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Dyfrynt -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/12/2013 10:40:02 AM)
GB21, I have followed the weave of this thread, although I have not had time to read everything. My comments are meant as words to ponder. You may ponder them or reject them as you will. Do I know you. No. Do I see patterns that cause me concern for you. Well, yeah. Some things you said: Wow thanks so much for insulting my marridge which by the way is perfect I don't remember saying he has no time for me or that he doesn't care I said he works all the time. But get from it what you will. We have a very loving strong relationship and there's nothing wrong with it. And i am not insecurei have no issues with myself or my body . I realize the.original post made me seem that way but i am not. It has been my experience that people who talk in absolutes (there's nothing wrong with [my marriage], etc., are generally not being completely honest with themselves. There is something wrong in everyone's marriage. It may be little, it may not, but the perfect marriage is an impossibility when we are talking human beings. Same with the next phrase (You are not insecure) though your initial post (made [you] seem that way but [you are] not. Again, everyone has some insecurities about themselves. Even if they are just very tiny ones. I am not trying to attack your words, or attempting to trip you up with your own comments. I am attempting to show a pattern that in other people I have known shows a level of insecurity about themselves and their lives that they very often are not even aware of. It is my hope that you are able to take these thoughts in the way they were intended.

kiwisub12 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/12/2013 3:21:50 PM)
coughidoubtitcough

xssve -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/12/2013 7:26:50 PM)
So she's a bored chick with body issues? Yes, this is something to get upset about, I can't remember the last time that happened.

StefanandLucinda -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/14/2013 11:19:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam Well, she's new, young, a beginner and lives semi nearby. I figured that's what old farts like me are supposed to do. I admire your kindess to this young lady. Obviously, you care for people in general and did not pass judgement on a few words written in a moment of self doubt. Unlike the vast majority of others, you are one very honorable person among millions and millions who would care less, or others that get high off hurting another human being while hiding behind their computer. I wish you happy and the very best life can offer. xo/lucinda

TNDommeK -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/14/2013 11:22:16 PM)
This person didn't read this entire thread.

StefanandLucinda -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 12:02:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK This person didn't read this entire thread. You have no idea what I read. The fact that you think you do is egotistical and without any merit whatsoever. Also, your reply is trollish and self serving. Lucinda

TNDommeK -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 2:29:28 AM)
No the fact that really feel us "vast majority" weren't courteous to her first before her insults were thrown, is a reflection on your poor attention to detail. If you did in fact read this thread you would have seen that. Egotistical? Well, yes. I don't argue that one bit. But trolling? Hardly. Again, perhaps you should go read the beginning of the thread.

absolutchocolat -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 2:57:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StefanandLucinda quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam Well, she's new, young, a beginner and lives semi nearby. I figured that's what old farts like me are supposed to do. I admire your kindess to this young lady. Obviously, you care for people in general and did not pass judgement on a few words written in a moment of self doubt. Unlike the vast majority of others, you are one very honorable person among millions and millions who would care less, or others that get high off hurting another human being while hiding behind their computer. I wish you happy and the very best life can offer. xo/lucinda Honestly, most folks here treated her with kid gloves. Having posted here over the last few months, I can assure you that people were just trying to be helpful. A lot of us are in committed relationships (of the monogamous and polyamorous variety) and tried to help her see the flaws in her profile rather than just poke fun. Believe me, you ain't seen snark yet![;)]

TNDommeK -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 4:19:08 AM)
Exactly. I find it weird that the evidence is clear (in the thread) and ppl still choose to interpret things the way they want to. There are no grey areas in this. It is what it is. Not sure what gets lost in translation. But kid gloves was a great phrase describing how she was treated. We call it sugar coating here at the house.

absolutchocolat -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 4:27:31 AM)
My father always says, "Don't sugar coat shit, because at the end of the day, it will still attract flies."

TNDommeK -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 12:17:05 PM)
This is true,lol.

PeonForHer -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 1:45:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat My father always says, "Don't sugar coat shit, because at the end of the day, it will still attract flies." I would imagine that would attract even more flies, actually. One day, I shall try it to test my hypothesis.

