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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 10:19:58 AM   
MikeyMike12


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 12:39:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

Id like a dom who can be compassionate when necessary, but stern and demanding. I need to obey, it is sortof my thing,so Id want him commanding and strong.Id like clearcut expectations.I need to be told what to do and when Im wrong, and I need a dom capable of punishing me.
I need a dom who can be respectful of my life and obligations.


If I could find those qualities in my future lady I would be happy for life.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 5:21:43 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much everyone for letting me know what's important to you. I've always felt that a dynamic is not just about the Dom/me but it's about both the Dom/me and the submissive. I'm glad I started this thread because I really want(ed) to find out what's important to submissives. I've heard some say they don't care, but I do.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:26:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Thank you so much everyone for letting me know what's important to you. I've always felt that a dynamic is not just about the Dom/me but it's about both the Dom/me and the submissive. I'm glad I started this thread because I really want(ed) to find out what's important to submissives. I've heard some say they don't care, but I do.

NBMG


It's two sides of the same coin, thanks for giving us the opportunity to express ourselves.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:33:37 PM   
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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:38:53 PM   
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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:45:10 PM   
Charles6682


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< Message edited by Charles6682 -- 6/16/2013 11:46:41 PM >

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:52:35 PM   
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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/16/2013 11:53:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LasDomina

Subs want ME


Why would I want you? You have no profile, I have no interest. Getting to know my future Lady, becoming close, wanting/needing to submit & give myself to her, achieving a deep warm relationship.

You seem to be the female equivalent of the 'kneel bitch' male dom, if indeed you are a lady.

I'm sorry, please forgive the rant. G.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 12:08:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.



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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 12:09:49 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I know for me, I can't just "submit" myself to just anyone nor would I want to either. I do feel something like submission is something to earned. Not just be expected or demanded, unless SHE is my actual Mistress/Domme.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 12:15:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart.
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.




Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 12:24:05 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		Ok,good point. I seek a Domme with a kind heart. What is that, a "Sensual Domme" I think? I don't mind a bit of sadism. Just nothing so extreme that I can still feel the pain weeks later!
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart.
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.




Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others



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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 12:58:39 AM   
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Subs want ME

...to go away.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 1:34:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: LasDomina

Subs want ME

...to go away.


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 7:33:43 AM   
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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 5:05:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I will say this much, I hear the term "bedroom submissive". Even though I have a vanilla side, I certainly seek something a lot more than just a "bedroom submissive". I guess a real D/s relationship is what I truly seek with alittle bit of vanilla on the side.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 5:08:45 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart.
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.




Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others


Well, I have a "Sadistically Kind" heart...I also keep hearts in JARS. You really should be more SPECIFIC.

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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 5:09:50 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/17/2013 8:03:53 PM   
tazzygirl


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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart.
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.




Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others


Well, I have a "Sadistically Kind" heart...I also keep hearts in JARS. You really should be more SPECIFIC.


Why? You more than proved my point.

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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