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A very ignorant warped view was stated, and I saw it a few times before, which I just had to address. If you seriously believe in your mind, that if someone has cheated, makes them a thieve, one is clearly delusional. A warped theory, that is so far in left field as much even more so then a cheater is closely compared to a pedophile.

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WHat a ridiculous thought I should show you remorse here. If I was to believe what you said, and practice it, then you as a previous cheater have fallen from grace, and have no hope. ANd for that I feel quite sorry for you.

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So you speak of God and covenants and commandments, but you do not believe in Christ? You use biblical terms, so you just pick and chose what parts you will decide suits your arguments, and ignor the rest? How very convenient and hypocritical.

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A very ignorant warped view was stated, and I saw it a few times before, which I just had to address. If you seriously believe in your mind, that if someone has cheated, makes them a thieve, one is clearly delusional. A warped theory, that is so far in left field as much even more so then a cheater is closely compared to a pedophile.

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4472963

All are sins. Yet here you are, in your words, claiming one sin isnt equivalent to another.

I have already explained the "thief" situation.

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WHat a ridiculous thought I should show you remorse here. If I was to believe what you said, and practice it, then you as a previous cheater have fallen from grace, and have no hope. ANd for that I feel quite sorry for you.

Unlike you, I dont make excuses for what I did. I dont pass it off to others as being "acceptable" now because I begged my man to forgive me, or "God". Nor do I stick up for others who admit they also cheated.

Its like sticking up for a drug user and saying... its fine.. dont worry about it... "God" forgives you, you dont have to worry about anything else, because if "God" forgives you, no one else can say a word.

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ANd honey, I would stick up for a drug user, and tell them if they try things can be okay, I wouldnt beat them up about it, making them feel no hope. Now thats me, and thats how I work, and Im proud of it.

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Since you brought GOd into it, learn what the fruits are of a Christain, or practice what you preach on this forum. Kindness and understanding and love of others is on that list of fruits because many of your posts break covenants.

I said I believe in God, not that I am a Christian. I don't believe in Christ.

So as for me believing in God, no I haven't broken my Covenant with God because I have not broken his commandments.

So you speak of God and covenants and commandments, but you do not believe in Christ? You use biblical terms, so you just pick and chose what parts you will decide suits your arguments, and ignor the rest? How very convenient and hypocritical.

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Tazzygirl, you yourself admitting to cheating, and you say to me I never should have put him in the position? That would be correct, I will give you that, but since you did the same thing in your life, its unbelievable your that ignorant to make a statement like that. You put someone in that position, maybe you think you should pay for eternity and you will if you continue to think as you do.

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Wrong Osidegirl! I didnt say one had to believe in Christ but I do.

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So you speak of God and covenants and commandments, but you do not believe in Christ? You use biblical terms, so you just pick and chose what parts you will decide suits your arguments, and ignor the rest? How very convenient and hypocritical.

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I see star has been here. Now there is an alpha submissive and you newbies should follow her examples as well as other successful submissives in the off forum world.

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Making excuses? Yes maam I had alot of things going on I have never discussed here, nor will I. But Im not making excuses for what I did, I own it, freely admit it. I also didnt beg anyone, which are making ass-umptions on. I decided to start over and keep my vows, to a man who loves me very much, and asked me to stay. He was willing to let me have a little side endeavor too if I so chose, but after much thought, I decided with help that was also wrong. If I couldnt stay married and stay within what I promised, I could not do it. So as I stand today, I am faithful.
THe way I believe sins are sins, but yes I do believe some are more mortifying then others. I never messed with a friends husband nor would I, I never saw a married man,nor would I steal from a friend, nor would I disgusting molest their children, or kill anyone, or beat up their dog.
ANd honey, I would stick up for a drug user, and tell them if they try things can be okay, I wouldnt beat them up about it, making them feel no hope. Now thats me, and thats how I work, and Im proud of it.
You work how ever you want, react how ever you want. I dont care, but I feel compelled to make a comment about something I dont feel is right, be damned sure I will be doing it.

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Just for the record, I tend to think that adultery is not excusable, I also feel that I don't know every story out there to make a blanket judgment call on the matter, so I try to keep my mind open. More often than not I think the excuses given for doing it are weak and self indulgent.

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Chi's gonna spank ALL OF YOU!

*darts out of the room*