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Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird?


Charming/Flattering
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Weird/Disgusting
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Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 2:46:04 AM   
TheWriter13


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Status: offline 		Ladies if a man politely kisses your hand upon meeting you do you consider it weird or charming?

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 2:48:34 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:05:54 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:09:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kissing is ok, but avoid licking the hand... that's definitely odd.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:22:57 AM   
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أبحث عن انسانه محترمه عندها ميول ماسوشية بتحب تنضرب وتتبهدل وتتشتم وتتمد على رجليها وتتعبط ويتمارس معاها الجنس وكل انواع الساديه بس حياتها عاديه ونفسها فى علاقه قويه وسريه بتحب الحب ومخلصه له . تكون بتدور على المتعة مع واحد بس وتكون صريحه مع نفسها بتعمل اللى بتحبه وتتقبله لا يشترط السن المهم تكون استايل وشيك وتكون راقية

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:32:08 AM   
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Dude, take a deep breath and ask yourself this question. "Will gaining answers on the internet somehow assist me in my interactions with women in the real world?"

If the answer is no, the question is probably not worth asking.

Dude, I'm a writer I'm asking the ladies this question because I'm thinking of making it a scene in my book I just don't want the main character to come off as a total creep to readers.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:37:55 AM   
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أبحث عن انسانه محترمه عندها ميول ماسوشية بتحب تنضرب وتتبهدل وتتشتم وتتمد على رجليها وتتعبط ويتمارس معاها الجنس وكل انواع الساديه بس حياتها عاديه ونفسها فى علاقه قويه وسريه بتحب الحب ومخلصه له . تكون بتدور على المتعة مع واحد بس وتكون صريحه مع نفسها بتعمل اللى بتحبه وتتقبله لا يشترط السن المهم تكون استايل وشيك وتكون راقية

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My arabic is rusty but I'm pretty sure this person is spamming.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:40:07 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:49:48 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:58:33 AM   
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أبحث عن انسانه محترمه عندها ميول ماسوشية بتحب تنضرب وتتبهدل وتتشتم وتتمد على رجليها وتتعبط ويتمارس معاها الجنس وكل انواع الساديه بس حياتها عاديه ونفسها فى علاقه قويه وسريه بتحب الحب ومخلصه له . تكون بتدور على المتعة مع واحد بس وتكون صريحه مع نفسها بتعمل اللى بتحبه وتتقبله لا يشترط السن المهم تكون استايل وشيك وتكون راقية

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My arabic is rusty but I'm pretty sure this person is spamming.


I think it says: "I kissed my partner's hand seconds before PLUNGING A FOOT DEEP IN THEIR ANUS".

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:58:50 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 3:59:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Level


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ORIGINAL: TheWriter13


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أبحث عن انسانه محترمه عندها ميول ماسوشية بتحب تنضرب وتتبهدل وتتشتم وتتمد على رجليها وتتعبط ويتمارس معاها الجنس وكل انواع الساديه بس حياتها عاديه ونفسها فى علاقه قويه وسريه بتحب الحب ومخلصه له . تكون بتدور على المتعة مع واحد بس وتكون صريحه مع نفسها بتعمل اللى بتحبه وتتقبله لا يشترط السن المهم تكون استايل وشيك وتكون راقية

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My arabic is rusty but I'm pretty sure this person is spamming.


I think it says: "I kissed my partner's hand seconds before PLUNGING A FOOT DEEP IN THEIR ANUS".


Ah brother Level, there's a tiny mistake in your translation, where you say "partner" I'm pretty sure it reads "goat".



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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 4:04:45 AM   
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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 4:12:42 AM   
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I voted 'weird' - I wouldn't go as far as disgusting.

There are probably some situations in which this would come across well so it's not a firm answer. But I think in most situations it would make me a little uneasy and put me slightly on guard. A kiss, even on the hand, is more intimate that one would normally be with someone they just met. It isn't culturally normal to do this where I am from; in some parts of Europe the cheek/air kiss is part of the culture and so that wouldn't bother me in that context.

I would feel you were either overly familiar, or that you liked to be showy and draw attention to yourself. It seems like a pretty flashy move to me and I might think you were a bit of an attention seeker if you did this outside of a ballroom in eighteenth century France.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 4:50:15 AM   
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Ah brother Level, there's a tiny mistake in your translation, where you say "partner" I'm pretty sure it reads "goat".




I stand corrected!

Writer, Athena brings up a good point; did you mean kissing the hand on the very first meeting, or?

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 4:52:21 AM   
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A gentleman greets a lady with a kiss to her hand. Now, that means the lady has extended her hand - not to shake hands, but to be held and then lightly kissed.

He does not grab her hand so he can kiss it. That's something different, perhaps more modern and flirty.

So, as a writer, I guess it depends on your characters and what you mean for the gesture to convey. The attempt to kiss a hand which was extended to shake hands, may be quickly withdrawn showing conflict between the characters. You can play with it.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 5:29:30 AM   
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C does it from time to time, in a joking flirty manner, but that's entirely different.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 6:06:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		As a writer, depends on the time period the "lady" is in.

Personally I find it charming. An Englishman used me as an example on how he could get a woman swooning. He first kissed my hand, then the palm of the hand. Afterwards, he kissed my wrist. I was swooning...

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 6:22:00 AM   
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أبحث عن انسانه محترمه عندها ميول ماسوشية بتحب تنضرب وتتبهدل وتتشتم وتتمد على رجليها وتتعبط ويتمارس معاها الجنس وكل انواع الساديه بس حياتها عاديه ونفسها فى علاقه قويه وسريه بتحب الحب ومخلصه له . تكون بتدور على المتعة مع واحد بس وتكون صريحه مع نفسها بتعمل اللى بتحبه وتتقبله لا يشترط السن المهم تكون استايل وشيك وتكون راقية

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My arabic is rusty but I'm pretty sure this person is spamming.


I think it says: "I kissed my partner's hand seconds before PLUNGING A FOOT DEEP IN THEIR ANUS".

Well then... damn looks like google translator has failed me.

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RE: Do ladies find hand kissing charming or weird? - 2/7/2013 6:24:02 AM   
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If you are thinking about adding it to your book, Id have to say that it would depend on the context of your story as to whether or not it was creepy. If your story takes place back in the day when men did that with women, it wouldnt be creepy at all. Or depending on how your story was going even if it was taking place in the present, it might not appear creepy either. For me, it really depends on your story more than anything else as far as whether or not adding this part would be a good idea or not.

But if you are wanting to know my personal thoughts on it. I personally dont like. While Im not an out of control germophobe or anything, I know Id have this compelling need to go wash my hands after someone kissed them. Which probably is not the intended effect that said hand kissing man hopes to inspire in me



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