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chatterbox24 -> RE: Do the rules of dating apply to the lifestyle (6/11/2013 9:39:44 AM)
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Rules, rules, rules. They can give a basic generic outline, every scenario is different. THe saying " don't play with fire, you might get burnt" is true, but if your cold and don't play with it, you might freeze to death too. " nothing ventured, nothng gained" is also true, but you have to have some common sense. In relationships we tend to toss it right out the window at times. NOt all rules apply.
A lot of those rules apply to generic human beings too, everyday people. The social norm as to what is expected in most of those rule books. Some people just not prepared for a full term committed relationship, and they might even care about you, but if they have demanding jobs that require a tremendous amount of dedication, travel to remote areas, its not possible to give tons of attention even if they are "into you" Its also a matter of how important they are to you, whether you can deal with less attention, or want too. Sometimes its good to adjust ourselves. Its just not possible to always be someones one and only. Life tends to get in the way.
If you find yourself always the one to contact someone, that's a real indicator they just aren't that into you. If they do contact you, but it isn't as much as you like, doesn't mean they aren't into you, its possible its life circumstance. I always liked a lot of contact, that's what I preferred, because without it I felt the relationship was faltering. IN actuality though, the relationship wasn't faltering, because the person I was dealing with was very solid and steadfast. I on the other hand, have always been very changeable, and if Im not contacting you it means my mind is drifting somewhere else. I also had a lot of time on my hands, where he did not.
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