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fun2playwith88 -> Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 11:57:35 AM)

Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.




tazzygirl -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 11:58:02 AM)

Quite a few already have.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 11:58:35 AM)

Jeez - I hope he is, since he bought me a ring and all. lol of course, the next question is when........................................




OsideGirl -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 11:59:45 AM)

Master and I are married. (As are bunch of people in the forums)

1) Master wanted to make sure I was protected if something happened to him.

2) Marriage was traditionally viewed as a form of ownership.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 12:03:28 PM)

No, absolutely not. Regardless of the fact that I'm currently already married, I would not marry a sub/slave.




SimplyMichael -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 12:04:08 PM)

Its certainly my goal!




DesFIP -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 12:06:41 PM)

Being a submissive partner in the relationship, this isn't applicable to me. Yes, he talks about marrying me. I'm skittish.




lizi -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 1:17:01 PM)

I don't want to be married again regardless of what a future Dominant partner would think or want - it's off the table for me. Obviously I would make this known at some relevant point in the beginning so everyone was on the same page and knew what to expect.




SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 1:50:25 PM)

It's definitely the goal for me as far as FLR and being a Cuckoldress. I think it definitely takes things to a deeper level.




AllisonWilder -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 1:55:27 PM)

I would absolutely consider it, if I ever decide that I want to be married again, that is.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 2:02:44 PM)

I won't get married again.

The first was enough of a living hell.




littlewonder -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 2:07:10 PM)

I would love to get married again someday. I see it as the ultimate form of submission.




sexyred1 -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 2:08:44 PM)

I would get married again to the right person.

Or just live happily ever after in sin. [:D]




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 2:12:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I won't get married again.

The first was enough of a living hell.

Reminds me of the Willie Nelson quote:

Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it!

Every divorce lawyer I know has that quote on something in the office [:)]




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 3:00:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: fun2playwith88

Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.


His medical insurance is different from mine and adding me onto his would bankrupt us. There are other reasons why we cannot marry...one is that I am nearly phobic about being financially dependent on someone else.

We both own separate houses in different cities (mine is paid for, his isn't), both of us have an elderly mother living nearby who needs us. I cannot abandon mine and he cannot abandon his. We're stuck with being a two house family.

Besides, I love cats and he hates living with cats, lol, I have a zillion books and he doesn't enjoy reading; I have almost as many VHS tapes and DVDs as I have books...and bo only likes to watch old westerns on Netflix and the occasional violent or sci-fi movie (which he always falls asleep about 1/3 through).

I'm a night owl and he's an early riser. Really, it's better that we keep separate households so that both of us can be happy in our own little nest while visiting each other.

Psst...to me...that full sized pool table (that eats up his entire den) is just a waste of space. [;)]

And the deer trophies are only good for hanging my floggers. [:D]





SunTzuSwe -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 3:19:53 PM)

I'd marry a sub/slave partner as long as the feelings are there. :)




ResidentSadist -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 3:35:42 PM)

Of course.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 3:47:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: fun2playwith88

Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.

I've been married before and don't ever ever ever want to go down that road again. But, if I were open to getting married, sure I'd be open to marrying a submissive of mine. I'd want it to be my partner and my partner would, of course, be submissive.

As it is, I don't even want us to live together. I want to have my own space and him to have his own space. We will be together when we both want to be and not when we don't. That way different schedules won't clash and our different housekeeping habits won't matter to each other.

NBMG




JeffBC -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 4:32:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fun2playwith88
Just wondering how many people on here would be open to marrying their submissive partner.

No. I'd still want a life-long committed relationship but the legal landscape for marriage has just become way too hostile towards men. I would never marry again (under US law anyway). I'd have to do some research now that I live in Canada.

I wish my answer was different since I'm a marriage guy. But honestly it's just an insane legal risk for no reason.




Boudica -> RE: Would you be open to marrying your submissive half? (6/9/2013 4:59:07 PM)

Absolutely. Did it once already and had a fantastic 10 year marriage up until brain cancer took my subby-hubby. I mean to have it again!




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