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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/28/2013 6:12:51 PM

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I think the thing of what to do with it was the monetary value that was put into it and not what to do with it in general. I'm guessing for LP, the finances she put into it was important to her which meant she was confused on what to do with it now, without losing so much financial value on it. This had zilch to do with emotions or the breaking of the relationship.

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/28/2013 7:14:08 PM

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Well I am not going to speculate LP can answer for herself on that particular issue... Frankly doesn't matter to me.

The only question that interests e in this thread at this point is who owns the collar and what to do with it if the relationship should end.

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/28/2013 9:01:48 PM

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Look, I have no idea how the relationship ended, and don't want to know.

It's none of my business.

I'm certainly not going to impute anything, and it wouldn't be my place to criticize even if I did have the facts, which I don't.

Me; I just click the 'Back' button and find a topic where I do have something to say first - and then go on to say it....

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/29/2013 6:48:36 AM

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To answer your question on "ick factor" I do get that, but more from a supersticious/symbolic stance than "ick"

It's daft, and depends on the item concerned - but a previous collar that failed would feel like bad luck to be reused in a relationship

Ick factor I get with things like gags - don't care how clean/unused it looks...

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/29/2013 12:10:50 PM

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(ETA) I also learned through the course of this thread, a little more support for My suspicion that females seem to think more about the "ick" factor of a leather item that has been previously worn by another. While I might not be correct in that assumption, I do think I see that response more from women then I do men. I'd actually like to investigate that further because I'm interested to know if that is really the case.

That question may have inspired this thread:

Ick factor with toys?

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/29/2013 1:10:41 PM

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1-Sorry to hear things went south for the both of you, LP and Clip.
2-It's her collar. She owned the slave and all accouterments. Thus, it's hers to do with as she wishes. End of story...or at least AFAIC. If she wants to dispose of it, that's her choice. He has no say in the matter. And if she wants to gift it to him, that's her choice too. But make no mistake about it, it's her property. I mean fuck, what the hell else do you folk think it means to give someone everything?

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RE: Donate or keep for play - 4/29/2013 1:13:42 PM

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That question may have inspired this thread:

Ick factor with toys?

I'm really hoping so. I think the outcome will be interesting.

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