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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 8/16/2013 3:09:02 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: bbbecky

I'm young only 20 (21 in Dec) But besides being drawn to bdsm I've always wanted to be married and have a bunch of kids. So if I can have the best/and worst (haha get it for better or worst...I know bad joke) of both worlds I want it. At this point I'm tipping my toe in the life style and just trying to learn about it so my focus is on the hubby and kids idea.


Many people have both. You'll be searching for a husband that's compatible with you in other ways, may as well add this to the list.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 8/21/2013 3:28:54 PM   
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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 8/21/2013 4:03:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

It's definitely the goal for me as far as FLR and being a Cuckoldress. I think it definitely takes things to a deeper level.


I would marry a Domme if she had similar interests.

I'm at a stage in my life where certain things are sacrosanct.

I want the magic....beautiful stuff.

It can be had.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 8/21/2013 4:05:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I won't get married again.

The first was enough of a living hell.

Reminds me of the Willie Nelson quote:

Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it!

Every divorce lawyer I know has that quote on something in the office

quote:

Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it!


Hahahahahahahahahaha....every penny LOL

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 8/22/2013 5:21:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		From the submissive side...I would have married him in a heartbeat.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/19/2013 7:02:32 AM   
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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/19/2013 12:54:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Absolutely. My sub is my lover first & foremost, then my partner, then my sub, irrespective of whether we end up getting married. If I were to remarry, I would truly hope the order of priorities wouldn't change, the only difference being he would become my partner in the capacity of husband/spouse.

Why would I want to marry a man who wasn't my sub and end up in a vanilla-ish marriage? Makes no sense. If I were to do something ridiculously absurd like that, I wouldn't be marrying for the right reasons, much less being in love, and I would have just been using my lover all along. Or even worse, he would have just been using me, sub or no sub.


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/19/2013 1:03:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fun2playwith88
Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.

Hell no, marriage destroys relationships. It's just a way to invite the government into a relationship, where it doesn't belong. People think marriage makes your relationship stronger, but I've never noticed that to be the case. I don't need a piece of paper to validate my connection with another human being, thanks. That would just cheapen what we have. It would be an admission that the relationship had failed, and that we needed "vows" and "paperwork" to keep things running smoothly. We don't.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/20/2013 6:12:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fun2playwith88

Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.


Well, considering the fact that I'm sub and....if I married a sub and we actually connected...we'd implode....I think that may be a bad move.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 6:15:45 AM   
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Would you be open to marrying your submissive half?


I ask her almost daily and she always declines.

Its kinda soul crushing...

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 3:24:36 PM   
brunettelace


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Status: offline 		I married mine. Of course I met him when we were 14 and 15....so I'd known him a long time by the time we were old enough to marry.

< Message edited by brunettelace -- 9/21/2013 3:25:02 PM >

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 4:34:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are some wicked bad views about marriage in this thread, especially those ending in divorce. Well, I give good divorce. My ex is still family and remains best friends. After 8 years, it was the marriage that didn't work. No reason we shouldn't still get along on all those wonderful levels that did work.

I've been married and I've been divorced. I have good relationship skills and both experiences were great. As I said 3 months ago on the first page of this thread, I would get married again. And that is what I just did. I got married to my slave (samdarella) 3 days ago on Sep 18th. We just got back from a nice little honeymoon.

You know your wife is still very much your slave if she falls asleep in the car on a road trip and when you wake her up from a dead sleep, she smiles and the first words out of her mouth are "yes Sir?" I present to by example, that good relationship skills make good relationships. When you are comfortable in your role and there is no struggle, your slave will wake up in their most unguarded moment smiling and say "yes Sir" because they are happy and truly centered in their role.


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 7:40:07 PM   
TigressLily


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Status: offline 		CONGRATULATIONS!!!

(Why is there no Congrats emoti ???)




May your union be truly blessed.


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 7:43:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

Would you be open to marrying your submissive half?


I ask her almost daily and she always declines.

Its kinda soul crushing...


But, it's obvious in her posts how much she does love you.

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
I got married to my slave (samdarella) 3 days ago on Sep 18th. We just got back from a nice little honeymoon.


Congratulations! I wish you happiness and health!

As one who has been married to her Master for almost 14 years, I can tell you it was the best decision of my life.


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 7:49:11 PM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		I've done this. The time I did, it wasn't the right choice. Would I do it again? Hmm, if my girl wanted to, and if she didn't that would be fine, because she's still mine.

Hard to believe it's been more than a year with my girl, but time flies when you're having fun (or happy, or both).


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 7:54:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I won't get married again.

The first was enough of a living hell.

My experience is that marriage is like Star Trek
The odd numbers suck but the even numbers make it worth going back for more.

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/21/2013 10:02:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

There are some wicked bad views about marriage in this thread, especially those ending in divorce. Well, I give good divorce. My ex is still family and remains best friends. After 8 years, it was the marriage that didn't work. No reason we shouldn't still get along on all those wonderful levels that did work.

I've been married and I've been divorced. I have good relationship skills and both experiences were great. As I said 3 months ago on the first page of this thread, I would get married again. And that is what I just did. I got married to my slave (samdarella) 3 days ago on Sep 18th. We just got back from a nice little honeymoon.

You know your wife is still very much your slave if she falls asleep in the car on a road trip and when you wake her up from a dead sleep, she smiles and the first words out of her mouth are "yes Sir?" I present to by example, that good relationship skills make good relationships. When you are comfortable in your role and there is no struggle, your slave will wake up in their most unguarded moment smiling and say "yes Sir" because they are happy and truly centered in their role.



Congratulations to you both! And I think it's great you've remained
close to your ex.


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/22/2013 6:12:43 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

Would you be open to marrying your submissive half?


I ask her almost daily and she always declines.

Its kinda soul crushing...


But, it's obvious in her posts how much she does love you.


As opposed to my posts where it's not?

I jest. Just yanking your chain Oside.
I didn't say she doesn't love me, I said she won't wed me.

Course, in fairness, that denial has a whole lot more with my concepts of what a "kept wife" is than anything on the emotional end :-)


(My version involves cages, total service, hours and hours of bondage daily, enemas, catheters, mad piercing, ink, stretching, enforced control of basic bodily functions, weeks in sensory deprivation and being slowly turned into an it. For some wild reason she's balking. I can't imagine why except general malaise and poor discipline, the cunt)

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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/22/2013 6:13:58 AM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		PS-Congrats RS. May the honeymoon have involved many many screams,hopefully at least a few of the blood curdling kind


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RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? - 9/22/2013 6:21:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Awesome news! Many, many congratulations to both of you

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