NiceButMeanGirl
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Joined: 11/4/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20
have been searching for a master for a short time most men see me as just sex I want a serious master/sub relationship
I have been chatting with two different doma they both ask for the same from me but have two different lifestyle how would I know which one is the one for me?
First, I am not trying to be mean here but, when a guy sees a pic like yours, chances are he's going to think of S-E-X. Regardless of the message you are trying to send, that's the one you are sending.
Second, how did you know who was right for you in the past? That is, if you did. You do it the same way with D/s relationships as you do with vanilla ones, only you have some added things to consider.
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ORIGINAL: lizi
There is no way that you are a law student with a minor in psychology. My college 101 writing class taught me more than what I see in your writing examples so far - and that's just the very basic level.
Also, at the age of 20 according to your profile you are a computer expert, a gourmet cook, a housekeeping expert, and secretarial professional. That's a hell of a lot to accomplish with also being a law student and psychology minor. I'm not sure what the game is here, maybe you're trying to get travel reimbursement from these gentlemen that you are "considering", I have no idea. Everything you say about yourself seems to be inflated though and that is incredibly obvious from basic logic and looking at your communication thus far. If you want to be taken seriously you may consider the fact that for the most part, the people on these boards are not trying to get into your pants and aren't invested in going along with your fantastical ramblings.
IMO, a lot of the bolded part is total B.S. Unless of course she started all her studies and on-the-job training in primary school. 
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ORIGINAL: sumissivegirl20
I said I was new to the BDSM lifestyle but my past trelationships were just me being submissive no im not a expert that is just a questionnaire that I filled out on my page wjhen I first got it.Second the outfits that I choose to wear is my business I am a exotic dancer so if I choose to wear that then I believe I Can.
I've got to tell you, that run-on sentence and lack of grammar is hurting my brain. Anyway....
One, "my past trelationships were just me being submissive" makes no sense. You can't have D/s relationships with only yourself. Two, yes, you can wear whatever you want to in a picture. But you are responsible for what image you're projecting with that. And what you're projecting is SEX! SEX! SEX!" whether you want to or not. Hell, I'm straight and I saw it as projecting sex.
NBMG
< Message edited by NiceButMeanGirl -- 2/19/2013 4:04:49 PM >
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