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RE: Breath Play resources. - 6/14/2013 9:47:52 AM

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Absolutely, they should have. Especially coming out of the "HIV" era. Which is why I say... if I cant talk to my Doctor, I need a new Doctor.

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RE: Breath Play resources. - 6/14/2013 11:51:38 AM

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Which is why I say... if I cant talk to my Doctor, I need a new Doctor.

Ditto.

Especially when that topic involves "how to stay alive"...

Of course any Doctor is going to advice against breath play. But if he limits himself to just saying "don't" instead of saying "you shouldn't, and here is why, and here is how to mediate the risks a little if you're going foolhardily persist and do this anyways, against my warnings not to" you need to find yourself a better Doctor.

Not doing so is akin to a Doctor refusing to advice a diabetic on how to deal with cheating from the diet they're supposed to be on, what the risks are and why, and what the ways are to deal with the worst case scenario if I should happen.

Are you -general you- really saying that if you as a diabetic would walk into your GP's office and ask him "what are the risks of me eating an entire chocolate frosted cake by myself" and he just tells you "don't do that" instead of going over the risks and alternatives with you, he's Doctor worth sticking with?

Why on Earth would it be any different when the question is "breath play" instead of "sugary food for a diabetic"? These are health questions. They should be asked to Doctors. It's what you pay them for dammit.

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RE: Breath Play resources. - 6/14/2013 1:53:02 PM

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As some have replied, safer methods of breath play involve masks. I like gas masks.

If you really want to choke someone with your hand(s), but want them to live through it without crushing their windpipe, put your hand under their jaw where it meets the throat . . . then lift up. This pushes the tongue up into their throat. You can't really cut off their air completely that way because most can still breath a bit through the nose. It has a great effect though, very invasive, very threatening. Practice on yourself and see the reaction.

Niiiiice. I'm gonna be trying this one.
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-If you're really doing hard core breath play (We use belts and such), then you have to accept that there's a certain amount of inherent risk that you have zero control over and that what you are engaging in is a potentially lethal activity. In some ways, engaging in it is playing BDSM Russian roulette.
2-As has been mentioned before, it's often less about the result than the threat and the implanted idea. Thus, one can get the effect w/o engaging in the risk-usually just a hand lightly around the throat can take most gals way down.
3-If you do insist on trying some form, just stand behind her, clasp your hand around her mouth, and pinch her nose shut. Lots of fun and has much much less risk than strangulation.
I do this all the time. I like to hook my arm across her chest, pinning her against me, sometimes grab her hair or bite her ear real hard, and just clamp down, slowly suffocating her.
She doesn't know it (Well, now she does) but I keep a running count in my head-make sure I don't take her too deep. The best part about this is doing it repeatedly-hand over mouth for a 15 count, let her grab a quick breath or two, then take her down for another 15. I'll slowly extend it, maybe hold her down for 30, 45 seconds.
Yeah, that drops the Mouse in like 2 minutes flat. She'll start out all bright and shiny and in moments be all glazed with her eyes at half mast, starting the slo-mo movements and have woman juice's dripping down her thighs.
Our idea of a quiet night in. :-)

And gas masks and gags that allow breath control, yeah, they are groovy as fuck.
I need one of those gags-anyone know a good place to pick one up for a reasonable price, drop me a line.

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RE: Breath Play resources. - 6/18/2013 5:38:31 PM

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I'm going to come out of the closet and say that: I am into breath play and that includes choking.

The first time I did it as a newcomer to the practice a good time was had by all. The second time I reversed the direction my belt was around her neck and she fainted in my arms after about 4 seconds. That scared the ever-living snot out of me, she had never had a better orgasm and I was just kissing her. I then made it my mission to learn everything I could about it.

This includes knowing about hydro-dynamics, biology, neurobiology and certain martial arts techniques. I had to learn cardiology, biology of the neck and biology of the eyeballs. This has made it less dangerous. Note that I did not say "safer," I said, "less dangerous."

The reason I am so reluctant to give any advice other than, "don't do it," is because it still carries great risk and I don't want to be liable for giving someone bad advice on what is an obviously dangerous sexual practice.

I will give this advice though: it requires an extreme feeling of trust. If either of you has the slightest, and I mean miniscule, misgivings, then don't do it.

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