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fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 5:38:21 AM   
hothandle4use


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Status: offline 		how many of you have had contact with fake mistresses who first want money before any further contact and after paying they still don't want contact, cam etc.?
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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 5:47:22 AM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hothandle4use

how many of you have had contact with fake mistresses who first want money before any further contact and after paying they still don't want contact, cam etc.?



What part of
quote:

DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON!
Read about Common Scams and Online Safety Information
didn't you understand?

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 5:49:35 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hothandle4use

how many of you have had contact with fake mistresses who first want money before any further contact and after paying they still don't want contact, cam etc.?


I've had brief contact with fake subs. I simply move on.

Edited to add: OP, I read your profile. You will never attract anyone with that profile unless you pay her. Is that your intent?

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 4/2/2013 5:50:55 AM >

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:04:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Edited to add: OP, I read your profile. You will never attract anyone with that profile unless you pay her. Is that your intent?


Considering that he's in the Netherlands, I disagree with that. Kink culture is quite different there, and I can see that kind of profile finding a match with certain friends I've got back home.
He's not going to find anybody overseas with that profile though.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:17:01 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Never happened to me, but it's a very common thing.

Chalk this one up to experience.

If it happens to you again, though, I'd recommend that you cancel your internet subscription.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:23:42 AM   
hothandle4use


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Status: offline 		What a strange responses if I may say so. I never paid anybody any money. But I have had a couple of contacts on this site and a few of these mistresses asked for some money or a present in advance as a kind of proof. I never did so and I know and understand this text above. But I nevertheless encounter these responses. My question was if anybody had any negative experiences with this. Is there a list of 'females' who play this game. That is what my question was all about.

And if you think my profile sucks (which has nothing to do with my question by the way) please don't stop by saying so but explain your opinion. In that case your respons may at least have some value.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:25:47 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hothandle4use
Is there a list of 'females' who play this game. That is what my question was all about.


Collarme doesn't allow blacklisting. So no such list exists.

Even if it did, users wouldn't be allowed to mention it on this forum.

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 4/2/2013 6:26:17 AM >

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:27:30 AM   
thursdays


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< Message edited by thursdays -- 4/2/2013 6:28:24 AM >

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:28:51 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Sorry! I misunderstood your OP and thought you'd parted with money, so my apologies if my response seemed short or snarky - It's just you wouldn't believe the idiots that come here sometimes, so desperate for their wank-fix that they'll send money to random strangers over and over again.

There are a few genuine fin-dommes here, but there are many many fakes. There's no "list" (as it's against the terms of service of the site).

My advice would be to suggest to your friends that they go to a well-known site that specialises in fin dommes.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:29:42 AM   
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I had a fake Mistress once. I made her out of Peeps.

But I had to get rid of her. She turned out to be an old softy.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:33:49 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hothandle4use

how many of you have had contact with fake mistresses who first want money before any further contact and after paying they still don't want contact, cam etc.?


Well I have had scammers ask for money but I was never stupid enough to send it to them so I have no idea what would have happened if I had. Perhaps next time you should think with the head between your shoulders and not the one residing in your pants.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:34:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hothandle4use
My question was if anybody had any negative experiences with this. Is there a list of 'females' who play this game. That is what my question was all about.


Yes, many people have experienced this. Simply ignore them and move on.

Do a search for any of the following terms here on CM, and you'll find an infinite number of threads on the topic at hand:

-Fake Dommes
-Fakes
-Fake Mistresses
-Financial Dommes
-Scammers
-Money grubbing whores

This is not a new topic around here. The search function will reveal a plethora of useful info.

BTW, it is against CM's rules to blacklist other members.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:37:13 AM   
hothandle4use


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Status: offline 		Ok thank you for your responses. I also have the feeling that there are many many fakes.
That there are also men who pretent to be mistresses.
These kind of people pollute this site in a huge, huge way and make it far less worthwhile.
So why not a list?
Say that appears after 5 times the same experience

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:39:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hothandle4use

So why not a list?



http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 6:53:39 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		Here I did the leg work for you. The Mods have several threads (under Administrative Announcements) for your reading pleasure that will tell you what is okay and not okay here on Collarme and the forums.....Hope this helps.

Why We Don't Allow Blacklists:
This issue comes up so often in posts by new members that we felt it necessary to make a special post about this one issue. To be sure, there are all kinds of people in the world and, given that we (like other public websites) don't have the ability to dictate who joins our website, you will meet all kinds of people here; some very nice (like yourself), some not so much. It is perhaps for this reason that new users are wont to post about their bad experiences with this or that person or even come up with the very original idea of making a list of all the "bad" users on the site. As has been recounted countless times, the fundamental flaw with this idea is not that it is ill intended, it is that there is not, nor can there be, any fact checking of such claims.

If you still believe that blacklists are a good idea then consider the following thought experiment. Suppose that someone made up a malicious and horrible lie about you and posted it to a blacklist on the forum. Would you want us to take it down after you informed us of your innocence or would you be fine with us leaving it up despite your most impassioned pleas that the facts alleged about you were false? It is a pretty safe bet that you would want those false claims removed in a hurry. Now let us suppose that true claims are posted about a real jerk attesting to what a jerk he is. Further suppose that this jerk approaches us with the same passion you did, demanding that the true assertions about him are false and must be remove immediately. Both you and the other user come to us claiming passionately to be innocent but which one are we to believe? When you know the answer to that question, you will know why blacklists are not permitted.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 7:00:13 AM   
hothandle4use


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Status: offline 		Hmm I read the general rule and the opinion of the moderator. If I may be so bold my suggestion is a littlebit more subtile and doing nothing is maybe even worse. There are a couple of sites with blacklists and they fuction well as far as I can see.
So after say 5 complains there could be a way of making this public.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 7:02:07 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: hothandle4use
There are a couple of sites with blacklists and they fuction well as far as I can see.



Then by all means, close your account here and go be on those sites.

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 7:02:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nah.....it is still useless, and there is nothing subtle about it. 

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 7:11:21 AM   
thezeppo


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Status: offline 		ETA; meant in reply to the OP

If you had ever had a PM from someone who had sent so many messages they had been blocked from sending more, that said something along the lines of

'These 5 users have pissed me off. Report their profiles and you can have a free cam session'

You would know why your suggestion would not work.

(Edited many times so it actually made sense!)

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RE: fake mistresses - 4/2/2013 7:12:42 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: hothandle4use

Hmm I read the general rule and the opinion of the moderator. If I may be so bold my suggestion is a littlebit more subtile and doing nothing is maybe even worse. There are a couple of sites with blacklists and they fuction well as far as I can see.
So after say 5 complains there could be a way of making this public.


You still seem to be missing an important point. What if there were a submissive female who refused to give blowjobs on demand at first meetings? It is quite possible that 5 Doms might express dissatisfaction with her behavior. However, the reality is that she would have done nothing wrong. All she would have done was to disappoint 5 horny men. Nothing more. Why should she be blacklisted for this?

Remember, the majority is not always right. And 5 is a very small number. The current system is probably more workable than your suggestion. Your way only works if we can take subjectivity out of the evaluation process.

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