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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:26:15 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		So, let me see if I get this all straight.

1 - a woman on CL advertises for sexual rape... not fantasy, according to her posts... but real rape.. though scripted by others.... to pay off a debt

2 - meeting is held at her home... not in a hotel room... not in a neutral place... but her own home

3 - she has children

4 - she lets someone into her home that she met on line through a CL ad, and she doesnt see his face until HE pulls her blind fold off

5 - he has the run of the house, the run of anything personal... and he even knows there is beer there

6 - after blind fold is removed, they talk, they drink, they play, they fuck

7 - afterwards, she cuts him off completely

8 - if anyone isnt seeing this as a fantasy, they need glasses

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:32:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
Honestly, I really wonder whether it is the language barrier or your own high risk behavior causing your statements.

We also live in different countries. Crime rates super low. The guys I play with are terrified of the law, they would not break it, I am very confident. If they break it, the thought of getting caned in jail till they bleed should be enough to deter them, and the law here really sides women, if I cry rape, the man is seriously screwed. Unless they are subs who enjoy these kind of things, but I don't play with subs.
I walk alone around here in the streets at night at 3am or whatever with no fear.
I suppose if I was in the US or UK or Australia, I'd be more careful.
And I'm a woman, OP is a man, so we have different considerations.
But the fact that she made all that shit up, tells me she's harmless and just looking for fun. Irresponsible to her child, but harmless, and this man will not be harmful to her child.
STD if he doesn't use protection, yes a possibility. That's his risk to take.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:35:22 PM   
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We also live in different countries. Crime rates super low. The guys I play with are terrified of the law, they would not break it, I am very confident. If they break it, the thought of getting caned in jail till they bleed should be enough to deter them, and the law here really sides women, if I cry rape, the man is seriously screwed. Unless they are subs who enjoy these kind of things, but I don't play with subs.
I walk alone around here in the streets at night at 3am or whatever with no fear.
I suppose if I was in the US or UK or Australia, I'd be more careful.


Whoa, yet in your other thread, you said she has no support from the community. You cant have it both ways.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:36:03 PM   
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Whoa, yet in your other thread, you said she has no support from the community. You cant have it both ways.

She doesn't live in my country. If she did, I'd ask her location immediately and turn up at her door. She's in a freakin muslim country, my neighboring country. Their laws are different there.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:36:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Then what country does she live in that you know so very well?

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:37:44 PM   
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Then what country does she live in that you know so very well?

Malaysia, we drive in there all the time.
Crime paradise, criminals get away with everything.
I was parked right at Macdonald's one right infront of the car guard station, where his standing, he can look directly at my car, and yet my car got smashed stuffs in it got robbed, and the car guard claims he saw absolutely nothing. Police was bored with me and pretend not to understand English.
Many of our locals got robbed over there by thieves with stringe and needle filled with blood, and claim it's contains aids, and threaten to inject you if you don't give everything up.
Our women gets stop at custom, felt up, asked to strip by male police randomly, even after complaining to the media, the authorities did nothing and just ignored it.
Her country is totally another ball game. I mean even their main city KL, religious police goes around arresting couples who dare hold hands in public on valentine's day. Imagine how much support this chick gonna get.


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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/5/2013 10:40:06 PM   
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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/6/2013 8:54:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

So, let me see if I get this all straight.

1 - a woman on CL advertises for sexual rape... not fantasy, according to her posts... but real rape.. though scripted by others.... to pay off a debt

2 - meeting is held at her home... not in a hotel room... not in a neutral place... but her own home

3 - she has children

4 - she lets someone into her home that she met on line through a CL ad, and she doesnt see his face until HE pulls her blind fold off

5 - he has the run of the house, the run of anything personal... and he even knows there is beer there

6 - after blind fold is removed, they talk, they drink, they play, they fuck

7 - afterwards, she cuts him off completely

8 - if anyone isnt seeing this as a fantasy, they need glasses


Tazzygirl, the beer I brought and put there. The first CL AD I responded included "mild rape" fantasy in a list of many things. To which I am down with long as stuff is consensual and we had talked and texted and emailed a lot... we were supposed to meet Sunday. Anyways, this is all screwed up. The second CL list she placed listed basically the same activities only without mention of a Rape fantasy.

