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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 5:27:16 PM   
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I've always been a fan of nature trails. Particularly on relatively vacant trails, it is easy enough to find a secluded place to scene, provided you find a position where you can see people coming down the path. It's always a fun little rush to push right until the last possible moment to straighten up :)
The penalty for failure has the possibility of being quite high, as discussed earlier. Being seen by the wrong person could result in an arrest on sexual charges which makes for a spectacular divorce and really nasty child custody hearings when the offended spouse finds out.



But horniness trumps common sense in these cases, doesn't it?



That and I think people have not realized how far their quest for PC-ness has gone. They have no idea what the laws are in their own state.

We have a friend that is a police officer and he told me I'd be shocked to see what gets you on the sex offenders list in California...he was right.

Public nudity, assisting in public nudity (I guess that makes you the Vanna White of public nudity) and oral copulation - not forced and not with a minor. ie: if you get caught giving a blow job in a car, depending on the mood of the officer you can end up with a charge that could get you on the list. I was surprised that items that most people consider just sex were on that list.




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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 6:27:13 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 6:58:28 PM   
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Urinating in public can get you there too in many states.




Yup. In CA, if you're seen peeing in public by a minor, it's felony public nudity and welcome to the sex offenders list. Last year a guy in San Diego was seen peeing off of his porch in his own yard by his 13 year old neighbor and was arrested.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 7:38:37 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 7:52:08 PM   
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Urinating in public can get you there too in many states.




Yup. In CA, if you're seen peeing in public by a minor, it's felony public nudity and welcome to the sex offenders list. Last year a guy in San Diego was seen peeing off of his porch in his own yard by his 13 year old neighbor and was arrested.


So does this make him a pedophile or just a sex offender??

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/7/2013 8:16:50 PM   
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Urinating in public can get you there too in many states.




Yup. In CA, if you're seen peeing in public by a minor, it's felony public nudity and welcome to the sex offenders list. Last year a guy in San Diego was seen peeing off of his porch in his own yard by his 13 year old neighbor and was arrested.


So does this make him a pedophile or just a sex offender??


Damn, they pulled the other post, so now I have to type it up again.

Sex offender is a legal term, pedophile is psychological. The legal term "sex offender" is given to all those convicted of any number of various sex acts, i.e. rape, molestation, sex with a minor, public nudity, lewdness and pedophiles. All under the umbrella of the term sex offender.

So while all pedophiles are sex offenders, not all sex offenders are pedophiles.

Just an aside to that, statutory rape falls under that umbrella and depending on your state, it could apply to an 18 year old who had consensual sex with his 16 year old girlfriend. If you look at the sex offender registry for your state, it tells you basics of the charge, i.e. statutory rape with someone under 18, sexual acts with someone under 11, etc.

The only reason I mention this is because Florida's statutory rape law is completely inappropriate. It plainly states that if the girl lied to you, even showing you a fake ID (or I guess could be a guy), then you can and will be convicted. Other states, like NJ where I live, has a "5 year window" so if a 20 year old is dating a 16 year old, statutory rape will not apply if the act was consensual.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 1:38:42 AM   
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That and I think people have not realized how far their quest for PC-ness has gone. They have no idea what the laws are in their own state.

We have a friend that is a police officer and he told me I'd be shocked to see what gets you on the sex offenders list in California...he was right.

Public nudity, assisting in public nudity (I guess that makes you the Vanna White of public nudity) and oral copulation - not forced and not with a minor. ie: if you get caught giving a blow job in a car, depending on the mood of the officer you can end up with a charge that could get you on the list. I was surprised that items that most people consider just sex were on that list.



"Vanna White of public nudity" -- hilarious.

Ignorance of the law is no longer an excuse for being stupid. And putting your record at risk for a few moments of passion hardly seems worth it. Don't get me wrong, I have given a handy/blowie to my Daddy in the car, but we were both aware of the risks and did it anyway. That can be exciting, but it's hella stupid. We have a bed, we have money for a hotel room...makes more sense to do it behind closed doors when you're responsible adults.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 8:19:20 AM   
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So while all pedophiles are sex offenders, not all sex offenders are pedophiles.


All pedophiles are not sex offenders. All pedophiles who act on their pedophilia (this includes everything from physical molestation to possessing underage pornographic materials) are sex offenders. Merely having the psychological disorder of pedophilia is not against the law.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 9:09:15 AM   
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So while all pedophiles are sex offenders, not all sex offenders are pedophiles.


All pedophiles are not sex offenders. All pedophiles who act on their pedophilia (this includes everything from physical molestation to possessing underage pornographic materials) are sex offenders. Merely having the psychological disorder of pedophilia is not against the law.


This is correct. When I was in college, we had a pedophile that attended group and he did everything he could to make sure he did not cross that line. He cut himself off from his family, worked in a job that had no contact with children, lived in an adult only community and did his shopping at 3am. There are some pedophiles that will not become criminals.


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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 10:06:39 AM   
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I remember back in Allentown, PA when I lived there, a man was nude sunbathing in his back yard which was surrounded by a wooden fence. Apparently his neighbor I guess could see him though and complained to the police. He ended up on the sex offender list according to the news report. Last I heard he was fighting it in court. I have no idea what happened after that.


I forget what state this was in, but last year, some guy was naked in his own house. A woman and her child were walking through his back yard (read: trespassing on his property) and the woman saw him through a window. He was brought up on charges of indecent exposure.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 10:33:02 AM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 10:34:35 AM   
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I remember back in Allentown, PA when I lived there, a man was nude sunbathing in his back yard which was surrounded by a wooden fence. Apparently his neighbor I guess could see him though and complained to the police. He ended up on the sex offender list according to the news report. Last I heard he was fighting it in court. I have no idea what happened after that.


I forget what state this was in, but last year, some guy was naked in his own house. A woman and her child were walking through his back yard (read: trespassing on his property) and the woman saw him through a window. He was brought up on charges of indecent exposure.


I remember that! I think there might even have been a discussion of it here.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 10:35:52 AM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 10:39:07 AM   
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Or if you really want to get one over on your partner, do it in his!

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 12:51:15 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 12:52:10 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 12:53:51 PM   
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Yeah I remember the one of the guy being in his own home. And yeah, I think we did have a discussion on it here a long time ago.

Would you be talking about the guy who was naked in his own house, looking out of his window during his morning coffee, but the path outside his house was the short cut to the bus stop?



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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 12:53:54 PM   
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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 1:44:22 PM   
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Yeah I remember the one of the guy being in his own home. And yeah, I think we did have a discussion on it here a long time ago.

Would you be talking about the guy who was naked in his own house, looking out of his window during his morning coffee, but the path outside his house was the short cut to the bus stop?




I can't speak for littlewonder, nor the discussion had here. But as the person who brought up the story in the first place, I'll respond with what I do know.

Regarding the incident in question (at least the one that I'm talking about), the accuser was on the defendant's property.

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RE: Good place for spanking on date besides hotel room? - 2/8/2013 11:33:54 PM   
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Yeah I remember the one of the guy being in his own home. And yeah, I think we did have a discussion on it here a long time ago.

Would you be talking about the guy who was naked in his own house, looking out of his window during his morning coffee, but the path outside his house was the short cut to the bus stop?




I can't speak for littlewonder, nor the discussion had here. But as the person who brought up the story in the first place, I'll respond with what I do know.

Regarding the incident in question (at least the one that I'm talking about), the accuser was on the defendant's property.
I'd have a tough time finding it before I can think of a really good keyword for search but the one that was in My head was a really good discussion down in Politics and Religion. I think it was a couple of years ago, but there were some weird complications over the guy being in the buff in his own house.



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