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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:18:50 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:18:50 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:20:49 PM   
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In a car then...brrrr would have to keep it running, it's so cold!!

And that makes me wonder now, do you consider a spanking on skirt or panties "cheating"?



Anytime you go behind your partner's back...whether it be sex or even just keeping secrets of any kind, it's cheating.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:21:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree, that's the perfect situation! We don't even sleep in the same room anymore though...

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:22:20 PM   
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What do you mean by registry issue?


Being caught engaging in sexual behavior in a public place can result in sex offender status in some states. In CA, we have "felony public nudity" which pretty much means that peeing by the side of the road can get you on the list for life.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:22:41 PM   
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I agree, that's the perfect situation! We don't even sleep in the same room anymore though...


There's this thing called marital counseling and if that doesn't work, there's something else called divorce.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:27:42 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:34:56 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:38:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		So I guess the consensus is there is no good place, and even if there was it would be cheating, and to try to fix what I have and if it can't be fixed, be brave and leave...


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:44:21 PM   
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In a car then...brrrr would have to keep it running, it's so cold!!

And that makes me wonder now, do you consider a spanking on skirt or panties "cheating"?




If it's not cheating then why can't you do it at home?

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:44:54 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:50:08 PM   
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Then talk to him. If the marriage can't be fixed, agree that you can both meet your needs outside it. Alternate who gets a night out and who stays home with the kids.


This ^^^^^^
Honest, open and I'm betting much more fulfilling than skulking around in the realms of deceit.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 6:53:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Like that isn't an excuse every cheater tends to use...."my spouse just doesn't listen/understand." PLEASE!

If he really refuses to pay attention, walk up to him and flat out say, "if you can't listen to me, then I want a divorce." If he doesn't change, then follow through.

What you are doing tells me two things. First, you stated you want online only, and now you are having a "date." Married people don't "date" others unless they are in an agreed upon open marriage.

Two...the other cheater in this scenario is so cheap, he won't spring for a motel room.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 7:48:59 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 7:51:44 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 7:55:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		She is actually giving you some really good information, and most likely it isn't anything you've
considered in this little scenario of yours, and you would be stupid not to listen to her.

I mean, you want to risk shame to you and your family, and possible legal troubles, all for a few minutes of spank and tickle?


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 7:59:03 PM   
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the other cheater in this scenario is so cheap, he won't spring for a motel room.


Well, that ^^^ which does not make Mr. Happy Hands look good at all, and the issue of safety. You are getting into a car with someone you don't know very well and perhaps never met in person. I doubt your uninterested husband would like to see you come to harm. No matter how unpleasant it might be, I think you'd better tell your husband your plans and let Happy Hands know your husband is aware of what you're doing. Your spouse can step in if things get out of hand.

You sound naive and inexperienced to me. Listen up. There's a lot of bad stuff out there. Safety is numero uno in this lifestyle, right up there with honesty. Don't act like a dumbass in the name of thrill fulfilling.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 7:59:55 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 8:02:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wanting to be spanked in a family type restroom was bulb bright wouldn't ya say? Come on... don't get upset when people go into detail about how foolish that is or could be... when you haven't shined too bright. You appeared to need the info.



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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/2/2013 8:06:39 PM   
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A good place for spanking,hmm, the ass?
Thanks I'm here all week, try the veal.

I missed you in Introductions, but wanted to say that I'm glad you're here all week!
I've enjoyed reading you, and hope you continue to participate here with us.

And now...back to the spanking!

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