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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:51:03 PM   
LafayetteLady


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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:52:14 PM   
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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:53:41 PM   
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No, she doesn't. She never will.


You're right I don't think she ever will.


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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:55:19 PM   
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no my point was that instead of reporting a violation of etiquette you did what I propose, a simple critic of what someone wrote.



I didn't report any posts because I didn't see anyone break the rules. I don't bother the mods over people not following my idea of etiquette.


you can not edit quotes to make them read what is not said

further, again, you did exactly what I proposed, a critique of a user.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:55:25 PM   
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If I don't respond, its simple that your post is irrelevant or just repetitious, or a troll, or against the etiquette.





Against what etiquette?

Btw... some could say your posts, your behavior is trollish and you are only looking to draw attention to yourself and to your profile. *shrugs*

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:56:49 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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no my point was that instead of reporting a violation of etiquette you did what I propose, a simple critic of what someone wrote.





I didn't report any posts because I didn't see anyone break the rules. I don't bother the mods over people not following my idea of etiquette.


you can not edit quotes to make them read what is not said

further, again, you did exactly what I proposed, a critique of a user.



You CAN edit posts, emails, IM, ect to suite any purpose you want and they will LOOK legit.
That is one of the major flaws with what you propose.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:58:17 PM   
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If I don't respond, its simple that your post is irrelevant or just repetitious, or a troll, or against the etiquette.




And this my dear is why your idea of reviews or ratings of other members will not work. Because simply based on your actions in this thread, I doubt you will get many favorable ones. Personally, I have seen no irrelevant or repetitious posts, simply ones trying to give you information or a counter side to your argument. But hey, you probably consider me one of the trolls, since you have yet to respond once to any of my posts

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 1:58:58 PM   
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Dude, maybe this site is more to your liking. You want ratings? There ya go. Rate away to your heart's content!

http://www.ratemyface.com/


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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:01:12 PM   
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no my point was that instead of reporting a violation of etiquette you did what I propose, a simple critic of what someone wrote.




It's not a violation of etiquette it is a violation of the TOS and forums guidelines.
HUGE difference.

And you can critic someone's posts.
You can even "attack" someone's posts or actions but you can not attack a PERSON or KINK.
You can even state your opinion.
You simply can not ATTACK a PERSON or KINK.
Do you see the difference?



so I can do a selective edit of your posts to misrepresent your character, your saying that is allowed?

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:03:30 PM   
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You can not cut and paste a quote and than use capitals to draw attention to the post.


Uhm....says who???

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:04:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		To carmenelektra: Why invest your energy in naming and shaming people you will never ever meet? There's an old saying: "The opposite of love isn't hate; it's indifference." Also: "Living well is the best revenge." Instead of caring about what someone with an insult fetish said to you, spend your time finding people who will cherish you, and build you up.

I know it's easier said than done. My special friend has come to hate her CollarMe inbox, even though she enjoys having conversations with fetishists. She's a badass in real life, but online BDSM gets her down. So I think you need a particular temperament to stay on the site, especially if you're female or trans.

Good luck.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:06:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Why in heaven's name would someone want their face to be "rated" by a gazillion strangers? Might we use the word "SHALLOW" here? LMAO

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Dude, maybe this site is more to your liking. You want ratings? There ya go. Rate away to your heart's content!

http://www.ratemyface.com/




Forget faces. There used to be a site that people went to for rating naked pictures. I can't find it now, this was years ago. Me and a couple friends used to go there and have a blast rating people, lol. Fun activity for single parents without babysitters, and a bottle of wine!

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:09:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Assuming you have watermarked your pics, you can tell the other sites either to remove the stolen pics or prepare for a lawsuit for copyright infringement. If you can get someone to track down the person who stole the pics to begin with, contact an attorney. Instead of whining about it online, do something positive and take them to the cleaners. Positive for you, not for them.

You will get this online. We get people saying we're all fakes because we won't cam naked. The idiots who do this aren't going to care if their name was on page 47 of a thread that's 300 pages long. What you want to do doesn't work. Because the people who read the profiles and wank to pics don't post here or read the threads. Why do you keep harping on something that will be totally ineffective?

