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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 5:13:18 PM   
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thank you for all comments an dto those commenting about the way I write I said I was new to the BDSM lifestyle but my past trelationships were just me being submissive no im not a expert that is just a questionnaire that I filled out on my page wjhen I first got it.Second the outfits that I choose to wear is my business I am a exotic dancer so if I choose to wear that then I believe I Can.I am real rather its to good to be true with the things that I have to say also I am a law student with a minor in phsychology.thanks again for the comments good or bad.
ha


You realize this makes no sense, right?

And yes, you can choose to wear whatever you like. However, you also commented that men have been writing to you just interested in sex. What you wear is part of what is causing them to do that. So if you want to put up photos like that, don't complain or be surprised if men contact you for just sex. That was the point.

The comments about the way you write was that you poorly form sentences and you communication style leaves a bit to be desired. I guess you feel you need to add that you are a law student with a minor in psychology because you want to impress us? Sounds like this is your undergrad work, in which case, you aren't a law student yet. Pre-law, sure, but a law student is attending law school and doesn't have a "minor" at that point. Again, see how your communication style could use a little work?

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 5:36:15 PM   
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how would I know which one is the one for me?



If you have to ask, then he's not the one. (Neither of them.)






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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 5:47:26 PM   
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I am a law student with a minor in phsychology.thanks again for the comments good or bad.


And I'd be afraid to have her as my lawyer. The judge would take one look at the horrendous grammar and throw the case out and telling her to either hire a secretary or go back to remedial school.


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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 5:49:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20

thank you for all comments an dto those commenting about the way I write I said I was new to the BDSM lifestyle but my past trelationships were just me being submissive no im not a expert that is just a questionnaire that I filled out on my page wjhen I first got it.Second the outfits that I choose to wear is my business I am a exotic dancer so if I choose to wear that then I believe I Can.I am real rather its to good to be true with the things that I have to say also I am a law student with a minor in phsychology.thanks again for the comments good or bad.
ha


There is no way that you are a law student with a minor in psychology. My college 101 writing class taught me more than what I see in your writing examples so far - and that's just the very basic level.

Also, at the age of 20 according to your profile you are a computer expert, a gourmet cook, a housekeeping expert, and secretarial professional. That's a hell of a lot to accomplish with also being a law student and psychology minor. I'm not sure what the game is here, maybe you're trying to get travel reimbursement from these gentlemen that you are "considering", I have no idea. Everything you say about yourself seems to be inflated though and that is incredibly obvious from basic logic and looking at your communication thus far. If you want to be taken seriously you may consider the fact that for the most part, the people on these boards are not trying to get into your pants and aren't invested in going along with your fantastical ramblings.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:20:24 PM   
sumissivegirl20


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Status: offline 		first off I am a collge student who attends western michigan univeristy i have no need to impress anyone at all and yes you can be a law major with a prelaw minor.Im on here trying to get travel reimbursements from who when every person that has written me we have never discussed anything about money.And second I have a certificate in culinary arts which i took at a avocational school while in high school so yes Im sorry that I accomplish things.Third the picture that I have up is new and before that picture I had a face picture up with no body picture and was still approached sexually so to all the people commenting on my page thank you for your concerns for which I dont see why you have them when at the end of the day youre not answering my question which is my sole purpose for having a thread.And if you are not answering my question I dont feel there is a need to look on my profile under my expertise or what I feel I am a proffesional at because I am not interested in none of you.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:23:28 PM   
sumissivegirl20


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Status: offline 		with a psycology minor I meant at the begining and no one asked anyone what class they took or anything so why does my education play a role in my question.This will be my reason to remain very private in the BDSM community as I see that the women arent so helpful as I was told.Youre giving me criticism on my writing when that was not my question.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:26:24 PM   
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Youre giving me criticism on my writing when that was not my question.


It doesn't matter if it was your question. You're asking a question in a medium where the only form of communication is the written word. The way you write is hard to understand which means your question is not communicated well. It's a valid point, whether you like it or not.


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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:38:18 PM   
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Youre giving me criticism on my writing when that was not my question.



Yeah, that happens a lot. The actual question is often ignored and it turns into a rally about WHY YOU'RE WRONG.


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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:41:07 PM   
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Youre giving me criticism on my writing when that was not my question.


