jlf1961 -> RE: There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. (3/23/2013 6:32:31 AM)
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ORIGINAL: mymaster121 There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because: •They may be more matured and responsible. The only difference between men and boys are the size and cost of their toys, remember? And it is not maturity that leads to responsibility, it goes back to the toys thing. Truth be told, I have met some pretty immature and irresponsible older members of both sexes. And the are not senile. At some point as you grow older, the idea of fun starts creeping in, to do all the things you wanted to do when younger, the problem is the older body just cant handle it. Recently there were five older men and women hospitalized for injuries received while sky diving in my town. There was a 59 year old lady ticketed for street racing, and a 61 year old man cited for having a party at his home which included strippers, a local rock band, and skinny dipping in his pool (minus the privacy fence.) quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires. Actually there is a growing number of men who, for what ever reason, change careers at around 40 to 50 and start fresh. I will have to look up the article to give you a cite. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better. Caring and considerate yes, but I really dont want to be in charge of every or most aspects of my subs life. Micro managing a lover's life is a pain in the ass. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts. Donald Trump and Hugh Hefner are self-disciplined? I will give you reliable, but self disciplined, not always. In my case, someone calls me up and wants me to help hunting wild hogs, I will drop everything. I know many well off older men that are so spontaneous it is not funny. Spur of the moment trips to Vegas, or to go skiing, hunting trips to Alaska, Montana, or fishing trips to go deep sea fishing. And fuck anything that needs their attention instead of taking the trip, the basic idea is it will wait. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women. This is true, but there are still some older men that like to play the field. It is a crap shoot unless you really know the guy you want to be with. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased. Cant argue with this one. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do. True quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing. Not guaranteed but in some cases, yes. There are too many drugs that make older men able to perform when they wish, as many times as they wish. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman. I am going to say this, I have raised my children, but I would not be opposed to having more. Fathering children when older seems to be some sort of status symbol for some guys. quote:
ORIGINAL: mymaster121 •He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident. Cant argue, but the control may not be a vital part of his personality.
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