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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/4/2013 2:23:34 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Status: offline 		Jedi mind spanking would be the only way to pull off a noiseless spanking. Is your potential piece on the side Obi Wan Kenobi or perhaps Yoda, OP? If they arent, its gonna make noise. Especially in an echo chamber like a bathroom.

All kidding aside, glad to see you decided to do this right, OP. Life is too short to be unhappy, but you dont want to saddle yourself with an emotional anchor either.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/4/2013 8:13:21 PM   
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And that makes me wonder now, do you consider a spanking on skirt or panties "cheating"?



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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/4/2013 8:24:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course they aren't. But they like to come to a site like this expecting all of us to tell them that what they are doing is ok.

For the record, I don't think the OP listened to a word we said. I think she tried to blow smoke up our collective asses rather than confront what she is doing.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/4/2013 8:29:20 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/4/2013 8:36:48 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 9:30:28 AM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 9:59:30 AM   
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I'm having flashbacks to a previous poster....
Oh Christ! I was just thinking yesterday that I was glad we were rid of her.



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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 1:13:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've always been a fan of nature trails. Particularly on relatively vacant trails, it is easy enough to find a secluded place to scene, provided you find a position where you can see people coming down the path. It's always a fun little rush to push right until the last possible moment to straighten up :)

Then again, I have always found outdoor spankings especially enticing.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 1:16:00 PM   
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Definitely the elevator. I don't know why, but I love being against the wall of the elevator and having my ass hit. Haha.


Kinda hard to plan much of a scene around an elevator ride though...

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 1:19:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: plaidschoolskirt
And that makes me wonder now, do you consider a spanking on skirt or panties "cheating"?

Yes, I do.

But honestly who cares what I think. I'm not the one you have made agreements with. Don't you think it's more relevant to ponder what your husband might think? So you tell us... how's he likely to respond if/when he finds out? My guess is "not well".

Maybe put differently, if it's not cheating then you shouldn't have any issue saying to him, 'Honey, I'm going to go get spanked by some guy I met. I'll be back by dinner time." If you feel the need to keep it secret then it's wrong.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 1:24:47 PM   
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Maybe put differently, if it's not cheating then you shouldn't have any issue saying to him, 'Honey, I'm going to go get spanked by some guy I met. I'll be back by dinner time." If you feel the need to keep it secret then it's wrong.



I don't have much to add other than the above nails the whole situation quite nicely. Well said.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 2:30:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: Crystalicious

Definitely the elevator. I don't know why, but I love being against the wall of the elevator and having my ass hit. Haha.


Kinda hard to plan much of a scene around an elevator ride though...


Not to mention that a lot of elevators have security cameras....


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 2:39:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ForcedDecadence

I've always been a fan of nature trails. Particularly on relatively vacant trails, it is easy enough to find a secluded place to scene, provided you find a position where you can see people coming down the path. It's always a fun little rush to push right until the last possible moment to straighten up :)
The penalty for failure has the possibility of being quite high, as discussed earlier. Being seen by the wrong person could result in an arrest on sexual charges which makes for a spectacular divorce and really nasty child custody hearings when the offended spouse finds out.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 9:01:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I'm having flashbacks to a previous poster....
Oh Christ! I was just thinking yesterday that I was glad we were rid of her.





duh...it just hit me who we were implying about.

Yeah, you're right...just maybe....hhhmm

As for the elevator....I love elevators.

When he pushes me up against the wall, reaches down, squishes up against me....yummy. I'm betting elevator cams see much worse.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 2/5/2013 9:04:56 PM >

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/5/2013 10:02:43 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/6/2013 9:24:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
PLEASE>> PLEASE>>> PLEASE!!!! Tell me people can't be THIS naive!!!! Oh PLEASE!!!!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: plaidschoolskirt

And that makes me wonder now, do you consider a spanking on skirt or panties "cheating"?





Wait! So we can have a president tell us that getting a blowjob isn't sex, and yet the OP's question is naive? ;-)

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/6/2013 11:05:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

When he pushes me up against the wall, reaches down, squishes up against me....yummy. I'm betting elevator cams see much worse.



You just reminded me of a moment in high school when the little old lady who taught religious education told us a story that ended with 'and that's the time I could have had sex in a lift, but didn't!'

sorry for the derail.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/6/2013 11:34:07 AM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/6/2013 1:24:26 PM   
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I'm having flashbacks to a previous poster....


As am I.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 5:14:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: ForcedDecadence

I've always been a fan of nature trails. Particularly on relatively vacant trails, it is easy enough to find a secluded place to scene, provided you find a position where you can see people coming down the path. It's always a fun little rush to push right until the last possible moment to straighten up :)
The penalty for failure has the possibility of being quite high, as discussed earlier. Being seen by the wrong person could result in an arrest on sexual charges which makes for a spectacular divorce and really nasty child custody hearings when the offended spouse finds out.



But horniness trumps common sense in these cases, doesn't it?

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