It doesn't matter if it was your question. You're asking a question in a medium where the only form of communication is the written word. The way you write is hard to understand which means your question is not communicated well. It's a valid point, whether you like it or not.



With that I understand I seem to type fast so my words get bunched together for that I apologize if my question was hard to understand.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:51:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Regardless of your age, your course of study, your writing abilities, or your choice of profile picture,
you are asking people who know absolutely nothing about you, to tell you which one of these
men that we've never ever associated with, is best for you to offer your lifetime commitment to.

So instead of looking at your profile to try and grasp a better understanding of who you are,
I will just answer blindly and say that neither of these men are the one for you.
Once you find "the one", no one's opinion is ever going to matter, never mind a strangers.



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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 6:54:51 PM   
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With that I understand I seem to type fast so my words get bunched together for that I apologize if my question was hard to understand.


That was much better. Thank you!


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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 8:30:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I can't answer your question because I can't understand what you are saying. Your typing and grammar are on the level of a fifth grader. Maybe if you slow down, take a deep breath and run what you say through an editor, then maybe, I will be able to answer your question.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 9:08:29 PM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		The advice given here may sound harsh and unrelated to your question, but it really is sound advice.
As you can see here, many people find it difficult to believe that you are educated based on the way you're communicating.
Your profile is a quick glimpse of who you are. If your intellegence is not shown through your writing then you probably won't hear from quality men who are looking for a woman with a brain. You're selling yourself short.

As far as your question, it's the same as any other relationship. No one can tell you how you feel or what you're attracted to. It's different for everyone and something only you can answer. If you can't answer, then you're not ready to decide.
Athena gave some really good advice.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/18/2013 10:25:01 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20

first off I am a collge student who attends western michigan univeristy i have no need to impress anyone at all and yes you can be a law major with a prelaw minor.Im on here trying to get travel reimbursements from who when every person that has written me we have never discussed anything about money.And second I have a certificate in culinary arts which i took at a avocational school while in high school so yes Im sorry that I accomplish things.Third the picture that I have up is new and before that picture I had a face picture up with no body picture and was still approached sexually so to all the people commenting on my page thank you for your concerns for which I dont see why you have them when at the end of the day youre not answering my question which is my sole purpose for having a thread.And if you are not answering my question I dont feel there is a need to look on my profile under my expertise or what I feel I am a proffesional at because I am not interested in none of you.


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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20

with a psycology minor I meant at the begining and no one asked anyone what class they took or anything so why does my education play a role in my question.This will be my reason to remain very private in the BDSM community as I see that the women arent so helpful as I was told.Youre giving me criticism on my writing when that was not my question.


You got it right the first time. You are studying PRE-LAW. That does not make you a law student. Law students are seeking an advanced degree, which is actually a doctoral degree. You are taking classes to prepare you to enter law school. There are some schools where you can achieve your Bachelor's and JD at the same time, but your school isn't one of them.

As for the comments on that, YOU are the one who brought it up, not any of us.

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..... also I am a law student with a minor in phsychology.thanks again for the comments good or bad.
ha


I merely pointed out that you are not an actual law student at this time.

As for answers to your questions, it would appear that your reading comprehension is as bad as your communication skills and your typing ability. The entire first page is almost exclusively dedicated to that question. We told you to meet them in person, I know I specifically told you to make sure that you met in public for safety reasons. We told you that at 20 years old with two men you haven't even met face to face, making a "lifetime" commitment is being hasty and a mistake.

There are males who will message you simply for sex even if you have no picture, so yes in many ways, your picture only matters to a point. However, when you lead with your sexuality, you will get those types of emails more frequently. Quite frankly, I don't care if you put a picture up of your self at work with a dollar sticking out of your twat, just don't complain about the messages you then receive.

You have listed as a skill that you are a secretarial professional, and then you say that when you type fast the words get jumbled. So I know you aren't a secretarial professional of any worth since your typing skills apparently suck.

Further, to be honest, your communications skills are so abhorrent that you didn't even tell us anything about the men you are trying to choose between, yet you want our advice.

