BamaD -> RE: Witness lied under oath in Trayvon Martin case (3/8/2013 8:51:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tj444 These types of questions are private and none of anyone elses business.. In the case of what she was doing instead of attenting Martin's funeral, the question goes directly to the nature of her claimed relationship with Martin. And while you can whine all you want about it being inappropriate and a "private" matter, the fact remains that she was asked it and she lied. K. ahhhh, I see,.. so if she had gone to the funeral then that would have to mean he meant everything to her? that is not necessarily true, going to someones funeral can be (& frequently is) just for show and just cuz its "expected".. no matter how much you might have actually hated the person.. For some people (like me), I prefer to remember the person how they were as I last saw them, not as a stiff dead body (like the funerals I was forced to attend for my grandparents when I was a little kid).. There can be other reasons too, like not wanting to be swarmed by the media and have your pic taken, mics stuck in your face, etc just cuz you are at someones funeral.. I dont know what kind of media attention the case was getting at that time but I suspect that Martins family had been trying to get that attention then too (which they eventually did get).. Imo, people that think there is a correlation between how you felt for someone and if you attended their funeral are those that hang on every word from that horrible Nancy Grace's mouth.. its the same judgemental viewpoint.. [:'(] I am not disputing that she lied, but I think she did that simply to give a reason to the family and to avoid being judged harshly by them for not going.. it just snowballed into the family telling their lawyer and then the lawyer asking her, etc etc.. She is just a kid and likely much more susceptible to those kinds of pressures, imo.. When I was 21 my father tried to get me to go to my uncle's funeral and I just couldnt go,.. I told him I couldnt get time off work (yes, a lie).. He was my very fav uncle and I had a lot of affection for him.. going to his funeral and knowing he died too young & in a horrible helicopter crash was just something I could not handle.. If she did or did not go to the funeral is of no importance, that she lied about it in her disposition is.
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