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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/2/2013 4:50:27 PM

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Yeah I did made an assumption. Again that is normal given such few information.
I apologize for any wrong judgement and I am still open for a better estimation of your comment, even
if I just didnt want to talk about the bad sides of hypnosis and still dont want to.

Being a Dominant means that you are responsible for the safety of the submissive that chooses to submit to you. Being responsible means that BOTH of you are aware of the risks, have done your best to minimize those risks and made an informed decision about whether you wish to continue. This applies to many things we do within the realm of BDSM.

You wish to showcase what you think are the benefits while refusing to discuss the negatives. Ignoring the risks doesn't make them go away, and anyone who is reading this thread deserves to know that there are risks involved in WIITWD.

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It was jut not the topic of this thread, okay ?

So? The general tone of this forum is that the flow of a thread is allowed to happen organically, whether you like it not. You don't get to control what gets posted, who posts or the direction the thread takes.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/2/2013 5:14:00 PM

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That is great for you ! I love my reality the way it is, too. I just see no contradiction between my "real-life" and the possibility to induce dreamlike fantasies at will. Or to use the many other possibilities I'd like to experience
thanks to reconditioning my / her mind with hypnosis.

Master doesn't need to induce dreamlike fantasies in me. We just tell each other our fantasies and we do them. There's nothing dreamlike about them. He also doesn't need to recondition me or my mind. He tells me what to do and I do it. I'm his slave. I either obey or I leave.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 2:11:20 PM

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There are countless ways for a submissive to serve a Dominant.

You did not include..."but truly wants to serve you by performing oral sex, anyway" in your statement.

A little phrase, but very important indeed.

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ORIGINAL: maledaddy

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Ah NOW is see your point.

Indeed I said ""For example, if she doesnt like sucking cock, but truely wants to serve you.
You could recondition her that cock is the most tasty thing she ever had in her mouth. You could even train her to orgasm everytime you cum in her mouth."

But pay intention to this little phrase, that is MOST important to altering you understanding of my words. :

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but truely wants to serve you

I meant with it : The girl is APPROVING of changing her reaction to a penis.. She AGREES to serve your penis. The following hypnosis thus is CONSENSUAL because shee agrees to it.

This is a rather common topic, that women just cant enjoy sticking the penis of their man into their mouth (means : giving a blowjob). And by the way, it ws an EXAMPLE. Not a statement of my sexual life.

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And as I always say...I don't write other people's posts that they write themselves.

No you really cant. But you interpret. And in this case specifically wrong.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 2:23:44 PM

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I am gonna hypmotize my gash to make the perfect garlic mashed. That is as far as my fantasy goes with hypnosis.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 2:30:23 PM

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I don't have a fantasy on hypnosis - but I do have one on total control ... is that the same thing?

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 2:32:30 PM

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How are you with garlic mash? Could be one and the same, just a tomato tomato thingie.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 5:45:28 PM

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Just so you know....that's actually two entirely different questions.

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/4/2013 8:01:30 PM

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I don't have a fantasy on hypnosis - but I do have one on total control ... is that the same thing?

No. Hypnosis is not a fantasy. Total control is. Clearly they aren't the same :)

Littlewonder said: Master doesn't need to induce dreamlike fantasies in me. We just tell each other our fantasies and we do them. There's nothing dreamlike about them. He also doesn't need to recondition me or my mind. He tells me what to do and I do it. I'm his slave. I either obey or I leave.
I have to admit I go with the straightforward approach too. I think I find dominance to be a very versatile tool when it comes to getting my way. It's a lot quicker and more reliable than hypnosis. Heck, even when I want Carol to just accept some thought I don't start with "You are getting sleeeeeepy". I start with, "Listen and obey me mine."

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RE: What are your fantasies / experiences with hypnosis ? - 2/6/2013 9:29:54 PM

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that bad side needs to be discussed, especially with hypnosis. It can truly screw you up.

The first thing that is always repeated is that it can't make you do something you don't want to do. That line is always flaunted, stated as fact, ad naseum, like if it is repeated enough the person saying it will convince themselves it is true.

When of course it is a total lie. Now in the very first session, someone probably won't be able to get you to believe in something that is 180 degrees who you are, unless you are extremely susceptible, the hypnotist is amazingly good, or you don't really know yourself like you think you do.

But like anything else, you trust someone enough to give them enough time, a hypnotist can turn you into anything they want, whether you wanted it or not. It usually takes years for most folks, but be quite sure if you give a hypnotist enough time, they can own you.

That is the first thing.

Now the second thing, you can find tons of hypnosis for free on the net. Some of it is fun stuff, some of it is meant to condition you to change you. Not all of it is honest in what it wants. And it all can be extremely addicting.

I enjoy watching hypnosis videos. it has been something i have done for years. Like anything else in BDSM land, the side effects can be annoying. I wake up in the middle of the night completely obsessed with something and i can't go back to sleep. Other screwball things can happen to make what should be a normal situation not so normal.

As for specific fantasies, no chance of me listing them here. Fantasy scenes in hypnosis take quite a while to really feel real. And when you are talking about sexual stuff, as was noted above, the 'porn creep' works its way into your real sexual life very fast. It can make having sex in the real world seem boring, or for some males, simply not possible because of overexposure.

But if you are really into hypnosis and dominance, there are plenty of places to go for that. Plenty of forums catering that fetish. Plenty of people spending plenty of money on it.

But being safe, sane and consensual is the most important part. Being upfront and honest is what this community requires first and foremost. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

And dammit, it is almost 1 am. i have to go to sleep so i can wake up for work.

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