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Zonie63 -> RE: So...here's my thoughts on the whole gawdamned thing..... (5/24/2013 5:26:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
You wrote that "Keep in mind, its very rare when a woman asks that question, she wants the truth." From a male point of view, it's not logical to ask a question unless you want a truthful answer. A man may be able to learn the correct thing to say in these instances, but he may still wonder in the back of his mind "Why can't she just speak in plain, direct terms?"
I agree. But it is because men and women think differently, one no better or worse than the other.
Think about it this way....a woman doesn't want to HAVE to tell you that you find her attractive, alluring, etc. She wants YOU (as in general men "you") to say it themselves.
We are all familiar with "fishing for compliments." So tell me, what is so difficult about giving her one when she obviously feels she needs it?
Many men do the same thing. Having sex and then asking "was it good for you?" Really, if she is laying there, moaning, panting, squirming and screaming (in a good way), do you REALLY not know? In these instances, for the men that do it, they want the woman to answer, "baby, it was so good, you are such a great lover, you have such a big cock, blah blah blah." Because even if she was faking it, she was faking it because she wants to make the guy feel good.
By the way, even if she didn't orgasm, it doesn't mean she didn't have a good time.
See? Not that difficult.
I didn't say it was difficult. For some men, it might actually be quite easy, at least in terms of understanding the signals, body language, etc. Men study women rather intently, and some men fancy themselves as quite the experts on women.
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