Anyways, Yeah this was about somebody trying to TURN A RAPE SCENE into a REAL RAPE!! Look I really could care less if you believe in any of this. I myself ended up calling the Rainn Hotline http://www.rainn.org/ because this whole thing affair. Because I honestly believed part of the bullshit lies she had feed to me. So Yeah, I'm a dumbass. Get it? Got it? Good..

I'm done with this whole fucking affair... it's dust that's heading for the wind. The fictional parts of this story are the fictional parts which were feed to me.



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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/6/2013 8:55:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Not going to derail this thread any longer. Will continue this on the other thread.


Nice Avatar change over tazzy BTW

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/6/2013 9:02:13 PM   
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Thanky

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/6/2013 9:03:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

So, let me see if I get this all straight.

1 - a woman on CL advertises for sexual rape... not fantasy, according to her posts... but real rape.. though scripted by others.... to pay off a debt

2 - meeting is held at her home... not in a hotel room... not in a neutral place... but her own home

3 - she has children

4 - she lets someone into her home that she met on line through a CL ad, and she doesnt see his face until HE pulls her blind fold off

5 - he has the run of the house, the run of anything personal... and he even knows there is beer there

6 - after blind fold is removed, they talk, they drink, they play, they fuck

7 - afterwards, she cuts him off completely

8 - if anyone isnt seeing this as a fantasy, they need glasses


Tazzygirl, the beer I brought and put there. The first CL AD I responded included "mild rape" fantasy in a list of many things. To which I am down with long as stuff is consensual and we had talked and texted and emailed a lot... we were supposed to meet Sunday. Anyways, this is all screwed up. The second CL list she placed listed basically the same activities only without mention of a Rape fantasy.

Anyways, Yeah this was about somebody trying to TURN A RAPE SCENE into a REAL RAPE!! Look I really could care less if you believe in any of this. I myself ended up calling the Rainn Hotline http://www.rainn.org/ because this whole thing affair. Because I honestly believed part of the bullshit lies she had feed to me. So Yeah, I'm a dumbass. Get it? Got it? Good..

I'm done with this whole fucking affair... it's dust that's heading for the wind. The fictional parts of this story are the fictional parts which were feed to me.




I didnt say you were the fictional part.

Relax.... and let all this go. You got fed a bunch of bullshit.. and she isnt worth your time or efforts...

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/6/2013 11:40:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I didnt say you were the fictional part.

Relax.... and let all this go. You got fed a bunch of bullshit.. and she isnt worth your time or efforts...


It's sooooooo not worth it! Here's a funny thing too. I had mentioned to her one time about her voice mail being full... that she should clear it out so somebody could leave her a message. She told me she was avoiding Bill Collectors! LOL Yet, she took on some Drug Debt of a 16 year old girl? When she has two kids of her own? This is pretty fucked up eh? Wait, what is fact from fiction anymore. Ummmmm...

I should turn this whole damn thing into a movie script and see if I can sell it!! LOL I actually should combine some other surreal encounters into one big Script!
and become the Quentin Tarantino of the porn industry! This is like PULP FICTION level material.


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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:03:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
Honestly, I really wonder whether it is the language barrier or your own high risk behavior causing your statements.

We also live in different countries. Crime rates super low. The guys I play with are terrified of the law, they would not break it, I am very confident. If they break it, the thought of getting caned in jail till they bleed should be enough to deter them, and the law here really sides women, if I cry rape, the man is seriously screwed. Unless they are subs who enjoy these kind of things, but I don't play with subs.
I walk alone around here in the streets at night at 3am or whatever with no fear.
I suppose if I was in the US or UK or Australia, I'd be more careful.
And I'm a woman, OP is a man, so we have different considerations.
But the fact that she made all that shit up, tells me she's harmless and just looking for fun. Irresponsible to her child, but harmless, and this man will not be harmful to her child.
STD if he doesn't use protection, yes a possibility. That's his risk to take.