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:11:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Why in heaven's name would someone want their face to be "rated" by a gazillion strangers? Might we use the word "SHALLOW" here? LMAO

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Dude, maybe this site is more to your liking. You want ratings? There ya go. Rate away to your heart's content!

http://www.ratemyface.com/




Forget faces. There used to be a site that people went to for rating naked pictures. I can't find it now, this was years ago. Me and a couple friends used to go there and have a blast rating people, lol. Fun activity for single parents without babysitters, and a bottle of wine!


Don't know if this is for nudes, but this place is brutal:

http://hotornot.com/

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:12:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: carmenelektra


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: carmenelektra

no my point was that instead of reporting a violation of etiquette you did what I propose, a simple critic of what someone wrote.




It's not a violation of etiquette it is a violation of the TOS and forums guidelines.
HUGE difference.

And you can critic someone's posts.
You can even "attack" someone's posts or actions but you can not attack a PERSON or KINK.
You can even state your opinion.
You simply can not ATTACK a PERSON or KINK.
Do you see the difference?



so I can do a selective edit of your posts to misrepresent your character, your saying that is allowed?


ANY post, instant message, or email can be edited.
THAT was Lady Pacts points.
YOU suggested proof would have to be posted (emails,ect).
See how easily what YOU said was modified.

The modification is easy to spot HERE because your original post is HERE.
However, if that were a private conversation.
You couldn't proof it wasn't real.

Mis-quoting or editing someone's post is not a violation of the forum guidelines but you would know that if you READ them.




< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 1/31/2013 2:14:32 PM >

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:15:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Why in heaven's name would someone want their face to be "rated" by a gazillion strangers? Might we use the word "SHALLOW" here? LMAO

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Dude, maybe this site is more to your liking. You want ratings? There ya go. Rate away to your heart's content!

http://www.ratemyface.com/




Forget faces. There used to be a site that people went to for rating naked pictures. I can't find it now, this was years ago. Me and a couple friends used to go there and have a blast rating people, lol. Fun activity for single parents without babysitters, and a bottle of wine!


Don't know if this is for nudes, but this place is brutal:

http://hotornot.com/


Oh we were brutal in our ratings as well. I know people like all different types, but really there are simply some people who shouldn't get naked with the lights on, let alone take a picture and post for people to rate, lol.


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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:16:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

Why in heaven's name would someone want their face to be "rated" by a gazillion strangers? Might we use the word "SHALLOW" here? LMAO

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Dude, maybe this site is more to your liking. You want ratings? There ya go. Rate away to your heart's content!

http://www.ratemyface.com/




Forget faces. There used to be a site that people went to for rating naked pictures. I can't find it now, this was years ago. Me and a couple friends used to go there and have a blast rating people, lol. Fun activity for single parents without babysitters, and a bottle of wine!



A girl my daughter went to school with asked me at one point to help her get some nude pics off a site that "rated" them. Her ex bf posted them. I'm not linking the site because many of the pics are of minors. She was only 17 at the time.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:16:59 PM   
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Mis-quoting or editing someone's post is not a violation of the forum guidelines

You might want to be cautious about that.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:17:57 PM   
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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 2:18:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are some interesting comments being made here...some that just may be being overlooked.

First of all, of COURSE a thread on "Positive Experiences" will be most welcomed on a website! It makes the owners of the website appear in a positive light, the website look like a great place to hook-up, and will increase advertising revenue for the owners.
A "Negative Experiences" thread would make the site look bad and unappealing. So of COURSE there are rules made up that don't allow for that.
And the administrators are hardly going to take the time to go through a list of people that other's don't like to decide who is trolling and who isn't.

Secondly, I may be dreaming, but it seems the OP is trying to do an awfully lot of advertising about what an angel, how hot, how intelligent, all the men they attract, etc. etc. in pretty much the majority of their posts. (just found that rather curious)

And lastly, if everyone had a dollar for all the names they've been called, all the rude messages they'd received, and all the bashings they'd taken, we'd all be pretty darn wealthy around here. (LOL)

(Thank you)

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