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poise -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 5:37:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships. •They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work. I have no issue with anyone dating outside of their age range, but do you really believe this? [:-] According to your age, you've had plenty of years of real relationship practice. Tell me again why you are single and looking?

Phoenixpower -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 5:38:30 AM)
By the way....there might just be as many reasons why a woman does not want an old sack to look after [8\|]

JeffBC -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 7:17:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir Says the old guy still looking to the hot woman in a successful long-term marriage. chuckles Yeah. I always love it when I get told I'm doing it wrong from some single guy/gal. Usually, what I find is not only are they single now but they have never managed to maintain a stable, long-term relationship.

mymaster121 -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 7:36:51 AM)
quote: Q: poise A: We all live and learn - and when we we finally gets it - well then we done got it - and time to live it - 2b or not 2b - and that's that. :-)

mymaster121 -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 7:43:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir Says the old guy still looking to the hot woman in a successful long-term marriage. chuckles Yeah. I always love it when I get told I'm doing it wrong from some single guy/gal. Usually, what I find is not only are they single now but they have never managed to maintain a stable, long-term relationship. Unfortunately, trolls seem to inhabit a kind of middle realm between distinct definitions. :-)

JeffBC -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 8:04:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 Unfortunately, trolls seem to inhabit a kind of middle realm between distinct definitions. :-) Dude. I don't think you're a troll. I think you're a rich (or relatively well to do anyway) guy who wants to buy himself a young piece of fluff. That hardly makes you unique or unusual in any sense. The part that confuses me is your difficulty in doing so. Generally having phat sacks of cash money is highly attractive to certain pieces of fluff. I suspect that works better in real life where they can actually SEE your palatial mansion than here on the internet where every guy is a wealthy special forces guy. So if you're as witty, charming, and well to do as you say, what's the deal? What brings you here? I also have to ask about the motivation for the original post. Honestly, don't you think that a women open to older men already knows why she is? I'm kind of curious what the point of that posting was.

OsideGirl -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 8:46:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 grateful that you're fucking alive and well. I'm a cancer survivor. I'm always grateful that I'm "fucking alive and well". But, thanks so much for your concern. I could tell that it was absolutely genuine rather than an attempt to thump your own chest. [8\|]

absolutchocolat -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 8:57:41 AM)
FR My Daddy has a few years on me, but I fell in love with the man he is and not his age. Also, my parents have a May-December romance, so I didn't see anything wrong with dating a guy my mother's age. I always loathe generalizations because people state them as if they are hard facts. There are always exceptions to every rule, and this is no different. I'm with poise...if you are so sparkly with Skittles shooting out of your ass, you should have the girlies lining up for you. Oh, wait. This is the internet, where millionaire Daddy-Doms are a dime a dozen. [8\|]

Arturas -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 8:59:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because: •They may be more matured and responsible. •Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires. •Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better. •They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts. •They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women. •They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased. •They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do. •An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing. •He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman. •He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident. I've had mostly younger subs. They think you are right. I've heard them say these things when I asked them about the age difference. tam agrees with you. There is a significant number of younger subs who go for older Doms. Go for it.

searching4mysir -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 9:27:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because: •They may be more matured and responsible. •Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires. •Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better. •They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts. •They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women. •They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased. •They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do. •An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing. •He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman. •He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident. I've had mostly younger subs. They think you are right. I've heard them say these things when I asked them about the age difference. tam agrees with you. There is a significant number of younger subs who go for older Doms. Go for it. I don't think anyone here REALLY has a problem with age differences. The copy pasta from his journal wasn't really forum appropriate because there wasn't a question there. The room is "Ask a Submissive/Slave". It was a lame attempt at getting some pussy.

OsideGirl -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 9:32:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir I don't think anyone here REALLY has a problem with age differences. The copy pasta from his journal wasn't really forum appropriate because there wasn't a question there. The room is "Ask a Submissive/Slave". It was a lame attempt at getting some pussy. It wasn't even a set up for discussion. It was just an advertisement couched as a lecture (with incorrect information).

mnottertail -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 9:36:29 AM)
If you want the correct information, and will suck my dick for it, be younger, and be here. Hope this helps.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 11:44:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 whenever we open the screen door for fresh air; we have to know that flies, mosquitos ,and other bothersome, harmless insects, can, and will - also enter Dude... you don't open a *screen* door to let fresh air in. That's WHY it's a screen door... so you can let the fresh air in without letting the bugs in. What where you saying again about older men being more knowledgable and experienced? I'm sorry, but I think I'll stick with somebody who understands how to operate a door/screen door combo...

