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tsatske -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/26/2013 2:32:44 PM)

Collar me for my last one. IRC (remember that?) for the first one. For the one in the middle, a usenet group (another remember that) called alt.torture. Are any alt.torture people around? I miss that usenet group.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/26/2013 3:29:02 PM)

I met myself online. When the world opened up for me and became bigger than my family and church.
I've been having fun with myself since.

WinD




Kana -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/26/2013 3:30:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tsatske

Collar me for my last one. IRC (remember that?) for the first one. For the one in the middle, a usenet group (another remember that) called alt.torture. Are any alt.torture people around? I miss that usenet group.

I used to read the stories there.
Funny thing-the lilone and I were talking bout the way back alt days just a bit ago. Man, seems so long ago....




SoftThunder -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/26/2013 6:11:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
I met myself online. When the world opened up for me and became bigger than my family and church.
I've been having fun with myself since.


Oh wise woman!

New to CM myself, but I met myself (or, rather, transformed my guilt and shame to acceptance and joy) online as well. In my case the catalyst was a.s.b.

I am still one of my best and most reliable partners.

Have had 3 long-term relationships (met through vanilla venues). After some time dating but before getting intimate, I brought up kinky play. 2 were kinky too and relieved to get to admit it and explore it. The 3rd was vanilla and agreed to play as foreplay.




littlewonder -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/26/2013 7:39:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tsatske

Collar me for my last one. IRC (remember that?) for the first one. For the one in the middle, a usenet group (another remember that) called alt.torture. Are any alt.torture people around? I miss that usenet group.


[sm=wave.gif]

an alt.torture and IRC old timer here. Those were fun times. I met tons of people from IRC and even had my own room and munch group there. I miss the alt.torture too. I tried going on IRC again last year just to see if it even existed anymore. There was a handful of people there and no one I remember.





WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 1:12:17 AM)

Welcome to CM SoftThunder Nice first post




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 6:12:01 AM)

I used to love the old yahoo, Irc, Pal Talk, and AOL.
I used to go to GCN as well.







RemoteUser -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 7:59:52 PM)

My girl met here on CM, over a year ago, when she approached me about my poetry.

If you mean places where people have met other people, I'm afraid I can't make any other suggestions, as few to no people use Telnet anymore.




SeverinVim -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 8:05:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

My girl met here on CM, over a year ago, when she approached me about my poetry.

If you mean places where people have met other people, I'm afraid I can't make any other suggestions, as few to no people use Telnet anymore.

I met my girl on Paltalk. Does that make me legally insane? :-)




Rasnow -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 9:32:36 PM)

At the pub




crwlon4 -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 9:49:47 PM)

I have met several real and good people here on CM. I met my current domme here as well, and I couldn't be happier.




blooma -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/27/2013 9:51:18 PM)

I met mine at a kink party through my sisters haha




lovethyself -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/28/2013 9:14:39 AM)

I met my current partner through CM.

Previously, I met one through a company christmas party (I didn't work there anymore, but was brought as a friend date by someone else). Lasted 2 years.

My other long term (5 years) I met at a friends 'single and bitter' party one valentine's day, long ago. He's still my best friend.




RemoteUser -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/28/2013 9:03:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SeverinVim

quote:

ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

My girl met here on CM, over a year ago, when she approached me about my poetry.

If you mean places where people have met other people, I'm afraid I can't make any other suggestions, as few to no people use Telnet anymore.


I met my girl on Paltalk. Does that make me legally insane? :-)


Not at all! It's not the location, it's the company. [:)]




descrite -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/29/2013 3:48:11 AM)

My current subs:

- Vanilla social function

- FL

- OKC

- FL

- FL

- FL




zubedangina -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (5/29/2013 7:56:02 AM)

I met my husband in college.

My ex Master I met on some random non D.s chat site.

Besides those two, I never had any other relationships I consider significant.




Boudica -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (6/9/2013 5:09:09 PM)

CM for both my boys and another play partner I had. All are good men and I'm glad to know them.




Thaz -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (6/10/2013 11:26:08 AM)

Cheeseplants house (way before usegroup ;-) ) (and we're still married)
OKC
CM
FL
FL




KitsuneKo -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (8/22/2013 9:38:54 AM)

Met my current in school. Started dating and both realized we we're into the same things.




seekingreality -> RE: Where Did You Meet? (8/22/2013 12:17:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

This is kind of a offshoot of another topic (To Munch or Not). Many people commented on where they met their BDSM partners...
I met both of mine on CM and noticed that, despite all the complaints about so many fakes and crazies...many people seemed to have succeeded on here...

So, where have you met your most recent partners (for those who have to make a list..only asking for the most serious or those you met in the past few years)?



Of my last three BDSM partners, I met one on Fetlife, one on CM, and one on Plenty of Fish, which is a vanilla dating site. However, I was able to establish from the outset on the vanilla site that I was looking for a BDSM thing. How? Sorry - don't want to give away my secrets to the competition :)




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