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ORIGINAL: theshytype

Setting aside her elaborate story and her questionable parenting skills, something she did after the whole ordeal really bothered me: texting Whip and implying that she was being harmed when she wasn't. I find that to be an absolutely awful thing to do to someone, causing unnecessary worry. That one little action, to me, speaks volumes on the type of person she most likely is.

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Tazzy, her kids were with sitters and away for the night. Her youngest just happened to show up before I left the joint. He got a little piggy back ride from me. Personally I myself did not feel at any risk... however, I'm not certain WTF she was thinking though.

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She would not have done it if whiplash did not pass her "pre-testing".

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But she did not allow a stranger to come into her house and rape her, she took the effort to get to know whiplash first.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

Actually now understanding everything better. She did take pre-caution. Whiplash met her child before. She actually did make effort to ascertify if he was a trustable decent man, before she plan the deceit to get him to rape her in a realistic manner.

She would not have done it if whiplash did not pass her "pre-testing".

If it was indeed the original situation of her taking on a friend's debt, allowing some stranger to come into her house and rape her, that's another story.

But she did not allow a stranger to come into her house and rape her, she took the effort to get to know whiplash first.

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia


Nobody meets my kid after a first or second meetup. bo is the first man, bottom, sub, or slave I've met from online, in ten years, to know where my house is.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

Bringing some guy you only corresponded through Craigslist, phone, and text with IS NOT getting to know someone. It's the preliminary most sane people use to determine if they will actually meet the person face to face in a public setting. That's about it.

When you become a parent, you forfeit your right to act like a dumbass and do INCREDIBLY stupid/dangerous things like bringing some stranger into the home you share WITH your child. You sure as shit don't let some stranger touch your child in any way and you don't even let some stranger even lay eyes on your child.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

When you become a parent, you forfeit your right to act like a dumbass and do INCREDIBLY stupid/dangerous things like bringing some stranger into the home you share WITH your child. You sure as shit don't let some stranger touch your child in any way and you don't even let some stranger even lay eyes on your child.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

Actually now understanding everything better. She did take pre-caution. Whiplash met her child before. She actually did make effort to ascertify if he was a trustable decent man, before she plan the deceit to get him to rape her in a realistic manner.

She would not have done it if whiplash did not pass her "pre-testing".

If it was indeed the original situation of her taking on a friend's debt, allowing some stranger to come into her house and rape her, that's another story.

But she did not allow a stranger to come into her house and rape her, she took the effort to get to know whiplash first.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

What does grocery shopping and repairmen have to do with the subject of this thread? The difference as I see it is that I'm not on Craigslist soliciting the plumber or cable guy to come to my home and fuck me.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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Lets say some guy, less honest than you, was invited to her home. She gets the play rape, the jollies, he goes home. He comes back later, hell, he had time to scope out her place, sneaks in, ties her up, robs her blind, who knows, maybe not even alone. Kids are now at home.

Actually now understanding everything better. She did take pre-caution. Whiplash met her child before. She actually did make effort to ascertify if he was a trustable decent man, before she plan the deceit to get him to rape her in a realistic manner.

She would not have done it if whiplash did not pass her "pre-testing".

If it was indeed the original situation of her taking on a friend's debt, allowing some stranger to come into her house and rape her, that's another story.

But she did not allow a stranger to come into her house and rape her, she took the effort to get to know whiplash first.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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It is like you are assuming you possess the Golden Pussy and they will want to come back.

It is exactly I don't assume I have a golden pussy, that I am not worried about what you brought up, that if I make it hard for myself to be contactable, then, they won't bother and spend so much energy doing it.
You may have never experience a vindictive man who start causing trouble in your life, after you told him, you aren't having sex with him anymore. Yes it was casual sex. But I have. And these precautions are just smart. The last vindictive man hunted me for 2 years. I had to get the police involved at last resort, for him to finally leave me alone. And all the shit he gave me was just about asking for a fuck one last time and he'll leave me alone. And I refuse to be blackmailed into sex.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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Would you trust someone that was a proven liar to respect your safeword while you're tied up?

It depends on what kind of lie. I didn't see what this girl did was malicious, but she just was trying to make her fantasy come true. I didn't see any malicious intent, and would have judged her as harmless. Is she a great mom? Of course not. Was she really a bad person? Doesn't seem to be either.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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The "black and white" reality is that if someone wanted to find you, it wouldn't take much, and your imagined "luxury" of disappearing is non existent.

Perhaps, will have to take somebody very determined and patient, which seldom happens in casual sex, since it's fuck and forget.

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

When you become a parent, you forfeit your right to act like a dumbass and do INCREDIBLY stupid/dangerous things like bringing some stranger into the home you share WITH your child. You sure as shit don't let some stranger touch your child in any way and you don't even let some stranger even lay eyes on your child.

Can I safely assume that you don't mean this literally, and specifically mean in the context of dating?

If not, how do you handle grocery shopping, or having a repair guy come fix your toilet?

And if that's the case, why is it safer to have a repair guy come over to fix your toilet than bringing over a guy you've been dating, of whom you have the same type of information as you would have of the repair guy?

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Please don't refer to a child as "it." It's rude. Use him or her.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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The "black and white" reality is that if someone wanted to find you, it wouldn't take much, and your imagined "luxury" of disappearing is non existent.

Perhaps, will have to take somebody very determined and patient, which seldom happens in casual sex, since it's fuck and forget.

It wouldn't be difficult at all. Just follow you home. Simple.

And if you're having the casual sex in your house, again, easy. He already knows where you live.

If fucking at his house, while you're in the bathroom or asleep all he has to do is go through your belongings.

If at a hotel and you're the one paying, he could just go downstairs and get your information from the front staff. Yeah, they're not supposed to but it's amazing what a $20 bill will get ya.