So before you throw your next childish hissy fit, look at what you have posted, and actually read the responses and figure out what the fuck you are doing wrong to make people respond to you the way we are. Oh, and just a hint...it isn't because we are all jealous of your body.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 3:35:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sigh, I for one did not answer the question because any person with an ounce of common sense would know that it isn't a question anybody could answer for you. You and these Doms are complete strangers to us, how in holy hell are we to know?

Now I did comment on your writing, because quite frankly my dear I was right and English classes would go a long way in helping you communicate. Your writing begs me to believe that you are full of shit, you are unintelligible and come off as unbelievable.

I would love a statistician to give me the odds on you being a 20 yr old gorgeous sub that is poly, willing to relocate, and an exotic dancer working her way through "law" school.... As I said if it sounds to good to be true then it most likely is.. and you make my bs meter ring off the charts...

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 8:21:03 AM   
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I would love a statistician to give me the odds on you being a 20 yr old gorgeous sub that is poly, willing to relocate, and an exotic dancer working her way through "law" school.... As I said if it sounds to good to be true then it most likely is.. and you make my bs meter ring off the charts...


It does happen, though. I have a friend who did porn to pay her way through law school. She and her Master are into female cuckolding, she is gorgeous, and they've been together for somewhere close to 20 years. But, he's also exceptional as well. It's a one in a zillion thing, but it can happen.


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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 9:38:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, I agree, but I can also guarantee that she wasn't on a kink site with a journal that says she's bored all the time and then all the sudden needing to decide between two men... Wayyyyy too far fetched to be true..

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 10:41:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20

first off I am a collge student who attends western michigan univeristy i have no need to impress anyone at all and yes you can be a law major with a prelaw minor.Im on here trying to get travel reimbursements from who when every person that has written me we have never discussed anything about money.And second I have a certificate in culinary arts which i took at a avocational school while in high school so yes Im sorry that I accomplish things.Third the picture that I have up is new and before that picture I had a face picture up with no body picture and was still approached sexually so to all the people commenting on my page thank you for your concerns for which I dont see why you have them when at the end of the day youre not answering my question which is my sole purpose for having a thread.And if you are not answering my question I dont feel there is a need to look on my profile under my expertise or what I feel I am a proffesional at because I am not interested in none of you.


Your reply to me illustrates perfectly what I was pointing out. Unless you are a foreign student, I honestly cannot see that your English skills are up to passing Western Michigan University's entrance requirements. It's simply not a case of typing too fast. Being a law student, I'm sure you can appreciate how important it is to have the things you write out be correctly representative of what you wish to say. Surely, as a law student, you'd go over and reread what you are saying to others to make sure it is correct in content and also grammatically accurate.

A culinary arts certificate from a high school vocational program is like home ec, it's no where near the level of being a gourmet cook. You still had other claims on your profile that seem to be unsubstantiated. Why is this important? Because something smells fishy. It certainly doesn't seem as though your claims for yourself are truthful, if you aren't being truthful why then should people answer your questions if you are lying to them? Utilizing the boards under false pretenses is something that has happened here in a destructive manner before, it's not generally taken lightly since then.

People did answer you, did you miss all of those posts? Of course it's a good idea to look at someone's profile and expertise if you are answering them, you should know as a law student that you never take superficial things to speak for the whole.

All in all this whole thread is off to say the least. OP, if you honestly think that someone should be debating who to make a lifelong commitment to after joining the site a week ago, and having written and verbal contact with the contenders for a couple of days at most, then you honestly need to check in to the nearest mental facility to keep yourself in safe hands.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 12:24:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		You have to meet both of them to see if you are a good fit in preson. Maste and i had a gerat phonrelationship.  When w met the connection was even stronger,)ut it is not that way all the time.  In the past (pre Master)  i have talked to Doms on the phone that i fet a connection with .  When we met in ereson they left me flat.  Master an i have been together 7 years ths month

We cannot tell you what man to choose.  We don't know them that is up to you.  Like i said met them and see which one (if either) seems the right fit for you.  Please meet them in a public place.

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RE: is he the right master for me? - 2/19/2013 2:49:06 PM   
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have been searching for a master for a short time most men see me as just sex I want a serious master/sub relationship
I have been chatting with two different doma they both ask for the same from me but have two different lifestyle how would I know which one is the one for me?

Fuck em both. Then stick with the one who gives you the biggest orgasms

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