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iamwhoiamabc123 -> RE: How can I be the perfect straight sub? (5/7/2013 9:15:51 AM)
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I believe we are over the post, but I might just change this post to "Inner release of stupid menwho dont know anything about the lifestyle rage posting thread" lol I mean common I apologized already I dont need more lecturing even after identifying that I'm not even a sub.
Thank you regardless of your ignorant posting,
lol I get that it was rude, I understand,
How you people stop trying to belittle me ever thought about that,
I guess not!
How about you guys just try breathing excise and stop bashing on me I started a differnt post that is respectful and completly in line, Im going to say one last time I dont need disipline on how to post a thread.
I'm sure the members appriecate where you are coming from, but I'm also sure the have had enough of it too and if not continue post here and look like idiots. I simply do care anymore about this thread.
Again I would like to think the people that did decide to bash on me and I am taking this information all into account, for future reference.
Thanks again bye!
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
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ORIGINAL: iamwhoiamabc123
Lol again you keeping on assuming I'm trying to learn how to be a submissive, I'm not people I'm not a dominant either thats why I identify as "vanilla" because I'm neither, And good job you noticed the two or three post out of the 7 that were actually useful the rest were a waste of space and I'm pretty sure I mentioned those people.
Maybe somebody needs to stop quoting certain sentences and start trying to see the bigger picture of meaning behind the words I put in bold lettering.
So, first you post such a general question that no one could possibly answer it completely, other than generalities. You also used language that you thought was cute. Then you got upset when everyone took it seriously and threw a temper tantrum. Then you wanted the thread deleted because it wasn't going the way you wanted. Then you keep getting upset because everyone keeps remembering your bad behavior.
Here's the thing: As a submissive, not everything is about you. Your temper tantrum, snark and flippancy within this thread is not going to endear you to a Domme. She's not going to want to deal with someone that tells her how everything should go the way you want.
Male submissives far outnumber female Dominants. You're one in a massive crowd. You need to bring your best presentation to catch her attention. Honestly, this thread does not do you any favors and you're up against men that present themselves as a much better package.
So, I would suggest five things to you:
1) Stop and think about what you're typing. This is a medium where the only impression are the words on the screen. We don't have body language or facial expression to see if you're joking or not. Plus, you have no experiences here, so the posters don't know your sense of humor to decide if you're being cheeky or just being an asshole.
2) Manners. You're offering to be of service to someone else. Women don't like to deal with jerks and those women are your target audience.
3) Read the sticky at the top of the forum. It has good information.
4) Submission isn't about your dick or your orgasms. It's about a symbiotic relationships where both sides get what they need. If the only thing you offer is sex, then most of the women will not be interested. Face it, if one of these Dominant women said they wanted to have sex and gave out an address, there'd be dozens of men outside within an hour.
5) Rein in the drama. The temper tantrum was childish and unattractive. No one wants to deal with someone that throws a hissy when they don't get what they want.
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