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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 4:10:04 PM   
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Ah yes....the guy who said he would give his girlfriend birth control without her knowing.



Why he wouldn't just get a vasectomy instead....


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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 4:15:28 PM   
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Ah yes....the guy who said he would give his girlfriend birth control without her knowing.



Why he wouldn't just get a vasectomy instead....


http://www.collarchat.com/m_4348648/mpage_3/tm.htm




I read the thread earlier. Didn't recall him saying why he wouldn't take the hit instead of potentially harming his partner's health.

I assumed it was just because he was an asshole who didn't think things through first.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 8:47:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow the fact that you all have so much time to bash me, is a severe turnoff... i was merely jonesing for a quick read yesterday, and the fact you all think i'll make a "bad master" is laughable. The only person i care about is my sub. Period. I'm not stealing anyone's work, i can go to the library and check out the book and do the same damn thing. Read it. Seriously you guys need to get your heads out of your asses as a whole, which is why this is my last post here, i already purchased a few books online. It's exactly like they say "when you have haters, you know you made it."

Best of luck to you all.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 8:54:16 PM   
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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 8:57:26 PM   
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And no one is hating on you (good Lord, do I hate that phrase). Invisible people in your head speaking negatively can be eliminated with talk therapy and/or anti-psychotic medication. That is all.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 9:22:34 PM   
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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 10:12:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Start with "The Way of The Superior Man" and work up.

It's not knowledge you require, it's character. Primarily, strength. All other bdsm knowledge is domain-specific accoutrements and is optional. It can be acquired later - the real mark of a Dom is a dominant frame in relation to the world.

Presuming you can become a Dom or become a better Dom by reading is both asinine and a phenomenal mistake. You cannot. You learn by doing, you develop character by making decisions and gaining accomplishment.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/11/2013 10:41:25 PM   
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Ah yes....the guy who said he would give his girlfriend birth control without her knowing.


WHA--?!

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 12:03:09 AM   
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Wow the fact that you all have so much time to bash me, is a severe turnoff... i was merely jonesing for a quick read yesterday, and the fact you all think i'll make a "bad master" is laughable. The only person i care about is my sub. Period. I'm not stealing anyone's work, i can go to the library and check out the book and do the same damn thing. Read it. Seriously you guys need to get your heads out of your asses as a whole, which is why this is my last post here, i already purchased a few books online. It's exactly like they say "when you have haters, you know you made it."

Best of luck to you all.

MJ
Considering that I'm not trying to turn you on, that's not a concern of Mine. What I would hope is that you become educated. The responsibility to do that is yours and yours alone. Not can the library provide it or what would people on a message board teach you. The idea of being a Dominant is controlling those things that you have the potential to control.

Now, it's quite possible that you might walk into the library and the books might be available to check out. What if they are not? Say the library doesn't carry them or there's a six months reserved waiting list? You just gave up control to the situation, rather than you taking control of the situation. If you're a passive kind of Dominant, be happy with the former. My way is the latter.



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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 12:06:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 6:02:12 AM   
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MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah



Cupcake, the only one who needs to "tame" me is my Master, and he already has. He allows me the freedom to let out my sadistic side by letting me make little boys like you and the OP cry. He finds it amusing and laughs when I share the responses with him.


Do you really expect women to be docile to strangers?

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 8:12:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Poloboi234

MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah


It must be very frustrating to not be able to satisfy the need to bully others with a group of strong individuals who will not allow you to bully them in the first place, isn't it?


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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 8:24:19 AM   
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MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah


Oh wow you've seen right through us. Secretly we're all fragile little cupcake-dollies that hide behind our 'crabby' facades, awaiting the brave soul who will finally 'tame' us, like a pirate in a mills-and-boon novel. Then we can finally let go of any pretence at having our own preferences or personalities, and instead sit demurely at the back of the room smiling fondly at our menfolk and thinking how wise and lovely they are. It will be such a relief to accept any drivel that we hear without having to use our brains and phew - I'm so glad I'll never have to express my opinion again. All I need is some guy I don't know to come bully me into submission and I can be free from my prison of strength and intelligence. Come get me big boy, where have you been all my life?

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 9:23:44 AM   
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It's exactly like they say "when you have haters, you know you made it."

