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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

FR,

I have removed the spammy links but am letting the thread stay for comedic value.

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

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What did my gf do at BDSM clubs/parties?

This is a case for the Silent Stalker app, exclusively for the iPhone 69.

7:18 | Arrived, checked coat.

7:22 | Powdered nose.

7:29 | Chatted with acquaintances, caught up on club gossip.

8:01 | Discussed difficulty of finding twue dominants with fellow subs.

8:24 | Began eating complimentary doughnut.

8:26 | Paused as unknown male said, "I love to see a BBW with a healthy appetite."

8:27 | Threw away remainder of doughnut.

8:29 | Strolled perimeter of play space, attempting eye contact with attractive doms.

8:37 | Spotted young, handsome dom who did not appear to live in his mother's basement.

8:41 | Struck up conversation.

8:43 | Took heart at his apparent eagerness to talk.

8:46 | Learned he was gay and was mainly interested in learning where she'd bought her boots.

8:48 | Told him and moved on.

8:51 | Murmured "Fuck it!" under her breath and got another doughnut.

8:52 | Ate doughnut with a vengeance.

8:57 | Perked up on seeing a former play partner enter the club.

9:02 | Sashayed (slowly so as not to appear overeager) toward him.

9:09 | Exchanged greetings with him.

9:12 | Feigned interest as he showed off new tattoo, depicting Queen Victoria in bondage.

9:15 | Tried to laugh convincingly as he said, "Between my bicep and my dick, I've reunited Victoria and Albert!"

9:17 | At his request, took Android photo of the tattoo for him to post on Facebook.

9:19 | Drew the line at photographing "Albert."

9:23 | Politely disengaged and wandered off.

9:27 | Got doughnut.

Here, alas, the record ends. My phone lost its charge, so no more Silent Stalking that night. Sorry!

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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

FR,

I have removed the spammy links but am letting the thread stay for comedic value.

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

FR,

I have removed the spammy links but am letting the thread stay for comedic value.

I missed the spamming?

I feel soooo distraught now.

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ORIGINAL: panty20130510

I guess my real question is that I'm trying to deduce what my girlfriend has done in these parties. We've been dating for a few months and are already very serious, and she's told me that she was in a BDSM relationship of sorts with a certain guy, years ago, for a few months.........I just want to know what these relationships are typically like.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

How can you pick up a rope slut and then come here and ask us if she is slut? Yes, your GF, her GF and their Dom all used to hump like bunnies. One girl was tea baggin' while the other was deep throating. Why would he bother having a pair of sluts if he wasn't gonna use them sexually. The thing you gotta' ask yourself is why she won't share her GF with you like she did their old Dom?

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ORIGINAL: panty20130510

Hi. Thanks in advance for any input you can give me.

My questions have to do with what happens at a BDSM club/party. I guess my real question is that I'm trying to deduce what my girlfriend has done in these parties. We've been dating for a few months and are already very serious, and she's told me that she was in a BDSM relationship of sorts with a certain guy, years ago, for a few months. She didn't give me details, except that she's into shibari (Japanese form of tying someone up).

I'm terrified, frankly, and really intimidated. Our mutual friend told me last night that my gf and her girlfriend used to go to BDSM clubs/parties, and that they both were somehow involved with this same guy, who was a Dom. Now I'm trying to figure out what it all means. Were they walking around naked, getting whipped in front of a room full of people? Were they getting banged by this guy, or by multiple guys? My mind is racing, and I feel like it's hard to move forward without having some understanding of what this part of her past is like. I just want to know what these relationships are typically like. This is in Los Angeles, if that makes any difference.

I know I could ask her, but she's reluctant to talk about it. Please don't respond with "Just accept it," or "Ask your gf." Any insight you could provide me - for better or worse - would be helpful and sincerely appreciated. Thank you so much for your time.

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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman
I love threads like this. Ya gotta admit, OP almost got away with it (backhanded advertising). Good marketing ploy, if nothing else. It kind of reminds me of those instant coffee ads that ran in a series a few years back. Soap opera drama sells stuff, I guess.

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ORIGINAL: panty20130510

Hi. Thanks in advance for any input you can give me.

My questions have to do with what happens at a BDSM club/party. I guess my real question is that I'm trying to deduce what my girlfriend has done in these parties. We've been dating for a few months and are already very serious, and she's told me that she was in a BDSM relationship of sorts with a certain guy, years ago, for a few months. She didn't give me details, except that she's into shibari (Japanese form of tying someone up).


I know I could ask her, but she's reluctant to talk about it. Please don't respond with "Just accept it," or "Ask your gf." Any insight you could provide me - for better or worse - would be helpful and sincerely appreciated. Thank you so much for your time.

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