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•They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships.
•They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general,
because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir
Says the old guy still looking to the hot woman in a successful long-term marriage.

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Q: poise

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir
Says the old guy still looking to the hot woman in a successful long-term marriage.

*chuckles* Yeah. I always love it when I get told I'm doing it wrong from some single guy/gal. Usually, what I find is not only are they single now but they have never managed to maintain a stable, long-term relationship.

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121
Unfortunately, trolls seem to inhabit a kind of middle realm between distinct definitions. :-)

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121
grateful that you're fucking alive and well.

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because:

•They may be more matured and responsible.
•Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires.
•Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better.
•They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts.
•They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
•They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased.
•They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do.
•An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing.
•He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman.
•He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because:

•They may be more matured and responsible.
•Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires.
•Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better.
•They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts.
•They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
•They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased.
•They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do.
•An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing.
•He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman.
•He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident.

I've had mostly younger subs. They think you are right. I've heard them say these things when I asked them about the age difference. tam agrees with you. There is a significant number of younger subs who go for older Doms. Go for it.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

I don't think anyone here REALLY has a problem with age differences. The copy pasta from his journal wasn't really forum appropriate because there wasn't a question there. The room is "Ask a Submissive/Slave". It was a lame attempt at getting some pussy.

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whenever we open the screen door for fresh air; we have to know that flies, mosquitos ,and other bothersome, harmless insects, can, and will - also enter

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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat
I'm with poise...if you are so sparkly with Skittles shooting out of your ass, you should have the girlies lining up for you.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


I don't think anyone here REALLY has a problem with age differences. The copy pasta from his journal wasn't really forum appropriate because there wasn't a question there. The room is "Ask a Submissive/Slave". It was a lame attempt at getting some pussy.

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

LOL. When people use the word wisdom thinking they "know more than anyone else" that's not wise. Actually... wisdom is a deep understanding and realization of people, things, events or situations, resulting in the ability to apply perceptions, judgments and actions in keeping with this understanding, i.e. you either has or you hasn't got - style. :-)

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because:

•They may be more matured and responsible.
•Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires.
•Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better.
•They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts.
•They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
•They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased.
•They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do.
•An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing.
•He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman.
•He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident.

You know whenever this subject comes up where an older man wants a younger woman and tries to justify it, I like to inject this thought- if older men are so wonderful in so many ways then why aren't all men out there looking for older women? I mean look at the list you've got going there, all of the points would apply as well to an older woman, so why not look for that? Why are you here trying to win younger women over when it's obvious from all of your points that you should be looking for an older woman if you really wanted the quality companion?

So go out there and look for a women in her 60's or more to really set yourself up for all those fine qualities you mention in the above quote. I bet that you won't. I bet any of the men who try to justify their wonderful qualities as older men would never think to go the other way and pursue an older woman for their relationship. Hmmm, I bet it this concept of age bringing great rewards doesn't seem quite so attractive now when it's applied the other way around does it? So if you wouldn't do that, go for an older woman, why should a younger woman go for you, the older man?

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Why aren't young, submissive girls trampling each other to become a fetish object for a suave, sophisticated, extraordinarily handsome, educated, brilliant, extremely wise and not to mention humble, Uber-dom like me?

A: Just maybe because the self-description obviously doesn't fit.