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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 8:57:36 AM   
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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 10:38:23 AM   
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I think you are missing their point. But alas,too distracted to explain it to ya.
You're right, he doesn't get it.

He's too busy sticking labels on things and getting hung up in unrealistic, one true-way-ism descriptions to understand.


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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 11:53:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hrxxx

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

I think you are missing their point. But alas,too distracted to explain it to ya.


In my hradall I could wonder was are these slave walks or romantic walks.might be kinda errr intresting slave walks under ablue moon......


In fact, they are talkking about submissive female
and I'm talking about female slave
I thought it was quite clear


You do realize I am a slave. Even a female slave is a submissive woman.

This is another area that seems to have you confused and stuck in terminology.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:02:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

I think you are missing their point. But alas,too distracted to explain it to ya.


In my hradall I could wonder was are these slave walks or romantic walks.might be kinda errr intresting slave walks under ablue moon......


In fact, they are talkking about submissive female
and I'm talking about female slave
I thought it was quite clear


You do realize I am a slave. Even a female slave is a submissive woman.

This is another area that seems to have you confused and stuck in terminology.



As am I, tazzy, but because we disagree with Sir Domly Dom our input is ignored. Makes me wonder if he will ignore the input of any slave who consents to submit to him.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:04:35 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		I dont think that is a mystery. His is the manly-dom-romance definition of a slave. "Shut up and do as told."

I keep waiting to see some of these guys realize... A happy slave makes a happy relationship.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:14:46 PM   
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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:17:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

Okso I know, all slaves are submissivebut not all submissives are slaves?



Correct. As a slave, I gave my consent once, to be his slave. Of course, before doing so I made sure his hard limits were pretty much the same as mine My choices now are do as I'm told or leave the dynamic. For example, I'm not a masochist. I don't really enjoy spankings, but if he wants to spank me he need only tell me to drop my drawers and bend over. He isn't much of a sadist, so it won't really go past a crop or his bare hand and I won't end up with more than a red backside (he's not a fan of bruises).


Submissives don't really give up their right to say no. At least not on a permanent basis.



< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 6/30/2013 12:21:21 PM >

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:28:33 PM   
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Do most slaves then start out as submissives for their keeper? I noticed around here people on the other side want slaves immediately.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:30:48 PM   
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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:32:52 PM   
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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:33:27 PM   
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Ohhhhh.

Do most slaves then start out as submissives for their keeper? I noticed around here people on the other side want slaves immediately.



A lot of people on the other side are wankers living in fantasy land and have never really owned a slave in real life.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:35:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

Ok so I know, all slaves are submissive

No, they are not. There are motivations besides and beyond submission or being submissive that can lead one into a state of slavery.

quote:

but not all submissives are slaves?

True.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:39:55 PM   
goodgirlmary


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What other motives are there?is there much differencebetween a slave and a pet?




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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:40:56 PM   
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Ohhhhh.

Do most slaves then start out as submissives for their keeper? I noticed around here people on the other side want slaves immediately.

That would be a very interesting question to pose and start a thread on the topic.



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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:44:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

I feel like I should be taking notes.
What other motives are there?is there much differencebetween a slave and a pet?





Greed, desire, desperation, insecurity, love, grace, companionship, compatibility, power, influence.. those are just off the top of my head.

Slave and pet are just degrees to some folks. An initial label is usually only good as a starting point for further communication. It's still people that have to match up.. not their labels.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:56:27 PM   
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No, they are not. There are motivations besides and beyond submission or being submissive that can lead one into a state of slavery.


quote:

Greed, desire, desperation, insecurity, love, grace, companionship, compatibility, power, influence.. those are just off the top of my head.


We differ on our definitions of slave, obviously.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:58:01 PM   
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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 12:59:40 PM   
goodgirlmary


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


quote:

ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

Ohhhhh.

Do most slaves then start out as submissives for their keeper? I noticed around here people on the other side want slaves immediately.



A lot of people on the other side are wankers living in fantasy land and have never really owned a slave in real life.

that seems completely true. But, I get a lot of youngsters.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 1:14:28 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Sir domly-dom (deliberate use of lower case here) is based in Thailand.
Like many islamic places (althought most are Buddhists in Thailand), it's home to the most chauvenistic and mysogenistic men of the world.

It's one of those places in the world where most women are treated worse than dogs and goats.
That may explain why his attitude to a "slave" is so grossly faerie-tale and archaic to liberated westerners that he has no way of comprehending anything much of what we are trying to say to him.

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RE: Online only? - 6/30/2013 1:15:22 PM   
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(Sorry!)

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