LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady I completely understand what you are saying, but there is nothing to say that God condoned their behavior. While pedophilia seems to be too common with priests, the majority are still not like that, when you consider how many priests there actually are. No question, the pedophile priests were bad, and those that protected them were just as bad (perhaps even worse) as the pedophiles. If you said you would never be part of a church that condoned such behavior, it would make sense. But the assumption/belief that God condoned it is not only unsupported, but flat out wrong. Actually, it's not a dig at God (I'm an atheist) but those who purport to do his bidding. ie, religion in general.... The ones who (yousta) like door-knocking me. From when I was a kid, I thought then that church wasn't so much where God's worshippers went so much as the "right" place to be seen by other people at. Social status and posturing etc; that you were somehow better than the rest for attending. I hated church.... So you're wrong to say I'm wrong because I agree with you in that I don't truly believe a God would condone that behaviour, either. It's people who are no damned good - to paraphrase Gene Hackman's Lex Luthor character. Focus. Well, at this point, I can't remember your post and with 10 other pages to go through, I'm not going to look, but rather just say I'm glad we agree. I also very much agree with the door knocking. There are members of my church that do that, and are usually dumbfounded that I refuse to participate. Then they are flabbergasted when I explain that I firmly believe that everyone has a right to their beliefs and while they disagree, they will be quite surprised when they enter those pearly gates and see the never converted Rabbi from our local Jewish center waving in greeting. I also agree that many people attend for the social in-roads it provides. Our mayor shows up at several churches on occasion (never regularly attending just one). It's no secret to me why she is doing it. Worse though are the members of my church who seem to be "competing" with each other to see who is the "best" disciple of God. In church and in prayer group, they will come up with the most ridiculous thing (the evils of television and Harry Potter. Really?), the anxiousness to be considered "worthy" of laying on hands, and my personal favorite, speaking in tongues. They manage to do that at will! It's like a way of saying, "look how faithful I am, God has granted me this gift." Meanwhile, I know that they don't participate in local charities, and I saw one in particular (the "evils" of Harry Potter one), actually roll her eyes at a congregant who didn't move quickly enough so the "I'm so faithful" one could get into the seat she wanted. From my view, she was late, sit in the fucking back, lol. So yes, every church has their issues, but then so does any organized group, doesn't it? I would like to change churches, but I just talked the elders into sponsoring a particular local project of mine, so now I'm locked in at least for a while. I'm trying to learn how to laugh at those types I mentioned. Basically because someone isn't always around to keep me from pointing out their ignorance. But I really need my project to go through. It will do so much for my community. So, I make the sacrifice for the greater good.
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