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MissReddy -> Online only? (6/28/2013 3:23:53 AM)

Hi All,
I have found this site a little odd. It is called Collar Me, but I have found that there are few boys on it who actually want to be collared in real life!
Most seem to be online players only or just up for occasional sex meets.
I have a set criteria, just as I would in vanilla dating; it is not too much of an ask to want an equally attractive partner in a relationship.
As a real lifestyle Domme I am finding it pretty useless to find anyone who takes it seriously :(

Has anyone else had a similar experience? or different?



DarkSteven -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 5:24:19 AM)

Yeah, there are a lot that refuse RL. Their single status might be suspect. Also, I wonder if some are afraid of women in RL and hide behind a keyboard.

That said, if you're talking collaring right away, without getting to know them, I'd be leery too.



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 5:32:24 AM)

I dont know,but as a leery girl on here, I dont buy much of what is being sold on the other half of the board.
People message you crazycrazy crazy things. Its good imo to ask questions,especially if youve listed it on your profile.,Maybe thats what is happening? If I think someone might be ok, Ill talk to them a while. It might be annoying but I know I wont meet immediately,nor give identifying info immediately.
I think due to the wackos,maybe other people wont either?



hrxxx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 6:04:26 AM)

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought



SimplyMichael -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 6:42:12 AM)

The personals side of this site is mostly scammers. Evert day we get more 5' tall 50lb women women so the owners get some benefit, probably helps with ad revenue or something.



hrxxx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 6:47:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The personals side of this site is mostly scammers. Evert day we get more 5' tall 50lb women women so the owners get some benefit, probably helps with ad revenue or something.


How you think that? I mean the site is free to use, and i cant`t finde other site that have girls at all.



MissReddy -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 6:48:16 AM)

I am not talking about collaring any time soon or even a rushed meet lol
I just meant taking any steps towards that lifestyle or showing that kind of interest to move to RL. Many I have spoken to eventually say they just want online, or part-time meets, as in sessions; I explain to them I am clear in my profile that I am not a Pro-Domme or online player.

On that side note: I have gym fit as I would actually love to meet a man who has an interest in keep fitting like I have and already looks after himself as if he has an owner.
Most men in London have gym membership, maybe they should start using it :P

Thank you for your replies :)



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 6:54:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought




This isintresting to me. I think its a really great oppertunity to mold a new slave. Completely change their bad habits.



hrxxx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:00:50 AM)

But maybe they need help from a Mistress to use it :). I dont think about the girls form to much, since i will make her traine everyday, to she get the body i want for her.




hrxxx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:09:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought




This isintresting to me. I think its a really great oppertunity to mold a new slave. Completely change their bad habits.



You probably can not change everything in one day, but with hard training, I see no problem to train a slave to physical exercise every day and help the slave of the extra weight.



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:33:11 AM)

Biting my lip.


I think thats very good ownership lol



garyFLR -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:40:10 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissReddy

Hi All,
I have found this site a little odd. It is called Collar Me, but I have found that there are few boys on it who actually want to be collared in real life!
Most seem to be online players only or just up for occasional sex meets.
I have a set criteria, just as I would in vanilla dating; it is not too much of an ask to want an equally attractive partner in a relationship.
As a real lifestyle Domme I am finding it pretty useless to find anyone who takes it seriously :(

Has anyone else had a similar experience? or different?


Hello MissReddy,

As a fellow Brit, I sometimes feel that maybe too much is expected of Collarme. Like you, I have a criteria when searching for my soul mate, but, I have made friends with some wonderful people here, mainly Americans, as this is an American site, the online collaring idea is perhaps due to the vast distances in the USA, where a real life relationship is not feasible, even though there is a connection between two people.

I'm finding that connecting with an 'RL' companion is difficult here, however, these message boards are great, you could maybe meet some genuine people & given time meet the companion of your dreams.

Good luck in your search, best wishes, Gary.



tazzygirl -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:40:41 AM)

quote:

But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought


Its no different than a man looking for a blue-eyed blonde or a green-eyed red head.... its personal preference.

She hasnt put down overweight or underweight guys.. she has simply stated her preference, which I cannot find fault with.



PamelaDx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:41:05 AM)

I have found this a problem also :-(



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:44:12 AM)

That makes sense, youcant do kink 24 a day..well you could I suppose,but youd need to be compatible.
Maybe you can add to your profile what you are looking for,or not looking for?



PamelaDx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 7:49:05 AM)

weird...



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:03:01 AM)

What's weird is you keep posting, some of us keep seeing it and you keep deleting it. You already blew it. It is okay to have more than one profile, but when you can't decide how tall you really are, what difference does it make if they are serious or not? That is weird actually. That you would be so vastly different, in each profile and insist on real time... how does that work? They may not know about your different profiles, but how do you explain to the ones that meet in person how you either lost at least four inches or gained them unless you are the stretch domina that can change in height... I won't comment on the difference in weight.

And if you are different people with these different profiles... you sure do think alike and say the same damn things, as well as posting at the same time, etc. Truly amazing to me or did I get into those green pills again?

I just love the irony of things and find it exceptionally pleasing in a hahaha sort of way, when someone is going on about the fakes or the players and are in fact playing themselves.



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:07:16 AM)

Wait! Whois the same people?



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:11:01 AM)

Guess you missed the post before her edit that said something about why she wants an experienced submissive and where she spoke as if she were the original poster. Changed it pretty quick and then changed the words and posted again and then changed it again. [:D] I saw that and had to go to the profiles, where I found the same words and different heights and weights.



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:11:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought


Perhaps it's not about being "fit" or a "gym rat" but knowing that someone already has the desire and will power to live a healthy lifestyle that meshes with hers.





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