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Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 2:10:29 PM   
slavejohn1234


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Status: offline 		Doesthis ever happen? A Domme woman puts a sub guy in bondage, starts to cane him, then gets carried away completely ignoring his limits? John in London UK.
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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 2:22:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Does it ever happen? I'm sure it does, and has. I hope it isn't a dream, or desire of yours though, or it might be a case of "be very careful what you wish for." M

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 2:52:56 PM   
myotherself


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I'm afraid your little fantasy is going to have to remain in your head.

Have you thought about taking up knitting?

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 3:00:13 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I have been with a Lady who took the session too far.Safe words were ignored,limits ignored.Needless to say,she is sitting in jail now for a number of charges,go figure.I've come across some women who are simply "man haters" or get upset and take their frustration out on the guy.Clearly those girls aren't what I would call a "Domme".I just call that simply abuse.

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 3:01:38 PM   
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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 3:39:20 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Well, with the prevalence of people calling themselves "dominant" and being untrained, unqualified or just using it as a an excuse to hit someone...I am sure it HAS happened. Yes, a "good" Dom/Domme" is always in control of their emotions whether it be anger or excitement but a bad Dom/Domme won't tell you he/she doesn't have a clue.

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 4:01:45 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 4:15:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		So, basically, you're saying that your dream is to give up your control to someone that can't control themselves.


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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 4:31:20 PM   
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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 4:38:41 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: slavejohn1234

Doesthis ever happen? A Domme woman puts a sub guy in bondage, starts to cane him, then gets carried away completely ignoring his limits? John in London UK.


I have to take issue with the title of your thread. It may be your dream, and thats fine, I doubt it`s most sub guys dream though.

Any Domme who doesnt respect my limits and especially safe word loses my respect, and therefore loses me.

< Message edited by Politesub53 -- 4/6/2013 4:54:51 PM >

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 4:47:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, basically, you're saying that your dream is to give up your control to someone that can't control themselves.



Maybe he should date someone with diarrhea.

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 5:12:39 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, basically, you're saying that your dream is to give up your control to someone that can't control themselves.



Maybe he should date someone with diarrhea.


I'm thinking he just shouldn't date.


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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 5:27:49 PM   
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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 6:10:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course it has happened. It's never happened to me. I'm a pretty hard core bottom and I like to play with pretty hard core tops. Any hard core top who "lost control" while topping me would be likely to put me in the hospital and herself in jail.

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 7:58:54 PM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		Oh sure. Everything is fine until the Domme runs around with scissors and some poor sub gets his eyes poked out ...

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 8:29:30 PM   
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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 8:33:28 PM   
Subano


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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/6/2013 8:39:58 PM   
korata


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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/7/2013 6:50:08 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Does it happen? Yeah, sadly it does. Doesnt happen here because I take what I do serious and Ive spent years actively learning in the areas of my particular interests. Dominance is about so much more than just getting your way all the time. It's a huge fucking responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly. Frankly someone who is in a dominant position and loses control and fails to respect the limits has no business doing it.

While I'm not trying to judge your kink or anything, you should think long and hard about this dream of yours because sadly I can pretty much guarantee you will find someone who will do this. Question is are you prepared to pay the price for it?

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RE: Sub guys dream ot Domme losing control - 4/7/2013 8:13:06 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		The Lady who kept ignoring my limits had a history of doing that with other guys too.The reason she is in jail now is partly because some of the guys she abused,came forth and told the police.Now she faces some serious felony charges concerning abuse.

There is a reason why there are some common sense rules in place.Safe words,respecting limits,etc.I don't mind a Lady pushing my limits,thats fine.But not to a point where there is complete disregard for safety.Again,I don't consider these Women to be real "Dommes" anyways.A real Domme knows what She is doing.

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