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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

I love the interwebz some days. I hope CollarMe and CollarChat will consider banning this parasite.

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

I know I'm in the right most of the time - but that doesn't mean that others agree with me! I actually try to make sure that I'm not just preaching at people, as I know that they are much more open to more gentle persuasion. Most of the rest is just meaningless crap from people who generally don't have a clue about the things that are for the most part - out of their league. Most people like myself that wear good shoes, go to great lengths to avoid walking in shit.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: mymaster121

There may be many reasons why a younger girl/woman may prefer to choose an older man. Some of them can be because:

•They may be more matured and responsible.
•Older men mostly have established careers or business which gives the financial stability and comforts a smart girl/woman desires.
•Older men tend to be more caring and may consider you more, and also be an authority figure in your life - who can and will take charge of things better.
•They are more reliable and self-disciplined - compared to their young counterparts.
•They also seem to be more devoted to their partners and their relationships, and normally do not run around flirting or sleeping around with several women.
•They are more sexually experienced and know how to please their partner and how they want to be pleased.
•They may also be more knowledgeable about the 'lifestyle' and real life in general, because of their own experiences about what makes a real relationship work, and they usuall don't commit the stupid mistakes that younger men do.
•An older man may not need to be pleased sexually on a daily basis - which most woman consider as a positive thing.
•He also may not want children from you, as he might already have had some, or he may be more willing to secure yours, which is definitely a plus for a service-oriented woman.
•He is more knowledgeable because of his age, and because of this wisdom, he can teach you, motivate you, guide you, control you, and make you feel more free to be yourself - safe, secure and confident.

You know whenever this subject comes up where an older man wants a younger woman and tries to justify it, I like to inject this thought- if older men are so wonderful in so many ways then why aren't all men out there looking for older women? I mean look at the list you've got going there, all of the points would apply as well to an older woman, so why not look for that? Why are you here trying to win younger women over when it's obvious from all of your points that you should be looking for an older woman if you really wanted the quality companion?

So go out there and look for a women in her 60's or more to really set yourself up for all those fine qualities you mention in the above quote. I bet that you won't. I bet any of the men who try to justify their wonderful qualities as older men would never think to go the other way and pursue an older woman for their relationship. Hmmm, I bet it this concept of age bringing great rewards doesn't seem quite so attractive now when it's applied the other way around does it? So if you wouldn't do that, go for an older woman, why should a younger woman go for you, the older man?

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Hey to each his own...but respect ME for knowing what I want. If I state 38-48...

DAMNIT! I just hit 49 a few months ago.

every old guy is "told all the time he looks 35"
Damnit, I must not be aging gracefully because nobody ever says that to me. Carol, on the other hand used to get mid 30's a lot when she was early 50's though. When she smiles a decade falls right off her face -- and that's in other people's eyes not my horribly biased and subjective ones.

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ORIGINAL: xssve

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Hey to each his own...but respect ME for knowing what I want. If I state 38-48...

DAMNIT! I just hit 49 a few months ago.

every old guy is "told all the time he looks 35"
Damnit, I must not be aging gracefully because nobody ever says that to me. Carol, on the other hand used to get mid 30's a lot when she was early 50's though. When she smiles a decade falls right off her face -- and that's in other people's eyes not my horribly biased and subjective ones.

I get asked all the time at Goodwill if I'm eligible for the Senior discount.

Disclaimer: I only go there searching for pervertables and to compare the hot young bitches to the old bittes.

Advantage: bittes.

Maybe I'm just old. If I were playing the field, I'd probably not make so much of a distinction: 18 to 80, blind lame or crazy, that's my motto.

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Dude, dude, duuuude...your profile states you're only 18. So I guess your OP theories aren't working so well.

As for lying...well, I think it's safe to say you're not 18, but you are creepy.

You don't vet well. At all. So it's also safe to say with all your foibles splashed across the internet, your age won't matter. Most will end up holding their their noses during the drive-by.