Yes, we live in different countries, with different laws. However, see that bolded part? That is not simply a cultural difference. It is flawed reasoning.

The fact that she made the shit up would be what made her dangerous. You are unable to understand that. I realize you will keep posting how it can all be ok, and it's bullshit, but hey, if a person has sense, they aren't going to more than shake their head at your post and wonder what kind of kool aid you are drinking to not get it, so it's no concern of mine. By all means, continue with your thought process and continue to share. I'm always up for a good laugh.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:11:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm very black and white.
If it's casual play, I couldn't care less about "honesty", because this person is not gonna be my friend or my life partner. And I am probably not honest with the person too. Like I never ever give my real identity or my real name, my real job, or any real information about myself when I indulge in casual sex, I will also use a disposable phone number, because I don't expect to form a long term relationship with that person and I'd like the luxury of "disappearing", when I don't want to see that person anymore. It is useful too incase you bump into psychos.

But as someone has point out that OP was alot more serious about her than I derived, then, yea..., I'd say, not bother with her anymore, not good for a genuine relationship partner.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:15:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I'm very black and white.
If it's casual play, I couldn't care less about "honesty", because this person is not gonna be my friend or my life partner. And I am probably not honest with the person too. Like I never ever give my real identity or my real name, my real job, or any real information about myself when I indulge in casual sex, I will also use a disposable phone number, because I don't expect to form a long term relationship with that person and I'd like the luxury of "disappearing", when I don't want to see that person anymore. It is useful too incase you bump into psychos.

But as someone has point out that OP was alot more serious about her than I derived, then, yea..., I'd say, not bother with her anymore, not good for a genuine relationship partner.


If you were "black and white" the things you say, even when others disagreed with you would still make some degree of sense.

Honey, you aren't "black and white." You are pink, purple, green, orange and red all rolled into one muddled color.

You think you are creating a situation which makes you safe as you engage in very high risk behavior. The "black and white" reality is that if someone wanted to find you, it wouldn't take much, and your imagined "luxury" of disappearing is non existent.

But again, go on with your bad self and have fun.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:17:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, even in casual play, you do not put non-consenting people in the way.. as in her children. Thats plain stupid. Maybe in your country with your ever so low crime rate, you dont have to worry about people returning to rob you blind, rape you, kill you or your children. Those are very real risks here. SSC, she blew it. Even under RACK, she blew it. You dont put kids in harms way, I dont care what country you are from. And, frankly, because she did so for a stunt to get all hot and bothered over puts her into the stupid range and not someone who anyone that is serious about the lifestyle, even on a "casual" basis, should have anything to do with.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:18:22 AM   
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The "black and white" reality is that if someone wanted to find you, it wouldn't take much, and your imagined "luxury" of disappearing is non existent.

Perhaps, will have to take somebody very determined and patient, which seldom happens in casual sex, since it's fuck and forget.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 12:25:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not when you invite them to your house.. for fuck sake. Do you have no sense of self-protection?

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 1:20:48 AM   
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Ok, even in casual play, you do not put non-consenting people in the way.. as in her children. Thats plain stupid. Maybe in your country with your ever so low crime rate, you dont have to worry about people returning to rob you blind, rape you, kill you or your children. Those are very real risks here. SSC, she blew it. Even under RACK, she blew it. You dont put kids in harms way, I dont care what country you are from. And, frankly, because she did so for a stunt to get all hot and bothered over puts her into the stupid range and not someone who anyone that is serious about the lifestyle, even on a "casual" basis, should have anything to do with.