PeonForHer -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 2:00:33 PM)
quote: Honestly, most folks here treated her with kid gloves. Having posted here over the last few months, I can assure you that people were just trying to be helpful. A lot of us are in committed relationships (of the monogamous and polyamorous variety) and tried to help her see the flaws in her profile rather than just poke fun. Believe me, you ain't seen snark yet! It's true that some were trying to be helpful at first. However, I have to say, I do feel that older (and many times even just slightly older) femdoms (especially) can be very harsh on young newbie femdoms. What's that all about? Is it down to such a newbie making femdoms as a group look bad? Are they concerned for the safety and well-being of said newbie's (potential) sub/s? Are there considerations of responsibilities for a dominant that I, as a sub, don't have to think about? Or might this be one of those occasions where women think, 'Bugger off Peon, we women will deal with silly girls who don't yet know how to be grown up women'? I don't know. Weren't we all young, silly twats once? I know I was. In fact many say that I've 'managed to preserve a very youthful outlook', even now (that's an example of how middle class Brits insult each other).

TNDommeK -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 2:49:56 PM)
I don't think so, when I came on the forums and was meeting everyone and joining convo I found that the older dommes were especially nice to me. I think it might be due to the fact I wasn't a bitch. You might have an argument in some case, but this particular one...the op really brought it on herself.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 6:17:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21 Seriously am I ugly? Noone ever talks to me on here or is interested in me :( Stop it! You're a babe! If I was 30 or younger, had any remote chance of being deemed attractive (by either sex), had (some) hair, hadn't lost an inch in height over the last 20 years, wasn't on food stamps (I have a really great crop of potatoes) and hadn't lost everything to the stock market (and had any chance of recovering financially, or gave a shit about using my running machine)...I'd be all over you baby.

absolutchocolat -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/15/2013 8:34:21 PM)
Very true, but I think it's a reflex. New fin-dommes (the bratty, princess variety) stroll in here thinking that they know everything, and then become extremely rude and defensive if someone challenges their ridiculousness. Fair exchange isn't robbery. However, I concur that sometimes I (not going to speak for others) am harsh on what I consider wanking threads, trolls, and fin-dommes looking to attract folks to their profiles for the sake of making money. quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: Honestly, most folks here treated her with kid gloves. Having posted here over the last few months, I can assure you that people were just trying to be helpful. A lot of us are in committed relationships (of the monogamous and polyamorous variety) and tried to help her see the flaws in her profile rather than just poke fun. Believe me, you ain't seen snark yet! It's true that some were trying to be helpful at first. However, I have to say, I do feel that older (and many times even just slightly older) femdoms (especially) can be very harsh on young newbie femdoms. What's that all about? Is it down to such a newbie making femdoms as a group look bad? Are they concerned for the safety and well-being of said newbie's (potential) sub/s? Are there considerations of responsibilities for a dominant that I, as a sub, don't have to think about? Or might this be one of those occasions where women think, 'Bugger off Peon, we women will deal with silly girls who don't yet know how to be grown up women'? I don't know. Weren't we all young, silly twats once? I know I was. In fact many say that I've 'managed to preserve a very youthful outlook', even now (that's an example of how middle class Brits insult each other).

kiwisub12 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/16/2013 8:33:38 AM)
If it was just a case of one unfortunate thread starting i could give her the benefit of the doubt, but two within quick sucession scream immature twit to me. Regardless of age.

xssve -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/18/2013 1:46:28 AM)
Y'all need a big fcking dildo up that ass. I say the pic's, face don't lie So belly up.

Toysinbabeland -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/18/2013 3:36:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama OP - I've hooked up with lots of women, all of whom I meet offline. If I were you, I'd take HillWilliam up on his kind offer to help connect you to the local groups. quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam Goddess B. You live fairly close by (yes, I know Im not what you're looking for). There is a really active group of kinksters with a lot of nice folks that I've met in Greeneville. Look them up on FET. We also have 2 active groups up here in the tri cities but the Greeneville group would be closer to you. Cmail me on the other side if you want more info. Good luck. Hell even if you're looking for women give hilly a gander & report back!! We want to know how big that chicken is [8D] gander?....nice pun.

mons -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/22/2013 9:44:52 AM)
Op I am a portrait artist, you my dear are as far from ugly as it can get! Let other see the beauty I see as the artist, love yourself must of all! Then it will show through! Mons

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