Sure... except anyone who said that to me would instantly lose all my respect also. See, the thing is with every single one of your posts you confirm my image of you. That's why I suggested an actual mentor... someone you respected (assuming you respect anyone other than yourself) and who actually has demonstrable ability to do whatever it is you're hoping to do. You can't learn from us. But you seriously need to learn from someone and I think you're so far lost in the woods that books aren't going to cut it.

PS: That's not meant to be some sort of slam against you. My own opinion about leadership in general is that it is a deep skill not a shallow one. The vast majority of people need a mentor not a book. It's exactly what I'd recommend if you were a newbie manager at work.... it's exactly what my work recommended for all new managers... myself included.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 10:09:48 AM   
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MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah


So says another confused guy.

Hon, I doubt you possess either the brains or brawn to tame a woman.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 11:48:35 AM   
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MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah

Child, you couldn't tame a cowlick.

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 12:06:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Poloboi234

MJ'- don't trip. For some reason the woman or mistresses here are quite "crabby"... it's a very hard thing to tame a shrew... but tamed they must be... hahah


I always love it when a poster who has made an ass out of themselves shows support for another poster who is making an ass of themselves.


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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 10:45:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks to the newb poster. But on the real, i've been a dominant all my life, from the time i was 10, i was doing dominant things, i took over a household, was put in dominant positions all my life an excelled, i highly doubt any of you are better than me, and that is just real talk. The fact is, i don't have to prove a thing to you, only my subs shall i show my true form to. The people here are highly condescending in their responses. Instead of giving a straight answer they want to just talk smack, it takes away from the fact that we are all here to learn, not to smart off. There is no one on this board i feel is better than me, i'm the best master on the face of the earth. Any master that doesn't think they are the best for their sub is weak. An Alpha is always an Alpha. A beta is sometimes a beta Masquerading as an Alpha. Throughout my life i have succeeded in activities requiring the Alpha to be showcases. Bottom line, everything you all just said went in one ear and out the other... and will continue to. I am a person who learns well from good teachers, you are not good teachers, you remind me of my little brother. Annoying, like a fly who you are too lazy to go grab the fly swatter to squash. Fact is, i have trained a sub, fact is, she was in heaven. Fact is I have owned a slave for quite a while 24/7, am i the most experienced BDSM master. Not at all, however i have such dominant qualities that i know i'm a natural, not cocky, sure of myself. I am naturally Dominant, this is my life. The comments that will follow this post will be all laughable. All will be bashing me for posting again etc, or whatever it is. I can guarantee no one on here would say these things to my face, because the fact is in person you would feel who i am. You would see from my body of work, that although i'm not yet 30, I've Dominated, and will Continue to be an Alpha for the rest of my life.

Every day i Dominate, every second she thinks of me.... every step she takes... every breath... every tear she cries as i spank her.... i'm in her thoughts like a permanent subconcious melody... stuck on repeat.

MJ

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/12/2013 11:40:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, thanks for the great chuckle you gave me before I headed off to bed. I swear I thought you couldn't top the flounce. But this was over-the-moon hilarious! Not cocky? That post of yours had more cock than a henhouse full of roosters.

Perhaps you shouldn't get your Dominant panties all twisted in your über Dominant ass because people dared tell you to spend a few bucks and buy a fucking book instead of trying to scam it for free? These authors took the time, effort, and energy to create these books for a reason. And that reason was not to have their bottom line screwed with by people who want to do their Dominance on the cheap or because they are just too lazy to hit the bookstore.

And deep down in the places you don't like to talk about, we both know these words didn't depart your cranium out your other ear. Your continued responses chock full of bravado and chest puffing say otherwise. Just sayin'

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RE: Fellow Dominants... - 3/13/2013 12:08:33 AM   
domccc


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Status: offline 		Lol.. spoken like a true sub.


I am the best. My subs think so... and I think so.

Fact is i own now 5 diff books, all purchased off the list...

That particular night i wanted to read, and was merely asking if anyone had anything in PDF so i could. Fact is, you can borrow a book from me like i can borrow a book from you.

Seriously it's a simple point, it's like the CD manufacturer getting mad for me loaning you my CD....

Sad to see you guys aren't the least bit logical here... hence more validation why i know this is a tough place to get good advice at.

MJ

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