Tazzy, her kids were with sitters and away for the night. Her youngest just happened to show up before I left the joint. He got a little piggy back ride from me. Personally I myself did not feel at any risk... however, I'm not certain WTF she was thinking though.

Don't get me wrong here, I was in this for what I could get out of it. So I myself engaged in something rather Risky. However, I ended up doing things my way and not her way or the way these fictional/characters in this plot wanted.

I did get an email from her last night, it's pretty clear this whole thing has been a wake up call for her. So while I was in this for my own reasons and to get my Rocks off. It did also wreck her hot rape fantasy scene and drilled some reality of the true Risks involved.

I really should not be so worried about her own stupidity in the matter. She made her choices just like I made mine. I could have indulged in really RAPING her ASS for REAL and Reducing the Bitch to Tears. (I perhaps passed up an opportunity many others would have jumped all over in a heart beat).

However, RAPE is not so much about SEX... as it is about Violence and the feeling of Power over somebody else. This stuff tends to be rather intense.

She clearly was not in tune with issues of Aftercare or even sub-drop, let alone safe and sane. The same is true with the fictional "k" character playing out things in this plot line.

At the moment, I don't honestly know 100% if "k" was real or made up or whatever. It really does not matter. I've made my point to her and to the questionable characters of this story line.

I was reflecting upon, how I did not simply call her ass up... and say.. BTW the rape scene which is getting setup for you is insane! and explain it voice to her! Instead I played along with it all. I think mainly to get my own Rocks off. Pretty intense for me to think about. That I actually had somebody under me which I could have literally Raped consensual, taken her to the extremes or done Whatever the fuck I wanted. The TPE thrill I think appealed to me the most, not so much the Rape Aspects of things. I broke the RAPE Scene, and instead wanted to enjoy 1-1 play time that was less intense. To actually snuggle up next to somebody along with doing crazy things like watersports. Yes, I did spit and choke and dirty name call and have crazy kinky sex. I introduced her to flogging even. Just all stuff the way I wanted done.

So I got exactly what I wanted out of this... So I should not complain. Plus I learned to lighten up about being such a clean freak before SEX.

I suppose if I had truly been in the mood for a full on RAPE Scene... She might have been gotten one HELL of a RIDE! I just was not in that Mood for it. I wanted the kind of HOOKUP we initially planned on having SUNDAY.

In all honestly, she's not relationship material. Not even what I want for an on going NSA deal even. I was nice getting what I wanted for a night, but it really was not what I wanted. Not the crazy story line, not the intense bait into turning a Rape scene into Real Rape and more. Don't get me wrong, I Love consent to take somebody anywhere, anytime, I want them. Forced Sex and such. Just not into having a sub top from the bottom and bait me into this shit I ain't into doing at the time.

I did a little bit of trade up by not taking a shower for two days! I'll never do that again for anybody. KISS and BITE my ASS. Although like I said, the experience helped me get over some of my own issues.

I'm no White Knight, I ended up using this girl the way I wanted to use her ass (ironic go figure). Though I suppose she'll find that True Rape Hookup sooner or later if she keeps playing Risky. This ain't my problem though. I don't own her ass in a D/s relationship. She was just a piece of ass, which I had hoped would be the makings of a decent play partner. NOT! lol





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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/7/2013 1:28:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dude, the fact that you have no clue what I mean is even more worrisome. Lemme draw you a picture.

Lets say some guy, less honest than you, was invited to her home. She gets the play rape, the jollies, he goes home. He comes back later, hell, he had time to scope out her place, sneaks in, ties her up, robs her blind, who knows, maybe not even alone. Kids are now at home.

Getting it yet?

This has nothing to do with you... and everything to do with her and putting her kids at risk.

But, frankly, I am surprised that a dominant would go through all this, to be honest. As far as you, it could all have been a set up for later. You were there, fingerprints all over the joint. She later claims something is stolen. What you gonna do?

What the hell is in the water around this joint???

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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