fairly shallow people who are just interested in a quick screw.

But - in the long term if you develop a relationship with someone, you are going to be seeing their naked body quite a lot; and so it can be an acceptable part of the process imo to get some idea of whether or not their body is going to do it for you. I probably prefer to do it a little further along the line; because I think that the personal relationship with someone is ultimately the main thing. But at the end of the line, you have got to see 'em stripped; and if the sight makes you throw up, it ain't gonna work! So, yes; fine; bring on the nude pics; I'm happy to see you all stripped off............please form an orderly queue to the right.................

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/20/2013 10:10:05 AM   
Pyramus


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir
Friendships aren't relationships?


I think, in terms of what we're talking about here, is that you probably don't have sex in all your friendships.
So we shouldn't get too hung up on the words ...

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/21/2013 11:07:56 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		Here's the thing I tell guys all the time, which, btw, your poll confirms: Men like naked pics. Woman, not so much. The eyecandy women like usually doesn't include so much nidity. A man in a three piece suit - like a lingerie photo, to a woman. hot, hot, hot. esp. if he is holding a book.

I do have a nude shot in my profile - I consider it artsy, think I look great in that shot, I love it. I know men are not usually offended by those pics. And it's a full body pic, which gets that out of the way - I'm fat, if that's a turn off for you, it's righ there on the photo. It's not my primary photo, anymore, on the advice of some wise people on this forum, so you actually have to go through the photos to see it.

None the less, I don't want a pic in my face of your junk. I'm just not that interested. even if I were primarily looking for a sex partner, which I'm not, that's just not how I pick one.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 3/21/2013 11:14:38 AM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus


quote:

ORIGINAL: searching4mysir
Friendships aren't relationships?


I think, in terms of what we're talking about here, is that you probably don't have sex in all your friendships.
So we shouldn't get too hung up on the words ...



Not everyone here is looking to find someone to hook up with. Some of us are just here for the forums or to make friends (not friends with benefits).

If I'm not going to be going anywhere near someone's junk, I don't need to have it shoved in my face as a primary photo. Even if I WERE to eventually hook up (and I don't do casual sex) I'm not so sure that I would want my partner waving his johnson at everyone in sight. To me, it reflects poorly on him and his self control.

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RE: Do you WANT to see NEKKED pictures in the profiles ... - 4/5/2013 6:09:34 PM   
Esinn


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Status: offline 		No, naked pictures are silly in profiles on a site of this nature. Possibly naked pictures on this forum (here) given the discussion or situation. However, there is porn & escorts if nudity is what a man wants. Both are probably much easier than trolling profiles or trying to "talk someone out of nudes". I can picture anyone's balls or breasts with pristine clarity on my own even if clothed.

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