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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 9:17:05 AM   
wannapleez


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Status: offline 		Should I come out to Washington for a re-enactment? :-p

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 9:45:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		This I agree with.These are the 2 most important things I seek in a Domme/Mistress.





wannapleez: 1. to know that she cares about me (not that she's in love, but has some kind of affection towards me)
2. to know that she appreciates my service


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 5:18:41 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

First, I hope the other similar post I made in Ask a Mistress gets deleted and not this one. I had second thoughts about where I should have posted it and was made aware this would be the better spot for it. Anyway......

There is a thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it from the subs.

NBMG




;-) sex ...


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 6:25:35 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez

Should I come out to Washington for a re-enactment? :-p

Sure, I'm up for some fun entertainment. lol Gotta tell you though, I live in an apartment building so you'd be buck ass naked in the hall.

NBMG

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 6:27:11 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 6:29:06 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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(But that's just the basics).

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 6:31:28 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

Kink....hourly, flip of a switch....

(But that's just the basics).

lmao

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 7:49:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: wannapleez

Should I come out to Washington for a re-enactment? :-p

Sure, I'm up for some fun entertainment. lol Gotta tell you though, I live in an apartment building so you'd be buck ass naked in the hall.

NBMG


Checking flights to Seattle.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/3/2013 7:53:58 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: wannapleez

Should I come out to Washington for a re-enactment? :-p

Sure, I'm up for some fun entertainment. lol Gotta tell you though, I live in an apartment building so you'd be buck ass naked in the hall.

NBMG


Checking flights to Seattle.

I live about 80 miles north of there, almost to Canada. You better get a rent-a-car too.

NBMG


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/4/2013 5:46:25 PM   
wannapleez


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez


Checking flights to Seattle.

I live about 80 miles north of there, almost to Canada. You better get a rent-a-car too.

NBMG



Planned on it anyway. It's just that Seattle seemed to be the closest big city to fly into.

But the thought of you making me stand naked in your hallway.... DROOL!

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/4/2013 6:22:57 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez
But the thought of you making me stand naked in your hallway.... DROOL!

lol

NBMG

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/4/2013 8:35:02 PM   
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now it seems " " okay/eptry

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/4/2013 8:36:50 PM   
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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/4/2013 9:20:47 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/5/2013 11:28:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

??


I believe the word you're looking for is "WTF ?!?!"

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/5/2013 3:20:20 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

??


I believe the word you're looking for is "WTF ?!?!"


lol Yeah, that's it!

NBMG

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/20/2013 2:20:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ideally what I would seek from my Lady, if, indeed, I ever found her, would be a sense of belonging, & of being belonged to. Companionship, conversation & cuddles, &, a little bit of kink wouldn't go amiss !

I hope we all find what we're looking for.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/23/2013 8:16:36 AM   
MasterSadric


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Status: offline 		Well, just by posting here, you've got what most subs want: concern for their feelings.

Being older, I tend to attract people who have been around the blocks a few times, so I have heard all the horror stories.

The recurring theme from what the subs have told me, is that they wanted someone who cared, and got an asshole instead. If you look at the profiles of many of the subs in here, especially the women but some men as well, you will find over and over and over again, a simple desire to have someone who cares about them as a person first and foremost.

Oh, there are some who just want to be treated like a piece of meat, and those I tend to avoid because it is not in me to be that way.

You will find what you want because you are obviously a domme who is a real and caring person.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/23/2013 10:13:56 AM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: MasterSadric

Well, just by posting here, you've got what most subs want: concern for their feelings.

Being older, I tend to attract people who have been around the blocks a few times, so I have heard all the horror stories.

The recurring theme from what the subs have told me, is that they wanted someone who cared, and got an asshole instead. If you look at the profiles of many of the subs in here, especially the women but some men as well, you will find over and over and over again, a simple desire to have someone who cares about them as a person first and foremost.



I've heard some horror stories too...some of them send Me right over the edge into MammaBear mode. People who criminally victimize submissives who've given them their Trust infuriate Me. Domination should be GUIDANCE & MOTIVATION, not ABUSE....anyway, that's another topic...

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 5/23/2013 10:33:56 AM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: MasterSadric

Well, just by posting here, you've got what most subs want: concern for their feelings.
.......
You will find what you want because you are obviously a domme who is a real and caring person.

Thank you so much.

NBMG

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