RedMagic1 -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 12:10:55 PM)
Hi mymaster121, What confused me about your post was why "young" would be the most important criterion you might consider in a potential female sub. To give you a window into my life, I have a lunch date tomorrow with a woman a kinkster friend of mine is trying to set up with me. This lady owns a Vietnamese restaurant that won "Best Pho in major city X" a couple years ago. Honestly, I have no idea whether she is younger or older than I am, because she's a petite Vietnamese woman, so her looks are age-indeterminate. But this situation fascinates me, because this is a woman who knows how to accomplish something, I would have great meals 365 days a year, and a female kinkster thinks the two of us might be compatible. So why not open the door and see if someone walks through it? That said, there's a 99% chance nothing is going to come of this, since I am only in city X a handful of days a year. I'm primarily doing lunch because it sounds fun so why not. Why wouldn't "good character" be more important to you than "youth?" Unless you have a point to prove to yourself.... Anyway, best of luck finding someone who makes you happy, and whose life goals you help to fulfill.

angelikaJ -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 12:31:36 PM)
When women are younger and gravitate towards older men, frequently it is because "girls mature faster than boys"... at least that is what my personal experience has been. [My] Master is within a year of me, and I enjoy my compatibility with Him. However, when I was 37 I had a wonderful relationship with a man who was twice my age. His age had nothing to do with our mutual attraction. For us, it was intelligence and intelligence is very sexy... [;)] . The only place his age played a part was the certain knowledge that I was the last great love of his life... and he had had some pretty great loves. I felt honored to have had a place among them.

LadyPact -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 12:32:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat I'm with poise...if you are so sparkly with Skittles shooting out of your ass, you should have the girlies lining up for you. Nominating this phrase for Sunny Quote of the Day for both it's colorful expression and the reality check.

lizi -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 1:07:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir I don't think anyone here REALLY has a problem with age differences. The copy pasta from his journal wasn't really forum appropriate because there wasn't a question there. The room is "Ask a Submissive/Slave". It was a lame attempt at getting some pussy. I agree with the idea that no one really cares about someone else's preferences about age. Let whoever out there do whatever they like, it matters nothing to me. What bothers me is the double standard that frequently gets used with age on the part of men. Men seem to feel that they want young women, ok fine, and they try this tactic of selling their age as a series of positive bullet points to get the young women, not realizing that what they're saying is easily turned the other way. Basically if it's all that and a bag of chips having an older partner, then everyone should go out and get one...including the guy who is advertising himself as the bag of chips. This guy was trying to get his preference fulfilled by using a bunch of sweeping generalizations. That's always a crap ploy. Like I said before, if he's working so hard to sell his points of why older partners are so wonderful, then why isn't he out there looking for an older partner himself? He's got a double standard, he wants someone else to believe in his points and date him, but he wants to ignore those same points for himself. It's the age old problem of what someone says vs what they do. He's saying age is all that, and he's trying to use it as a vehicle, while ignoring the application of his points for himself. Ew.

Arturas -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 1:28:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 LOL. When people use the word wisdom thinking they "know more than anyone else" that's not wise. Actually... wisdom is a deep understanding and realization of people, things, events or situations, resulting in the ability to apply perceptions, judgments and actions in keeping with this understanding, i.e. you either has or you hasn't got - style. :-) That's good.

MrRodgers -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 1:29:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because: •They may be more matured and responsible. •Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires. •Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better. •They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts. •They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women. •They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased. •They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do. •An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing. •He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman. •He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident. You know whenever this subject comes up where an older man wants a younger woman and tries to justify it, I like to inject this thought- if older men are so wonderful in so many ways then why aren't all men out there looking for older women? I mean look at the list you've got going there, all of the points would apply as well to an older woman, so why not look for that? Why are you here trying to win younger women over when it's obvious from all of your points that you should be looking for an older woman if you really wanted the quality companion? So go out there and look for a women in her 60's or more to really set yourself up for all those fine qualities you mention in the above quote. I bet that you won't. I bet any of the men who try to justify their wonderful qualities as older men would never think to go the other way and pursue an older woman for their relationship. Hmmm, I bet it this concept of age bringing great rewards doesn't seem quite so attractive now when it's applied the other way around does it? So if you wouldn't do that, go for an older woman, why should a younger woman go for you, the older man? Not me...18 to 80. Well, ok, maybe not 80 or is it...maybe not 18 ? I forget. Fact is for me, I see more May/Dec relationships in vanilla life than I do at any of these sites. Fact is, I see that these affairs rarely happen online because it is...online complete with both digital and mental filters. More happens when two people meet face to face first time...real life.

Arturas -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/22/2013 1:32:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymaster121 Q: quote: Why aren't young, submissive girls trampling each other to become a fetish object for a suave, sophisticated, extraordinarily handsome, educated, brilliant, extremely wise and not to mention humble, Uber-dom like me? A: Just maybe because the self-description obviously doesn't fit. snort. I do like you, OP.

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